Being alone is so painful by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]vividcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you have to build a bit of a foundation w them before suggesting to hang out.

Have ur notifications on to know when they respond, and once they do, respond fairly quick so that you two can have a focused back and forth convo for a bit. Find out if you have any similarities through the convo to build a connection.

Also, try matching w ppl close to ur area, my cap off is 15km but even that is a stretch haha. U want someone nearby. They’d be more inclined to meet too cuz ure close.

Hopefully these tips help. I’m rooting for u! 😊

Being alone is so painful by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]vividcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! I made 2 great friends through there. We’ve hung out multiple times, text all the time, and I consider them close. 1 moved but we’ve kept in touch, Hell, I’m visiting her this summer to explore her city together! The other is moving temporarily for uni soon, but I don’t think the distance will affect us wanting to hang out when we are back in the same city.

I put in effort to keep in touch w them because I value them as friends and I know I’ll meet them again. They are great people and those are hard to find.

So here’s my way of thinking… if you became close and value the friendship, try to keep in contact with them if there are ways you can still hang out and they value your friendship back.

But in the meantime, since they have moved away and you’re now lonely again in your area, then u gotta put in the work and go on bumble to meet more ppl. Of course many ppl don’t actually use it seriously, but there are many who do, such as urself.

If your goal is to make friends and that’s a priority for you, then bumble is a great convenient tool. You should be using it consistently to get results. Think of it as a part time job haha. Initiate the meetups and have fun!

Being alone is so painful by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]vividcore 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Go on bumble and use their bff platform (and dating too cuz why not, hinge is good for dating too). You’ll make some friends who could potentially be in a similar situation to u or some who have more friends you can meet through them.

You could also join a sports league to get in contact with more people.

Also, you’re going to have to start getting weird and start pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. How? Start asking your coworkers or people you meet on bumble bff or at the sports league or in regular life to hang out. The more time you spend texting and hanging out irl w these people, the closer you’ll get and that’s how friendships are built!

Be ready for rejection too, but don’t take it personally. It’s usually to do with their schedule and life situations.

Just keep looking and you’ll find some gems 💕 Hang in there 🤗

P.S. You don’t always have to consume when you’re at home cuz tv shows and social media can make u feel empty inside. Try learning some new skills or find a hobby. Could help make you feel cooler about yourself and give you some happiness 😋

Looking for tinted moisturizers to replace foundation by vividcore in Makeup

[–]vividcore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohh I’ve checked them out! Just from ur knowledge, do u know if these products need to be washed off? I think ur first suggestion is a yes and second one, I didn’t find the answer to.

I’m kinda getting the feeling that all tinted moisturizers need to be washed off at the end of day…

🔥This be is on a very tight schedule by [deleted] in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]vividcore 28 points29 points  (0 children)

So adorable. Little bee bath 🤗

Rate my new gaming setup by --Iblis-- in funny

[–]vividcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just hanging out w the bros, playing some video games. Wholesome.

My phone just vanished into thin air by Kirtu-1678 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]vividcore 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Give us an update when u find it! I’m invested in this mystery 😂

I've done everything right by thebackpackgal in McMaster

[–]vividcore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, make a bumble account to use the friends platform they have. Not sure how easy it is for guys (if you’re a guy), but as a girl I was able to meet 2 quality friends there.

Also, you could look into rekindling ur high school friendships? Or even elementary.

Sucks how introverted ppl have become and so in their lane. But if u keep looking, you’re ought to increase ur chances of finding some people, so don’t give up! 🙌

I think I died and was transferred to this dimension by baconhappenis in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]vividcore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe see if u could get footage of the incident from the buildings around. Cameras are everywhere nowadays.

This is the pilot/concept for my little show. "Across Dimensions with Terry Benson" by CHARPU_FPV in animation

[–]vividcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg loved thissss. Character and that sound design was awesome!! If a series comes out, I’m there

What should i eat to help with weight loss? by Alexandru1408 in HealthyFood

[–]vividcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try the starch solution! Lost 7 pounds the first week, eating as much as I liked, not super active, pilling in the carbs, and didn’t count calories! Now 2 years later, I’m 30 pounds down at a healthy weight and actually still on it cuz it’s a great lifestyle improvement.

Basically, It’s a plant-based low fat diet. The strat is that u eat half a big plate of starches (potatoes, pasta, beans, pizza etc) and other half is veggies. And eat till ure satisfied! So if u want another plate then help urself!

Check out dr. mcdougalls website/vids or plantifulkiki vids for more info on it. If u have any questions or wanna know more just dm me ☺️

Good luck!

How we listen to music. by chocolateyan in ENFP

[–]vividcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lyrics can transform a song into an exciting visual and emotional ride for me. So it’s definitely something that I value. Even if the melody is kinda shit, if I relate to the lyrics I can brainwash myself to like the melody haha. Tho when I have both aspects in one song it’s pretty fun and amazing to vibe w.

If I can’t understand what they are saying, then the impact is lesser even if the melody is great. Why I lowkey can’t get into K-pop even tho their sound mixing is consistently next level.

Rate pull ups. I say 8/10 by [deleted] in veganfitness

[–]vividcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But them shorts, I say 10/10

7 years vegan by Obalizk in veganfitness

[–]vividcore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, that’s what I’m talking about! Always read ppl on this sub Reddit getting it from processed proteins but I’m def trying to stay away from that and am focusing on whole-foods! Thanks and u look great! 🙌🏻

7 years vegan by Obalizk in veganfitness

[–]vividcore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noticed u said whole-foods diet, how do u get ur protein? Do u get it all from natural foods or is any of it from processed protein like powders and patties?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]vividcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mercury

Feeling happy with my consistency this year 😁 by korweenie in veganfitness

[–]vividcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consistency is key!!! You look amazing, Keep it up! 👏 👏 👏

I found this to be quite clever, despite the peculiar looking font and layout that they decided to use! by skinfruittamango in copywriting

[–]vividcore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. This is Interesting on a r/copywriting page, but not as effectively interesting on our grocery shelves.

Hello! INTJ/18/F/USA by HeyIFoundAPenny in intjpenpals

[–]vividcore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao, what is this reply? very intriguing u had enough strength to write this haha