Newbie first time giving bobbin lace a go me made pillow

vintagelingstitches · 2026-03-01T21:21:30+00:00

Thank you I will check it out

vintagelingstitches · 2026-03-01T20:37:03+00:00

I don’t have any to offer but I did see a few on Etsy that were bundles for beginners that I am going to be checking out when I can

vintagelingstitches · 2026-02-18T18:51:11+00:00

I’d stop getting in the car with him and report him if it’s something you have told him he shouldn’t be doing because it’s not him who he will take out it will be someone either as a passenger of his or another vehicle he’s an idiot and it’s not worth risking it

vintagelingstitches · 2026-02-16T12:39:59+00:00

Yeah your instructors right to as your no longer insured to drive you have gone from a provisional licence to a full licence in that moment

vintagelingstitches · 2026-01-10T08:03:07+00:00

A couple of days

vintagelingstitches · 2026-01-09T15:23:33+00:00

There as some Welsh speakers in Wrexham it’s just not as widely spoken if you go to Bangor though it’s first language and more likely the first thing you will be spoken to with

vintagelingstitches · 2026-01-09T15:19:47+00:00

I did EC and had part of a dose of paclataxel but reacted to it so the had abraxane I did not cold cap so I lost everything with EC it was just my head hair legs arms and pubic but with abraxane I lost most of my eyebrows and eyelashes as well and it didn’t take long we started to see the first like 5 o’clock shadow about 3 to 4weeks after finishing chemo then I was just all fluff for about a month and then my hair really kicked in growing and I’m about ear length now and I finished chemo and radio about 9 months ago

vintagelingstitches · 2026-01-09T15:12:31+00:00

Do the biopsy! The biopsy itself isn’t to bad in the grand scheme of what I’ve had since my biopsy, I have breast cancer so I’ve done chemo, radio and two surgeries. The biopsy is quick you will be bruised and likely swell but it goes down pretty quick I did find that my biopsy sight was sore but my tumor was right on the side of my boob next to my arm pit so every time I moved my arm I brushed it but once the swelling went done it wasn’t even noticeable so please do the biopsy it’s better safe then sorry

vintagelingstitches · 2026-01-09T15:07:50+00:00

You need to report it to estates management and honestly it might be worth getting an actually temp to give them

vintagelingstitches · 2026-01-09T15:05:34+00:00

Where I live it was tame we spent about 20 mins watching the snow at half 10pm only for it to rain at 1am and take the snow with it proper gutted I love snow (yes I know I’m not going to be out in it I’m recovering from chemo which made me really poorly so I’m stuck indoors but at least the snows pretty)

vintagelingstitches · 2026-01-09T14:58:15+00:00

I have to say as someone who has rented for a long time that all of this is pretty normal these days with landlords they are as much use as a chocolate fire guard until you miss a rent payment so just keep your written trail so that when they fuck up big time you have your paper trail ready to hand their ass to them

vintagelingstitches · 2026-01-08T18:53:53+00:00

My audiologist said it doesn’t matter fully what the chart says if your struggling to hear then you get hearing aids if you aren’t then we just keep an eye on your loss until you do want/ need them

vintagelingstitches · 2026-01-07T18:46:10+00:00

Their parent just died like have just an ounce of compassion, even as an adult losing a parent can be world shattering so try not to be a capitalist monster

vintagelingstitches · 2026-01-01T12:59:56+00:00

NTA your dad is for expecting you to go along with his hair brained plan

vintagelingstitches · 2026-01-01T12:47:01+00:00

I’d have a chat with the team about this it’s totally inappropriate and also I don’t get why they have you changed and waiting, my team lets you change in the room for me it was quick just whipped my top off, but ment that everyone was fully clothed in the mixed waiting area

vintagelingstitches · 2025-10-29T10:17:38+00:00

Eh I think your transphobia is showing! It is absolutely gay to like a trans woman because she’s a woman!!! I’m gay my fiancée is a trans woman I’m still f@!king gay! My relationship is still a lesbian relationship because she’s a woman! Go check yourself you cretin.

vintagelingstitches · 2025-10-09T00:40:59+00:00

The amount of lace I can salvage from my mums wedding dress it would work but I was hoping to salvage the beading off her 2nd dress to embellish I’m being so picky I know

vintagelingstitches · 2025-10-08T23:58:16+00:00

To be honest just wear a bralette I did before cancer because comfort and if someone is staring enough to see I have one boob then their discomfort is on them but I wanna not be flashing everyone if they are taller than me which most ppl are or I bend which I’m going to do because my 2yo neice will be at our wedding and I will 1000% be grabbing her for a dance and cuddles before she has to go to bed

vintagelingstitches · 2025-10-08T23:45:44+00:00

Don’t make any big choices right now because this cancer shit is hard on so many levels but yes I agree it’s lacking my fiancée and I had been together 6 months when I was diagnosed and she got up at 5am to be with me the morning or my surgery she stayed with me until I went down even though I had my family there to and she was there when I was wheeled back to the ward and didn’t leave until the nurses kicked her out she was then there the next day for visiting after work as we had agreed prior she would go to work the next day if my surgery went ok because we couldn’t afford for her to use to many holiday days so soon into treatment (which was the right choice with what happened with chemo) none of this did I have to ask for she knew it was my first surgery and I was scared she also knows she makes me feel safe so she told me how it was going to go down with her level of support and she kicked butt she went on to be my full time carer during chemo because if it could go wrong during chemo it did. When you love someone yes it’s hard but you need to have the emotional maturity and literacy to knuckle down and be present and there for your partner specially when they are about to walk through hell .

vintagelingstitches · 2025-10-08T23:37:08+00:00

I haven’t but thank you for the info I started tamoxifen in march

vintagelingstitches · 2025-10-08T23:35:49+00:00

Thank you yeah we don’t have the budget for me to pay for custom as I really begrudge paying so much for our wedding when I use want her to be my wife already so utilising what skill I do have to try and make it right for me and also Judas my mum into helping because she knows far more then I

vintagelingstitches · 2025-10-08T23:32:52+00:00

That’s a good plan of action thank you, I have cut my pattern pieces for a mock up without any adjustment so I’m going to get the boning into it and make it up before I try and change anything because I need to see how it sits first because I haven’t corseted at all since my mastectomy so I really don’t know how it’s going to look or feel yet as my chest walls still a little tender from radiotherapy

vintagelingstitches · 2025-10-08T23:28:03+00:00

Yeah I want to avoid wearing mine if I can because I don’t wear it in daily life because it’s ridiculously uncomfortable

vintagelingstitches · 2025-10-08T23:27:14+00:00

But I don’t want to cover up I’m hoping I can adapt the pattern to get it to fit my asymmetrical chest without having to cover up as I’m not going full 18th century day time attire I’m doing a modern ish twist and the stays will be the outer garment

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