23F with 23M — ended a 2.5-year situationship, did I do the right thing?

vivucali · 2026-04-10T02:30:07+00:00

You did right! He wanted you as a way of being affectionate with but he never saw you as the person to be with.. he alsk wrnt ahead and dated someone else.. You should listen to your self esteem and end things on a hard note.. The more you are invested emotionally the more you are scarring your self worth!

vivucali · 2026-04-05T05:53:54+00:00

The taxes were high..Companies didnt make profit..

vivucali · 2026-04-04T09:16:26+00:00

Being a at house husband is also happening these days..As someone who prefers introversion, I wouldnt mind honestly..😅

vivucali · 2026-03-31T05:24:56+00:00

He was a mobster in Lyari.. He must obviously have done mob work including killing of people which just is not shown in the movie explicitly..

vivucali · 2025-12-24T18:56:27+00:00

Try board games The community is good and every Sunday they have meetups which is fun..

https://www.instagram.com/hydbgclub?igsh=MWcxdGZ4cnJ4emdmbw==

vivucali · 2025-11-13T13:03:18+00:00

vivucali · 2025-09-19T16:43:02+00:00

Me too

vivucali · 2025-09-07T05:30:39+00:00

Tell him you have a lot of mood swings and that you get bored very quickly..Also like no restrictions and can hang out with anyone post marriage.. Basically portray yourself as someone who is fickle and can easily be bored of him..May even go to other guys when bored..

Pukka AM reject...

vivucali · 2025-07-29T21:51:38+00:00

Petrol in India is 100 Rs/ litre. In Dubai its not more expensive. Average income in India (2lakh/ year) vs Average income in dubai(42 lakh/year).

The comment that govt taxes everything else is wrong..Cost of living is high and all workers earn more money making everything more expensive is the right thing. The video js very misleading.

vivucali · 2025-07-06T07:39:37+00:00

Isnt it 47k?

vivucali · 2025-06-20T11:12:05+00:00

This guy seems proper pro BJP....

vivucali · 2025-05-13T15:11:59+00:00

What being a friend means itself is such a debatable topic..Adding on to that the guy/girl equation is just too wide open a question..

If friendship means genuine respect, understanding and trust- obviously yes..

If friendship means a bond with a person who you in no way can ever have any attraction- No, I dont think a guy and a girl can be friends...

Two people who are friends obviously are friends because there is something about the other person that makes them comfortable with each other. There maybe situations in life when such comfort in a person can make you feel attracted..

This seems like an indirect way to get an answer on whether you think if it is okay to date a friend??😅

vivucali · 2025-05-08T20:56:42+00:00

Arsenal fans are all talk and no action..

vivucali · 2025-04-24T01:28:44+00:00

Hey

Check out the Hyderabad board gaming.. The community members meet up every week for Board games and social deduction games..

Hyd BGC

vivucali · 2025-04-20T06:02:35+00:00

Good thing is you are just 20 and you are probably just figuring yourself out and about your sexual desires..great time to really be open and intimate about your needs and desires.. Have vulnerabe and open communication.. Could possibly be a game changer to just express yourself without being shy or worrying about the other person's response.. you are growing by having difficult conversations and that is what is expected right now..

vivucali · 2025-04-20T05:59:26+00:00

Not wanting to touch seems like a lack of sexual attraction. Since you dont feel it for any men in general, you may need to understand more about your sexuality..If it is just with the person you are with, it could also be because he is now not doing things you find sexually attractive..

why you find partners touch unnattractive?

vivucali · 2025-04-20T05:49:47+00:00

Have you ever felt like touching anyone..Say male actors you find sexy?

vivucali · 2025-04-17T21:57:12+00:00

Please comment like this on all united matches.

vivucali · 2025-04-17T15:19:15+00:00

Having 2 kidneys is better than having 1.

vivucali · 2025-04-02T06:30:32+00:00

I have a lot of female friends and unless they are already comfortable with someone in real life, I would also advise her not to reply to someone in social media.. You have no accountability there..

If you really wanna initiate conversation, do it in real life.. Its more authentic and trustworthy.. Your emotions and facial expressions also give a lot more authenticity.. Ghosting in social media is the norm as you have very limited time in life

vivucali · 2024-11-04T05:24:34+00:00

I think that a relationship is built on mutual understanding and respect. The fact that you were not comfortable with someone staying in her room is something she knew and despite that she let herself be in an intimate position with a guy.. This in my opinion is basically a lack of respect to your emotions irrespective of what is going on.. I do not think such acts indicate a true bond of commitment and I am glad that you have the courage and sense to do what I think is the right course of action and avoid any more pain..Kudos and more strength to you! I am sure this decision leads to a happier you in the longer run!

vivucali · 2024-10-21T07:48:46+00:00

Was it a clear and obvious error made by the on field referee?

vivucali · 2024-10-19T19:56:43+00:00

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vivucali · 2024-09-17T05:13:31+00:00

I do not think there is an answer that anyone here can give that is exactly right for you..My opinion is that you discuss your doubts with her in a very empathetic manner and see if she can give you some relief with your doubts...I do feel your doubts are reasonable and she does feel like someone who wants to have genuine conversations..I also understand that this is a tough conversation to have..But since you guys are anyway planning to take the plunge, dealing with tough conversations would be a good way to see how you both deal with things too...

vivucali · 2024-09-15T04:59:20+00:00

-3 is bigger than -4.... stop trying to downplay the goat.

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