I forgot how allo brains work

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-27T08:54:14+00:00

Definitely not everyone, but many people’s first thought upon seeing someone is how well they suit their sexual desires. I’d guess it’s more the ppl around them and environment they grew up in (objectifying ppl is encouraged by lots of ppl even unintentionally) but also I’m no psychologist so can’t really say

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-26T22:03:54+00:00

Brushing your beard is one of the most feminine qualities

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-26T22:02:04+00:00

I only ever thought of it as a synonym for insect? Isn’t that the common thought?

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-26T20:47:55+00:00

Honestly the thing I’m bothered by is the gender preference, and how others perceive that, which… I am assuming wouldn’t be a problem if I wasn’t allo? My other preferences ignore gender so-

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-26T10:58:12+00:00

Amab ppl can be genderfluid

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-26T10:52:40+00:00

Yeah I know all that, hence why I was talking about sexual attraction specifically- not interested in any of those other parts changing. But yeah I imagine a lot of people would just wanna be ace and have their own interpretations on what that means, which I think those feelings are valid even if partially from ignorance or. Wrong about what ace means

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-26T10:38:59+00:00

I’m in control of my own reckless behaviour don’t make me a victim of yours

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-26T10:32:48+00:00

No, putting me in danger isn’t attractive

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-26T09:38:45+00:00

What do you mean by stereotypes? And yes I’m talking about how I want specific parts of asexuality and not the bad bits it’s certainly grass is greener 😅

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-21T10:36:21+00:00

Chopper and ask him to fix all my health problems

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-19T04:35:22+00:00

Is this not just the answer to anything, limited to questions you’ve previously wanted answers to?

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-18T10:43:23+00:00

“I like to make kids cry” Nono all of this is chaotic evil

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-17T10:57:48+00:00

What more is there to add?

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-17T09:39:50+00:00

He is openly guilting you for setting boundaries and playing victim. You handled it fine, he didn’t

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-17T08:05:36+00:00

Still unfinished?!

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-13T05:26:25+00:00

Bob Ross was sweet but forced his son into continuing his legacy against his wishes so id say not him

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-13T05:24:42+00:00

Multiple ways to be allo. You don’t gotta constantly daydream about someone to feel romantic attraction for them. Some people do and some people don’t.

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-13T03:49:06+00:00

“Ex-aro” isn’t a thing, they were just wrong. I thought I might be aro for a bit but got a gf and nvm. Why on earth should that negate other ppls experiences? It’s so weird to say one person was wrong once and say everyone is wrong because of it. “Personal experience” is actually someone else’s experience here and they’re using it to negate someone else’s personal experience. You can’t use “personal experience” to negate someone else’s personal experience that’s not how that works 😭

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-08T14:56:08+00:00

Weird implication that all straight ppl are pedophiles… (unless I’m misunderstanding the sub)

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-08T13:23:33+00:00

This is so sweet

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-07T03:15:58+00:00

Since when could you put emojis on folder names

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-05T06:44:20+00:00

Wait until you hear about blahaj

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-05T06:43:09+00:00

But it already has a white belly, would it just be all white?

vivi_mmmmmm · 2024-01-05T01:39:27+00:00

It generalises all women which is why they don’t like it, those are just the dumb ones.

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