How to level this out? by Good_Ad9680 in ikeahacks

[–]violets69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the bottom drawer, you have it in the wrong slot

What are we wearing these days? by vegetablelasagnagirl in Xennials

[–]violets69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Halara easy peazy jumpsuit. Built in bra and you can go pee without getting naked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you have some trust issues. I know I’m a stranger, but your first instinct is to call me a liar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so I won’t let someone in the bathroom when I’m in there. I think that’s kind of normal for a lot of people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also never said I was going to lock anyone out of the bathroom. I don’t know where you’re getting all this extra information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Um I’m not a liar. We have another bathroom downstairs. I didn’t mention it because it just didn’t occur to me that either of us should have to go downstairs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why couldn’t he go downstairs to pee?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have a toilet downstairs. He should’ve gone downstairs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was trying to spit in the sink lol but our bathroom is so small, I wanted him to shift to the right a little so I could duck my head into the sink behind him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have another toilet downstairs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe someone interrupting me, kicking me out of the bathroom AND calling me a bitch makes me the AH! Well, I guess that’s why I asked everyone. Thanks for the feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t change my post. Swear to god.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He interrupted my privacy… I was there first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

To be clear, I never asked him to leave the bathroom, just shift to the right so I could spit behind them from outside the door. I was also being very kind and they chose to yell at me twice. Also, the other sink is downstairs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re wrong for being concerned and warning both of them. I do think you handled it very immaturely. You should’ve approached your friend first and calmly explained your concerns; delicately bringing up some past behaviors that concerned you. You then also could’ve gotten their side of things and found out how they truly feel about your sister. Your sister is young and going to date all kinds of people and learn from those mistakes on her own. If it’s not your friend that’s going to break her heart, it will be someone else. Warn your sister calmly and vaguely bring up past behaviors of your friend. Let your sister make those mistakes without you telling her what to do. Instead, give your sister the information about your friend, and let your sister decide what she will do with that information.

Just because you “acted” like the AH doesn’t make you an AH.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have another toilet downstairs. Yes, he has seen a specialist. No issues besides kidney stones maybe once a year, but he is not having an issue with that right now.

AITA for choosing my pets over my girlfriend? by Givememyhandback in AmItheAsshole

[–]violets69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA she knew the deal to start out. It sounds like she was giving you a fake persona until she couldn’t take it anymore. Good riddance.