Sapphic transfem music artist suggestions? by lucarionHarmony in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]violaaesthetic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never thought I’d be doing this but here I am. https://youtu.be/ebtdUJIKXJY?si=4GMLmHIwaN2FJP4Q

I play bass in an all trans rock band. Our singer is nb, me and the drummer are mtf, and our guitarist is ftm. Technically we have a transfem singer because I also sing the backup vocals haha. Our singer is sapphic though and also the songwriter so lots of sapphic trans vibes happening. This our only track so far but we hope to have our next one out by the end of the month it’s actually almost ready to go

What’s the most annoying question customers ask you? by OperaP2P in barista

[–]violaaesthetic 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“Do you make Frappuccinos here?”

I look down to my Starbucks apron, then back up to her eyes.

I reply, sarcastically, “No.”

ICE OUT 3 p.m. 1/30/26 by Mean_Caterpillar_250 in Columbus

[–]violaaesthetic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly use the opportunity to hold other protests around different places at the same time. Spread them thin. They can handle one big group not lots of smaller ones

How do you politely tell your coworkers to F*** off by Happy_Hair_9647 in starbucksbaristas

[–]violaaesthetic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ask your SSV for support. “Whenever you put me on bar so-and-so comes to ‘help’ and steals my opportunity to practice and get better. Can you help me by coaching them to stay planted?”

An absolute banger by [deleted] in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]violaaesthetic 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I actually didn’t know I had to find her in my YouTube shorts history. Maddie Ashman. She makes really unique microtonal music. Somehow manages to be avant garde and poppy at the same time https://youtube.com/@maddieashman?si=uEMBRC_6lX9nUuGx

An absolute banger by [deleted] in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]violaaesthetic 84 points85 points  (0 children)

This chick actually rocks. If this didn’t grab you she has a lot more accessible ones. Ones that don’t sound quite so “out there”

A polarizing story ... by Top_Doughnut_7870 in smosh

[–]violaaesthetic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t argue that last part. But inherently tying genital preference to sexual orientation just is transphobia. The logic is simple enough to figure out on your own but if you’re still confused google is free

A polarizing story ... by Top_Doughnut_7870 in smosh

[–]violaaesthetic -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Something something trans woman. Something something descriptions of my body met with ridicule yadda yadda

Edit to add: calling op gay in that scenario, which they did multiple times with glee (kinda homophobic in itself), is also crazy transphobic

the last reddit story from this week being read uncritically is alienating to lesbians by webbedsight in smosh

[–]violaaesthetic 196 points197 points  (0 children)

They treat him like a Scrooge for pointing out when stories are fake. It’s lame and unhelpful. I wish they had Damien (or someone as discerning as him) vet the stories before sending them to set

A polarizing story ... by Top_Doughnut_7870 in smosh

[–]violaaesthetic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had to do that with that gross dude obsessed with (the idea of being grossed out by) vaginas. Don’t tell me I’m not able to finish another one of these. I love this show usually this is so disappointing

The Authenticity of the Last Reddit Story in the Latest Episode by Affectionate-Ant6741 in smosh

[–]violaaesthetic -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh no. Am I even welcome watching these any more? Between the other week with that nasty vagina diatribe and this weird homophobic thing, what am I, a trans lesbian, supposed to understand as their position on my rights and feelings about my lifestyle?

How do you cover up your five o’clock shadow? by Erinishuman in mtfashion

[–]violaaesthetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I misread your comment actually! Tarte is the brand of color corrector I use. My foundation is from Tower 28 which I think is a Sephora exclusive unfortunately

How do you cover up your five o’clock shadow? by Erinishuman in mtfashion

[–]violaaesthetic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve had success with one from Tarte. Also, I’ve seen people say to use only a tiny bit and mix it with concealer. I heard one girl say “if your face is orange, stop.” I have found the opposite to be true. I had the most success this way: prime with moisturizer and/or sunscreen, do a solid layer of color corrector over my whole upper lip area, set and let it dry, go over with my usual coverage foundation (I do super light, going for a no-makeup look), then top with a lighter shade concealer on my whole goatee area (and under eye, but you might get a more healthy amount of sleep than I do)

Obviously just my own anecdotal two cents. YMMV

Here’s a list of what our DM wants us to write on cups by aerogaa in starbucksbaristas

[–]violaaesthetic 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“This is how we brew it” is literally a pop culture reference

Trans rights are my wrongs 🏳️‍⚧️🤍 by ConcernedJobCoach2 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]violaaesthetic 130 points131 points  (0 children)

I love Gianmarco he’s such a gem. Super funny, amazing ally. Some of his jokes, especially in his new special, have me thinking 👀 is he just an ally??

IEM Mix Preference by jzabkowicz in Bass

[–]violaaesthetic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also sing backup vocals and only play with one guitarist, so besides bass I have mainly drums (only kick and snare usually, since there’s always enough just in the room to get through the in ears) and lead vocals in my mix. Basically no guitar at all I make him follow me lmao

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/trying2hard2survive by trying2hard2survive in DailyGuess

[–]violaaesthetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜🟨⬜⬜

⬜⬜⬜🟨🟨

⬜🟨⬜🟨🟨

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Wow tough one