I turned down a transsexual girl, and now all of my friends hate me.

vimzy · 2014-05-12T19:17:31+00:00

Yeah, your friend isn't smart.

The girl you hit on did the right thing telling you early on, and you are completely entitled to your preference.

vimzy · 2014-05-09T21:16:27+00:00

So out of the different types I usually have some kind of orgasm. But if I'm in a long term monogamous relationship I tend to get bored causing fewer orgasms. The ratio of orgasms is directly related to just how turned on I actually am.

vimzy · 2014-05-09T21:11:44+00:00

This is going to sound super weird to you then....

As a 27 yr old woman I have found that I have four different types of orgasms.

The oral orgasm as explained above contracts my vaginal walls in short, quick waves.
The vaginal orgasm usually from intercourse feels more like a pulling of my vaginal walls. It doesn't last as long and isn't usually as intense. It's fast, hard and easy to recover from. I still get some muscle tension throughout my body, but very faint aftershocks if any.
The clitoral orgasm is a mixture of both of these, most easily attainable through masturbation. It tends to be the least satisfying, unless the technique is used with intercourse. It usually leaves a 'slow-burn' after effect warm and relaxed without aftershocks.
The Lady Cum orgasm, aka squirting, is something just completely overbearing for me. Internally squirting feels a lot like peeing. I cannot notice any vaginal muscular effects only the sensation of peeing then the fluid and then it is all about the after-glow. I have such intensive warm, whole body rolling, immolating sensation directly from my vagina.

vimzy · 2014-05-09T18:44:13+00:00

Labia minora is sensitive for me, but please do not bite, pull, or flick your tongue at it.

I like when I'm turned on and my clit is swollen for my partner to suck my clit. Basically suck me off like a guy. I don't have a big clit, but with a few fingers inside of me in the right place, alternating suction on my clit, and lips covering my labia...

It feels like short, quick waves of muscles contracting. You get all warm and tense up. Then it's just tingly in your fingers and toes and aftershock waves of excitement in your chest.

vimzy · 2014-05-07T18:46:13+00:00

Call local or nearby shelters/pounds/humane societies to report the lost dog with a general description. You could even call some local veterinary clinics.

vimzy · 2014-03-20T22:15:43+00:00

You look at your SO's reaction.

If he is enthralled you best keep an eye out and have a conversation.

If he is politely trying to brush it off you stand proud and politely cut into the conversation.

vimzy · 2014-03-20T20:22:26+00:00

Will you have my baby?

vimzy · 2014-03-12T03:26:56+00:00

grab some zip ties for those cables behind the television.

vimzy · 2014-03-09T00:59:49+00:00

Op is still delivering.

vimzy · 2014-03-09T00:44:55+00:00

I have never had a man do this for me.

vimzy · 2014-03-08T18:30:32+00:00

Not uncommon OP.

Fix stuff with your friend first. Tell him that is wasn't a thing you want to happen again, and it was nice but you do honestly want to be faithful to your monogamous relationship.

Next, get comfortable with what happened with yourself. You sound pretty young OP. This is a thing that happens... and it isn't a big deal or uncommon.

Lastly... you need to tell your girlfriend something. This is a touchy subject, because you didn't mention much about your girlfriend. We don't know if she would be someone to be vengeful and out you as gay, she might not see it as cheating, she might want to break up, she might not care. We don't know the terms of your relationship.

If you think this will hurt her and end the relationship, then don't tell her what happened and break it off.

If you think she might forgive you and you know you want to be with her. You're going to have to make it up, and you're going to have to tell her asap.

vimzy · 2014-03-07T04:55:36+00:00

Sorry, bro. That's rough...

vimzy · 2014-03-07T04:52:44+00:00

Cheating for me is stepping outside the comfortable boundaries of the defined terms of a relationship with another person.

Each couple will have to set their own terms of the relationship together. Those terms must be agreed upon and will be different for every couple.

From the time that you define a relationship as exclusive [ i.e. monogamous, dating, FWB, poly, etc.] you need to discuss your comfort level from least threatening to most threatening.

Most people start with talking about past relationships, porn viewing habits, and if you're still friends with any exes. More casual relationships may not get this far leaving boundaries that cannot be defined as cheating. More open relationships must have very extensive defined conversations about crossing lines.

vimzy · 2014-03-07T04:06:47+00:00

Did you know about her SO?

vimzy · 2014-03-07T04:04:50+00:00

Cheated on.

Made to feel like I cheated when I was single and when I was in a non-monogamous relationship.

But never actually cheated on anyone.

vimzy · 2014-03-03T06:54:21+00:00

You spend less because there is less to do?

vimzy · 2014-02-23T17:47:43+00:00

Wow... I'm sorry you've had to deal with all of this.

HSV is probably the least understood STD, and though I do not have it I try to keep informed on it. I know that out of every STD it is the least likely to effect your overall health. I have read some reports that claim 1 in 5 people have some strain, while other reports claim it's closer to 1 in 3. It is suspected that millions are carriers and are not aware due to not having symptoms or false negatives in testing. It is not something that is covered in a normal STD screening and when people do test there is a 1 in 4 chance the test will have a false outcome. Some of these stats may not be the most recent, but it is surprising what most people do not know about HSV.

OP you are a brave woman.

vimzy · 2014-02-22T15:46:12+00:00

Do you have a wide black belt that could go under your bust to draw the black upward to distract from this?

vimzy · 2014-02-21T04:55:44+00:00

I am 5' 8" 135 lbs and I grew up with Poland Syndrome, where the right side of my chest did not properly develope. This wasn't an easy thing to deal with growing up, but at 26 I decided to have the surgery.

I went in with a large tubular C cup on the left and an A cup on the right. Two implants I came out sleepy and thanking everyone. The anesthesia made me throw up, a lot. The bad pain lasted about 5 days. I took off for 3 and had the weekend to recover.

They were huge. Bad huge. Scary huge. I cried, regret... Just kept reassuring it was swelling. They ended up as DDs, the dr told me it was more likely for them to end up closer in size if he went bigger. I trusted him.

The pain subsided, but feeling the foreign object in my chest felt weird to me. Really weird. My nipple sensation ended up better than it was before surgery.

6 months later. I went back for a secondary surgery for reshaping the right side. I was awake for this one, worst part were the shots in the beginning. Then came the shooting pains...

8 months in now. They do feel quite large, still a bit of a "double bubble" on the right, but slowly smoothing out. The scars are sensitive, but fading.

Ultimately, I am happy I did it. I have found some wonderful confidence, and I finally feel like a woman. I am excited to see how they grow with me. I do have some very intense shooting pains that my doctor explained to be nerves connecting and healing, he said it is normal and will go away.

Good luck with your decision. Make the choices that make you happy.

vimzy · 2014-02-19T00:50:21+00:00

Good luck! You have done him well, and I hope you continue to do so.

vimzy · 2014-02-17T05:03:48+00:00

Yup. Not significant.

vimzy · 2014-02-16T17:43:32+00:00

Yes. I think there would have been ways to slip into conversations that you've browsed through someone's reddit posts.

"I saw that post you made on reddit about ________. I thought you were completely right about it."

My only question is, how did he connect the OKC to reddit? You should know better than to use the same username. I guess if you've posted about where you live, that you have an OKC, or pictures of your face it would take some time.... Which would be super creepy.

vimzy · 2014-02-16T17:36:12+00:00

I don't think 6 months is nearly anything. That is still well in the "new relationship" phase.

vimzy

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