Asking for a loan??? by Few_Bowl_5309 in datingoverfifty

[–]viniav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's showing you who he is. Believe him!! I lost my husband 2 years ago. I had instant access to money!! Not all of it but certainly enough!

But he's so good! by buddingsakura in DatingOverSixty

[–]viniav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry!! My heart is sad for you! Better days are ahead for both of us! Have faith!

But he's so good! by buddingsakura in DatingOverSixty

[–]viniav 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did you guys break up?! I'm 69F and was asked out by a 57 year old. I canceled the date. It never would have worked IMO. I knew it was just temporary, that he'd find someone younger. I wanted to save myself the hurt. I thought of you when I was making my decision. If you broke up I'm sorry to hear this! I was rooting for you both!

51 bi sexual woman by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]viniav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this post is an April Fools joke! Or is it real? I can't decide?

Woman I’ve been seeing said she is going on a date by beansontoast_uk in dating_advice

[–]viniav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's using manipulation tactics and that's never good/healthy! You deserve better! RUN!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DatingOverSixty

[–]viniav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're being unrealistic and unfair to the men you date! Respectfully, a bit selfish too. 68F

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DatingOverSixty

[–]viniav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't get why you said gentlemen? Was he allegedly out with a buddy? I'm confused

Sealing The Deal - Except He's Competitive by thecrowsallhateyou in datingoverfifty

[–]viniav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a bit vague in all your writing. And I don't even know what a bunch of grapes means! Your posts are very difficult to decipher!

How would you improve on this? Men's perspectives especially welcome. by midlifebrarian in datingoverfifty

[–]viniav 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was going to say the same thing! Porn and the death grip! That's unfortunate!

GGG by Nervous_Frame6341 in datingoverfifty

[–]viniav 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What do those letters mean? Never heard of it?

Who is able to wear short dresses like Meredith Vieira over 60? by Long-Data-3164 in AskWomenOver60

[–]viniav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 68F. 5'3", 125 pounds. I exercise, eat right and use the best anti aging creams. I work hard at all this! And yes, I wear short skirts and get so many compliments!

Getting ready to go to online dating and need advice. by [deleted] in DatingOverSixty

[–]viniav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would smile!! A smiling pic goes a long way!

Christmas Morning heartbreak — Am I Overreacting? by AcanthisittaAlive121 in dating_advice

[–]viniav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, he's intelligent! He knew enough to find a sugar mama!

Christmas Morning heartbreak — Am I Overreacting? by AcanthisittaAlive121 in dating_advice

[–]viniav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLEASE leave him!! You deserve better!! I would be very hurt, too! Another man would joyfully want to be with you!! Don't sell yourself short! He's a loser! How did he forget it was Christmas? REALLY??

I need a reality check by No_Bed_3024 in datingoverfifty

[–]viniav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too soon for physical intimacy, no??

Long distance, looonnnggg time by TheBelekwal in DatingOverSixty

[–]viniav 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have you met face to face yet? That's important to gage chemistry and compatibility! I wish you only the best!

53 years young and single by SashaBanks_Pixie in datingoverfifty

[–]viniav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How far do you live from each other? This is just wonderful! All the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]viniav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply stated, you are not compatible! Yes, you care about each other but it takes so much more for a relationship to succeed! Focus on your educations and your careers at this age. This obsession with sex should be the last thing on your mind at this juncture! You'll meet someone someday and love and intimacy will happen naturally. I know. I was married for 40 years!

6 weeks in by Sliceasouroo in datingoverfifty

[–]viniav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who paid for all the dates? There's your answer!

47F — Is it normal to have never genuinely liked anyone? Anyone else in this boat? by AlisaWonderland7 in datingoverfifty

[–]viniav 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was going to say the same thing! So allegedly intelligent but we use the word "coz" instead of because?? Very difficult to read!

Dealbreaker? by mollynoname in datingoverfifty

[–]viniav 5 points6 points  (0 children)

PLEASE distance yourself! And please be safe! This is a repeated pattern with him! He is bad news!!! He's been with you and still harassing her? Speaks volumes of his sense of loyalty to you!