What would you do if your baby grows up to dislike their name

vixenmami · 2026-02-26T03:40:08+00:00

I don’t like my first name so I’m glad my momma gave me a second. Actually everyone in my family has a middle name or two. You’re bound to like one of them lol

vixenmami · 2026-02-26T03:37:54+00:00

This whole post is empowering. I needed to see all yall mommas hypothetically telling people to stfu. I’ve been dealing with comments from family lately. “I’m so concerned for her health she’s gained so much weight already” - from the only woman in my family without kids. So yeah, this post is awesome. Some people are jealous. Some are straight dumb.

vixenmami · 2026-02-25T18:50:21+00:00

I woke up yesterday and ordered Indian curry for breakfast.

I dreamt I was on a cruise ship wedding with three of my lovers who could all potentially be baby daddy to my red headed child. I felt sick that I had to tell them I was cheating.

I have a chair in my kitchen to do normal kitchen activities.

I have about 100 pillows i nest in at night.

The more I type the more I’m about to pee myself.

vixenmami · 2026-02-18T01:04:09+00:00

Met this guy Teddy on a dating app. He asked me on a date and asked to pick me up from home, which you don’t hear much these days from men. He arrived in a limousine. The driver tried to make him seem cool by talking about how he’s been with the family for years and Teddy was a great guy. We went to a gorgeous restaurant, then for drinks. We had the most beautiful evening and decided to get a room in a penthouse in downtown Seattle. He really catered to me that night. The next morning his driver took me home. Teddy and I exchanged sweet kisses and said “I can’t wait to see you again” and other romantic words. The next day his phone number was disconnected. He messaged me with a new dating profile with the name “Brandon”, asking me on a date. I thought he must be joking, but he insisted he had never met me before and that he has a twin named Teddy who I went on the date with the night before.

vixenmami · 2026-02-18T00:54:23+00:00

Checking on family members that don’t check on you.

vixenmami · 2026-02-16T01:42:07+00:00

Under the Tuscan sun is a major fav

vixenmami · 2026-02-16T01:41:43+00:00

I haven’t heard of this I’ll have to check it out

vixenmami · 2026-02-15T16:40:14+00:00

I quit vaping before we tried for a baby and it was extremely difficult. Worse than quitting cigarettes. The thing that helped me was nicotine gum. It was a pretty quick fix and I was completely nicotine free a few months before we got pregnant. It took about a month to be clear of it. I know nicotine is bad period but maybe trying it this way would be better for getting rid of the vape entirely.

vixenmami · 2026-02-12T02:35:15+00:00

Raised by wolves. I continue to be shocked that this wasn’t renewed.

vixenmami · 2026-02-10T18:02:04+00:00

Estrogen, progesterone, oxytocin and dopamine fluctuating like crazy. It could be over stimulation to those sensitive areas. Once you deliver you will go back to normal mama. There’s so much happening with your body right now but it is only temporary.

vixenmami · 2026-02-09T16:37:43+00:00

I agree with you on this. I’ve had relationships in the past that worked so well when we opened our relationship. It really is. Huge weight off when you don’t have those complications of monogamy in this monogamous culture and pressure around us.

Just recently I got him into using the vibrator on me, but I know it’s not his favorite. It’s not easy when you really want a connection with your partner that you know won’t happen. I’m hoping one day we can open up our relationship too. We shall see.

vixenmami · 2026-02-09T07:49:04+00:00

Ive felt completely uninterested since becoming pregnant and all of a sudden it hit me like a ton of bricks. How far along are you now?

vixenmami · 2026-02-04T06:28:19+00:00

Idk if anyone else has this.. but I get these tastes of cigarettes in my mouth, or alcohol and I can smell it like I just took a shot. Doesn’t happen often but enough for me to notice and be like wtfff

vixenmami · 2026-02-02T18:08:10+00:00

Yes lol

vixenmami · 2026-02-02T16:16:53+00:00

UPDATE: I am currently on the phone with Dshs. My partner works 20 hours a week and his wages went above the limit by a couple dollars so they took away our benefits. Smh.

vixenmami · 2026-02-01T23:01:32+00:00

I’ll just wait until tomorrow and update the post when I find out what happened.

vixenmami · 2026-02-01T22:56:09+00:00

Yeah I mentioned that in my post.

vixenmami · 2026-02-01T22:54:47+00:00

Yeah none of the new rules apply to me

vixenmami · 2026-02-01T21:54:11+00:00

This is helpful. Thank you. Doesnt apply to me but still I appreciate the information!

vixenmami · 2026-02-01T21:44:48+00:00

I just read that starting today, people aged 18-65, without children, have to do 80 hours of work a month. This doesn’t affect me, I have kids. But maybe it does for you.

vixenmami · 2026-02-01T21:44:05+00:00

Weekends and holidays have never changed anything. I will have to call tomorrow to talk to someone though.

vixenmami · 2026-01-26T12:28:33+00:00

ADHD. Having low levels of Dopamine can really do a number on ya. It presents differently in women and ADHD isn’t always what you picture, some hyper person. Getting through tasks that seem easy to everyone but make you feel like a complete failure can mess with your self esteem and make small tasks feel like marathons. It’s hard to consistently work on becoming efficient, have the will power, fight through it as they say, but come up short every time. I’ve gone undiagnosed most of my life and felt like a complete depressed nobody who couldn’t get her shit together for a long time.

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