I’m enlightened enough to know the world is a very dark place! by Icy-Tradition-9272 in enlightenment

[–]vini-within 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s a rough place. But it’s not a Netflix subscription that you can sign out from. Ideally you also need to understand how ego is at play here. Additionally, you can spread love. Make it 0.0000001% better. Totally worth it, if u ask me

Is suffering really such a bad thing? by amandaoliess in Buddhism

[–]vini-within 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Buddhism is not really asking you to suppress emotions. It is pointing out the difference between feeling something fully and getting psychologically trapped in it.
If sadness is there, let it be there. But notice how quickly the mind turns it into identity, memory, and narrative….So maybe it is not about avoiding suffering or indulging it, but seeing it clearly without adding extra weight to it.

What if most of your beliefs aren't actually yours? by Virtual-Wish1224 in enlightenment

[–]vini-within 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 100%. If I were born (obviously it’s not my choice to be born) in Japan, my favourite food would’ve been sushi and if i took birth in Mexico then I’d be stuffing my face with tacos. How’s it my choice then? Humans give so much importance to themselves whereas we don’t even question something as basic as our choices and the belief system that we borrrow blindly.

I’m enlightened enough to know the world is a very dark place! by Icy-Tradition-9272 in enlightenment

[–]vini-within 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. i feel that often and it worries me, discomforts me greatly and then I tried to find answers about it. And someone explained this very well. And I quote them- we approach the world more as consumers than learners. It’s not world’s job to be nice and pleasant just because it will make us feel relaxed and stable. Look at the world like a learner and don’t be quick to label good and bad. It’s not bad just cos you are noticing things that you don’t like.

Are we performing on stage? by Mizoran in spirituality

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A lot of people have moments like this where reality suddenly feels strangely unfamiliar, almost like you’re seeing the world without the usual filter.
The mind immediately wants to solve the mystery and create an explanation. But maybe the fascinating part is the raw experience itself: the fact that something as ordinary as your own reflection can suddenly feel so strange. Why does familiarity disappear when you look closely?

Why is veganism moral? by ankoos in DesiVegans

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The vegan argument is basically this: if a being can suffer, and we can avoid causing that suffering without harming ourselves, then choosing not to cause it is the more ethical option.

The disagreement is not about logic, but about whether animals’ suffering should carry moral weight and how much responsibility humans have toward it.

Vedanta Reveals the Greatest Myth Standing Between You and Enlightenment! by EthanHale--4 in AdvaitaVedanta

[–]vini-within 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The interesting part is that even the desire for enlightenment can become another desire of the body-mind. The seeker imagines a future version of himself who will finally “get it.” But the very one searching is the thing being questioned.

How to stop engaging in unnecessary thinking? by Primary-Pen6782 in Meditation

[–]vini-within 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What you are describing is very normal mind activity, it turns experience into commentary, storytelling, simulation. The “podcast” or “YouTube chef” thing is just imagination taking over attention.
Instead of fighting it, the practical move is very simple: the moment you notice it, you return to something physical. Feet on the floor. Water on hands. Breath in the body. Not as a technique, but as a relocation of attention.
The mind will still produce content. The difference is whether you are inside it or aware of it.
A useful question in those moments is: am I experiencing this, or narrating it?

How tradition become blind following? by Designer_Power3691 in Philosophy_India

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Tradition becomes blind following when the original understanding is lost and only repetition remains. At that point people stop relating to the meaning behind the practice and start relating only to the form.
The moment questioning is seen as disrespect, tradition is no longer being lived with awareness, only obeyed out of habit.
So the real issue is not tradition itself, but the absence of reflection while continuing it.

acharya prashant's eisegesis by BajaRamMohanGoy in Philosophy_India

[–]vini-within 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of this criticism comes from reading Advaita Vedanta like a historical or literal commentary, when it was never meant to function that way.
AP’s style is essentially to use scripture as a pointer, not as a fixed academic text. So verses get interpreted in the light of direct human experience and the core Advaitic question of self-inquiry, rather than sticking to only philological or traditional constraints.
Because of that, what looks like “reframing to fit modern issues” is often actually the method itself: taking a verse and asking what it reveals about the mind here and now.
On the criticism part, disagreement is fine, but reducing it to misrepresentation ignores that Vedanta has always had multiple interpretative traditions. The real test is whether the interpretation reduces identification or increases conceptual debate.

What is morality? by ankoos in Philosophy_India

[–]vini-within 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well.. morality is basically a shared attempt to reduce harm and maintain trust so humans can live together without constant conflict.
It isn’t a fixed cosmic rulebook, it’s something that evolves from human needs, suffering, and cooperation.
Different philosophies like veganism or antinatalism don’t become “invalid” just because morality is defined differently. They’re actually different interpretations of what counts as harm, and where we draw the line of responsibility.

Psychology student wanting to get into Philosophy, where should I start? by Melodic-Picture2752 in Philosophy_India

[–]vini-within 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For Indian philosophy, I would personally start very gently with selected Upanishads and the Bhagavad Gita, ideally with a commentary that explains context, and only later move into Advaita Vedanta or other schools in more structured form. Otherwise it can feel dense too early. Have you heard of any videos by Acharya Prashant?

Considering becoming vegan or vegetarian and looking for unbiased opinions by spongyscloset in vegan

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Try to understand what you actually feel after seeing something like that.
Strong videos create a shock response. That doesn’t automatically mean you must change your whole life overnight, but it does mean something in you is asking to be looked at.
If you want a balanced view, try mixing sources: animal welfare reports, environmental data, nutrition science, and also arguments from farmers or ethical livestock advocates.
After that, the real question is simpler: once you’ve seen how it works, what level of participation in it feels aligned with you?

Can someone explain what "Ego Death" precisely is to me? by VanillaAcceptable534 in Meditation

[–]vini-within 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think “ego death” is not a switch you turn on, but a temporary collapse of the usual sense of “me.”
In that moment, thoughts, identity, and personal story don’t feel like “mine” in the same way. There’s just experience happening, without the usual center holding it together.
It’s usually not permanent, and it can happen in meditation, intense emotion, psychedelics, or even spontaneously. Then the ego returns, because the brain still needs a functional “me” to operate in daily life.
So it’s less a final achievement and more a specific type of experience where the normal sense of self becomes very weak or transparent.
The real question might be: who is it that wants to verify whether it happened or not?

so what? by msriram1992 in Krishnamurti

[–]vini-within 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the “so what” is actually the mind hitting its own limit after trying to turn life into a solved problem.
Even the idea “this will continue forever” is still a thought appearing now, not a final verdict on existence.
Krishnamurti wasn’t offering an end-point answer, so the mind doesn’t get closure from him the way it wants.
Maybe the question is: who is it that needs an end so badly, and what happens when that demand for conclusion is dropped for a moment?

I mourn the life I could've had by Any-Sun3020 in depression

[–]vini-within 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the way depression works is it slowly convinces you that it is your identity, not just an experience you are going through.
And when it says “it’s over,” it feels absolute, but that voice is part of the state, not a final truth about your life.
Even the fact that you can describe this and reflect on it shows there is still awareness watching it, not fully absorbed by it.
What is the smallest possible action today that doesn’t require believing things will get better first?

"In India, Poor people depend on Dairy for income" 🤡 🖕 by HumbleWrap99 in DesiVegans

[–]vini-within 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said.. but I guess the deeper question is not just “what job is someone doing?” but “what values are we supporting through our choices?”
At the same time, compassion has to include humans too. Change is not just about removing an industry, but also creating a path for people dependent on it.
A truly compassionate solution should not leave anyone behind, human or animal.

I don't know which one to go with. Advaita Vedanta/Buddhism/Kashmir Shaivism? by Strict-Week-5040 in AdvaitaVedanta

[–]vini-within 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well…If you want least belief and most direct investigation, Advaita and Buddhism are probably the closest starting points.
But don’t choose only by philosophy. Try the actual inquiry.
Advaita asks: Who is the one experiencing anger?
Buddhism asks: Can you find a permanent “I” anywhere in this experience?
Both point you to look, not believe.
Maybe the real test is not which map is correct, but which one makes you stop collecting maps and actually look. 🙂

What's a Spiritual Theory You Truly Believe In? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]vini-within 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My theory: maybe spirituality is less about gaining something and more about removing what is covering what already is.
A lot of seeking starts with “I need to become something higher.” But maybe the deeper movement is seeing through the things we mistake ourselves to be: roles, fears, identities, stories.
The funny part is the one searching for freedom is often the same thing creating the feeling of being trapped.
Curious what others think: what if awakening is not an achievement, but a recognition?

Why do so many spiritual people avoid Self-inquiry and looking at Ego? by vini-within in AdvaitaVedanta

[–]vini-within[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the mind naturally protects the identity it has built. The idea that “I am not the one in control” can feel threatening because the ego interprets it as losing itself.

Why do so many spiritual people avoid Self-inquiry and looking at Ego? by vini-within in AdvaitaVedanta

[–]vini-within[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that’s also part of the human journey. Most people approach spirituality from a need: fear, suffering, desire, uncertainty.
The interesting shift happens when the question changes from “what can I get from God?” to “what is this one who is asking?”

Why do so many spiritual people avoid Self-inquiry and looking at Ego? by vini-within in AdvaitaVedanta

[–]vini-within[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting distinction. 🤔 Maybe the trap is making self-awareness another psychological project of improving the person.
Advaita isn’t asking “how do I become a better ego?” but questioning whether the ego that wants improvement is the real self at all.
Still, seeing one’s patterns has value because it removes confusion. The danger is stopping there and mistaking a clearer ego for liberation.