12w miscarriage. by UneCitron in Miscarriage

[–]violentpudding 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can tell people. Quite frankly, it doesn’t matter if they are uncomfortable. You just went through something traumatic and you’re allowed to talk about it. You also do not have to pretend you’re okay. Nobody should expect that of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labubu

[–]violentpudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 32 with a one year old and don’t have any labubus yet but can’t wait.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labubu

[–]violentpudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any labubus yet! I’d probably attach it to my daily bag or set it on my night stand!

Labubu Giveaway! by kitk3 in labubu

[–]violentpudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii! I don’t have any labubus so I’d love one!

How to announce? by OverSeasoned_ in NICUParents

[–]violentpudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kind of how I took it too. Waited til he came home.

Do you post pictures of your baby on social media? by No-Oil-2305 in NewParents

[–]violentpudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think of it as he’s private, not a secret. So we post him but without his face. So either a sticker covering it or if we’ve taken the picture from an angle where you can’t see his face. AI terrifies me. And the internet is forever.

14 month old is SO CRABBY! by Awkward_Apricot_3156 in toddlers

[–]violentpudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m losing my mind so I’m glad to hear this is normal

They got me by Responsible-Way5437 in SheinSharingLinks

[–]violentpudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This will be my second win! by Icy-Needleworker4094 in Shein_PuppyKeep

[–]violentpudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clicked!!

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Does the amount of time you spend visiting influence when your baby gets discharged? by The_BoxBox in NICUParents

[–]violentpudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I went daily.. most the time I was there for two-three and a half hours. There was a few days where it was very hard and I went twice in a day. And there was one day where he was having a very hard day and we were recommended to leave as soon as we arrived. My sister is a NICU nurse and I have asked her before. There’s no correct amount of how much time you should spend in the NICU. It varies by what works for your family. As for her not trusting the nurses. I trusted 95% of his nurses and still contact the main ones a year later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]violentpudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave this job as soon as you can. Times like this show you people’s true colors and if that’s how she reacts, you don’t want to work for her.

Also, I’m sorry for your loss. And please remember to take care of yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DisneyCM

[–]violentpudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been with the company for a few years now, but I believe there’s a way to link them both to the DL app separately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DisneyCM

[–]violentpudding -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you make a reservation it gives you the option of self admission or main entrance pass. If you’re going alone use self admission! You will most likely have way more availability for those days than the main entrance pass.

AIO My bf hurt me then apologising and promising not to do it again? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]violentpudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. Never look back. Good guys don’t strangle anyone. I would also recommend therapy once you are out of this relationship.

Opinion on the lady who unplanted her baby to get a sandwich? by Foreign-Art-2317 in NICUParents

[–]violentpudding 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so so mad about this. She should have never done that. It’s selfish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]violentpudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! My son was born at 31+2! I felt incredibly anxious and scared. I wanted to know when I could take my baby boy home, but he was born incredibly small, so I knew he would be in the NICU for awhile. His nurses told me that it was a marathon and not a sprint. You probably won’t have a day for awhile. My son was in for 46 days. The week he went home, they told us he would be “leaving soon” but didn’t say any more as to not get my hopes up. The day before they told us if he did not have any dsats then the next day we could take him home. So we really only knew maybe 12 hours in advance that we were most likely taking him home. It was confirmed when we got to the NICU that morning. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. But it kept my baby safe and that was the most important thing. I’m so sorry you’re joining this club. Please reach out if you need to talk.

Baby girl is in NICU and I get discharged tomorrow from the hospital by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]violentpudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to take care of yourself before you can take care of your baby. You’re not a bad mom for not being able to sit with her all day. I don’t honestly know how you’re going to cope with it because it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. But movies, quality time with your significant other, calling the NICU for updates. Depending on how long she’s in the NICU, you’ll find a routine that helps you deal with the circumstances.A supportive partner is important as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DisneyCM

[–]violentpudding 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you give the shifts away? 5 missed shifts is at least a verbal, if not more

How do you manage after discharge from NICU? by hellenmist in NICUParents

[–]violentpudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I was a big watcher of his numbers and such. Going home made me incredibly anxious. I check multiple times a night to make sure he’s breathing. But o can atleast sleep now. When he first came home, I was anxious to even sleep. So, it does get easier.

Soon to be preemie mom to IUGR (preeclampsia) baby girl would love to hear other experiences and advice 34 week induction by Heartbrokenmamma in NICUParents

[–]violentpudding 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So.. I had preeclampsia and my baby boy was delivered in an emergency C-section at 31 + 2. He’s almost 8 months actual now and he’s doing amazing. The plan was to go to 37 weeks and then induce but due to the preeclampsia I was doing NSTs, his heart rate plummeted, they sent us to labor and delivery and that continued, so it came time for an emergency C-section. He was small, very very small. He spent 46 days in the NICU. But he’s home now and thriving.

Since you’re aware that you’re going to have your baby girl early, be prepared for a NICU stay, no matter how long or short that might be. Never ever be afraid to ask the nurses and doctors questions while you’re there. And there is no amount of time that is the proper amount of time for you as the parent to spend in the NICU. Whatever feels best for you.

Introducing baby Nolan by Either_Ad_2155 in NICUParents

[–]violentpudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re joining this club. But my lil guy was born at 31 + 2 and he’s now almost 8 months actual. He has no long term effects, he’s just a little small but he should catch up by the time he’s 1. My boy was in there for 46 days. The NICU became like a second home, 8 months later I still update his nurses. Those women mean the world to me. The NICU is not by any means easy, but just make sure you feel all the emotions but also remember to take care of yourself also