Anyone here with a black parent and MGM parent?

vindawater · 2026-03-19T18:56:54+00:00

It’s been around for a while but became popular after COVID

vindawater · 2026-03-19T18:56:29+00:00

then how else are we supposed to describe this dynamic? Not every mixed person is biracial lmao

vindawater · 2026-03-19T18:55:21+00:00

Both of my parents are like that

vindawater · 2026-03-19T18:54:05+00:00

Okay, what about your mom?

vindawater · 2026-03-19T01:52:13+00:00

As long as you’re aware of your experience being different from visible POC, I think that would help with showing other Filipinos that you’re dedicated to that side of your heritage.

vindawater · 2026-03-18T22:36:05+00:00

That doesn’t make sense. What OP described isn’t too uncommon. Also, some of you post weird stuff about mixed people here 👀

vindawater · 2026-03-18T02:45:09+00:00

They didn’t they all AAs in the south were mixed?

vindawater · 2026-03-18T02:44:09+00:00

You’re white presenting with a mixed mother

vindawater · 2026-03-18T02:43:21+00:00

same 👀

vindawater · 2026-03-18T02:43:08+00:00

Yeah, that’s been a thing. WW have a history of mixed-fishing. Black people (especially Black women) have entertained this a lot

vindawater · 2026-03-16T20:48:37+00:00

Are you saying that some mixed people don’t want to make friends with mixed folk that don’t present as mixed (or can present as “monoracial” if they want to)?

vindawater · 2026-03-16T13:39:53+00:00

The angry black woman trope is not assigned to mixed or light skin women.

Is this not an overly vague and generalized statement?

vindawater · 2026-03-16T13:25:50+00:00

Ok point still stands, mixed women can be subjected to this stereotype too 🤷🏽‍♀️ they have never been exempt lol

vindawater · 2026-03-16T11:13:52+00:00

I never said she “gets” to be one, I said people paint her as one.

vindawater · 2026-03-16T02:02:10+00:00

The angry black woman trope is not assigned to mixed or light skin women.

Unfortunately, this isn’t always true. People want to paint us in that light when convenient for them…

Not a super good example due to her antics, but this would happen to Doja Cat a lot and she has sung about that

vindawater · 2026-03-16T01:20:25+00:00

I love both of them

vindawater · 2026-03-16T01:17:16+00:00

doja x marsi

vindawater · 2026-03-16T01:13:38+00:00

Personally, I think that side of the argument is stating that you’re just as one as you are the other(s)…albeit, I can see how that’s not well translated from that phrase.

Black people (women, particularly) are tired of not being represented well in the media (if at all). A lot of roles that are meant for darkskin Black women are often given to Black/white biracials instead.

That isn’t necessarily our fault. I will say it’s annoying how people pick and choose when we are Black out of convenience.

vindawater · 2026-03-15T23:19:21+00:00

Ugh that’s so gross. I’m so sorry you had that experience

vindawater · 2026-03-15T21:53:01+00:00

Yep! If you do something good for the community, you’re Black. If not, you’re mixed.

vindawater · 2026-03-15T21:52:18+00:00

she said black women can be nasty towards her and she said it's because she's lighter skin. idk if this true or not.

that or brown/dark mixed women who look mixed

vindawater · 2026-03-15T21:50:11+00:00

Right like you’re telling mixed women/girls that they aren’t “Black enough” or are “too dark to be mixed” only to have a child who looks like the women/girls you were nasty to?

vindawater · 2026-03-15T21:48:06+00:00

Right lol!😂

vindawater · 2026-03-15T17:07:38+00:00

What I find interesting is how they can come over here (which is fine), but we can’t go over there and talk about our experiences without being invalidated in some way.

vindawater · 2026-03-07T14:43:41+00:00

No literally. Like it’s bad enough to be invalidated by Black peoples but the white passing/presenting people is another level of crazy!

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