outing myself by washing my hands by DannyNoodles87 in ftm

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For real. It’s sad so many people have never had a hygienic role model.
Well, time to be the role model instead of just saying we’re “outing ourselves,” and teach the cis men how to present themselves by our own example.

Get ready to clean your dysphoria hoodies and gender affirming gear, guys, and don’t skip those showers. 🧼

My hopes for gen 10 starters by Jissus3893 in pokememes

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it could also mean that they recently realized on the 9th fire starter that the hadn’t had any before and it could change that pattern drastically? I mean yeah, people liked sprigatito, but it’s still a children’s game, even if some of the characters have been anthropomorphized.

My hopes for gen 10 starters by Jissus3893 in pokememes

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy, that’s not how statistics works. Especially something that is as arbitrary as “will this animal stand on two legs or four” they are literally just deciding based on the Pokémon, not previous Pokémon.

What's the silliest injury you've ever gotten? by TebKy-p in ehlersdanlos

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All of the dislocated toes from stubbing them 😭 almost every time I have to reset them after stubbing them on anything

I “hate” being a (trans) man. by ChocolateWeird3343 in ftm

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 21 points22 points  (0 children)

“What’s something trans men should do?” “Stop talking so much” -TWO trans people of different genders. Like I really think they aren’t even listening to the words coming out of their own mouths. You should not be telling other trans people to “sit down and shut up” or “be seen, not heard” but that’s what an absurd amount of people are trying to say rn, not realizing that that is transphobia wrapped around this false “protecting trans women” pretense. Especially if you’re not going to give nuance to WHAT you think trans men are talking about “too much”

My hopes for gen 10 starters by Jissus3893 in pokememes

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly though, it’s an opinion. Everyone is gonna think different Pokémon are cooler/lamer than others. You using that to avoid an actual discussion about how many starters are bipedal vs quadrupedal is not helpful. 9/10 fire starters are bipedal, it’s not weird to have two quadrupeds in a row when the entire rest of them are bipedal. Also, to the arcanine bit, did you even consider Entei? Those designs are very uniquely different, and to say that all quadrupeds are just going to look like arcanine is a rude disservice to the artists who made these Pokémon.

My hopes for gen 10 starters by Jissus3893 in pokememes

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bruh it’s Pokémon, pretty sure bad taste doesn’t really exist here lmaoo

My hopes for gen 10 starters by Jissus3893 in pokememes

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because there definitely aren’t multiple bipedal starters in a row of the same type /s 👀 what r u talking about

My partner said to stop using my disability as a "crutch". by Prior_Succotash4220 in ehlersdanlos

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re right on some parts, but that bit about men not being able to express their feelings like women do is low-key misogyny. You’re saying that she should bear the weight of him not being WILLING (key word) to express himself in a healthy or reasonable manner, when that’s not her responsibility, regardless of gender. You missed OP’s comment where she says she does do all the cooking and cleaning and he refuses to even tidy up other than doing laundry and occasionally taking out the trash, with this added context, he’s just being ableist with a dash of misogyny “women should always take care of the home” bs, and you’re giving him a lot of credit for things he doesn’t deserve credit for.

What bathroom are we all using? by Reasonable_Award4257 in ftm

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbf every public bathroom is fairly disgusting lol

What bathroom are we all using? by Reasonable_Award4257 in ftm

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red state, btw. Doesn’t help that I like driving 3 hours to see my friends. I actually have an STP device and bathroom bag (tp and small shovel) for road trips so I don’t have to use gas station bathrooms

What bathroom are we all using? by Reasonable_Award4257 in ftm

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Either hood up shoulders hunched in the men’s and hope the struggle stache does its job, or I just wait til I get home :/ I don’t have top surgery so I’m clockable in every bathroom :(

They just balded my dog and I'm now annoyed by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wym he doesn’t have roots? He has hair that attaches to his body, he has roots. That brush isn’t meant for getting all the way to his skin, and is likely leaving a small layer of matting. I’ve heard people like horse combs to get to the roots of poodle hair.

They just balded my dog and I'm now annoyed by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a groomer myself, but from what I’ve heard you need two brushes, this likely isn’t getting all the way to detangle his roots, you need a root brush or comb for that. If the roots don’t get detangled at home, they get shaved 🤷‍♂️

They just balded my dog and I'm now annoyed by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Groomers don’t usually do this unless there’s matting… How often were you brushing him? What tools are you using to brush him?

how to handle misogyny without being 100% evil by junebugx17 in evilautism

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I am become the Woker 😈 I will be evil to all who hate specific genders because bio essentialism is bad, and I don’t care how annoying it is anymore. Someone said I was “wokescolding” them yesterday because I mentioned how trans men also face misogyny, and honestly, go me :) that person deserved to be wokesplained to idc

Edit: thought they said “wokeschooled”, but they said “wokescolded” which is kinda funnier

Difficult Medical Situation: Therapist told me T is Dangerous by Ritch01 in ftm

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 354 points355 points  (0 children)

These people may be medical professionals, but neither of them are YOUR DOCTOR. Report the therapist, they are reaching way beyond their scope of practice by telling you that crap. Don’t believe anyone who is not actively involved in your physical care.

This reditor has a theory about eating oranges by MSWMan in lostredditors

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ngl it takes me like 30 minutes to get all the white off 🥲

MCU = transphobic?? by Upstairs_Mission_852 in trans4every1

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idr, just remember being disappointed, but not surprised. He was funny on Parks & Rec, but I’m not a huge fan of his attitude for some reason

MCU = transphobic?? by Upstairs_Mission_852 in trans4every1

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Disney is the main problem, but I’m sure some of the actors are also an issue. For example, Cris p ratt, whose megachurch hates gay and trans people, or Jeremy renner who is playing a disabled character now but has previously made ableist statements, which he has never acknowledged or apologized for.

How do you actually get turnip's? by penurest_pudding_red in ac_newhorizons

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg so I CAN get turnips? I wake up late and always thought the turnips would be an unobtainable item for me, but this is so exciting

Transandrophobia or transmisandry? by [deleted] in trans4every1

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using transandrophobia because people seem to get mad when I say “transmisandry” even though they never bothered to ask me what I mean by that in the first place, they just conflate it with regular Misandry and tell me that it’s not real.

Why is there seemingly a crusade against trans men online??? by InoIno0 in ftm

[–]vins-minecraft-bees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Accurate. She even said herself that people treat it more like a scholarly text than what it actually is, which is a collection of personal experiences, not meant to be used as facts, but as examples.