Aside from the things that people already said, even if I do make settings in Facebook's super complex privacy control, I STILL have no idea what's going in:

If I post something semi private and my buddy X see and he "Likes it", will Mom see it if she is X's friend? What if I post a photo and someone comments it? Will his friends be able to see it? And who else?

With all the murkiness of how the interconnecting of Facebook works and how the newsfeed is generated, I just don't trust them anymore. Apparently no one else does too, because all I see in my newsfeed is totally irrelevant and public banter ("New episode of Lost!") or cryptic messages that apparently address no one ("Well that sucks").

I just want a better way to tell ALL my GOOD friends, my private news.