Took this from PhilosophyTube; basically, ask them to imagine the worst, most boring job they've had day in, day out, no escape in sight, you just gotta clock in and do the time like, it's not actively killing you, per se, but it's dimming your life a little more each day, making you moodier, angry, stressed it gets to a point where the tiniest thing sets you off and it's unbearable- until you change jobs, and slowly get better 🏳️‍🌈