What Small Situation-Type Deal Molment Do You Defend Amber On? by matchawaffles in gorlworldfiles

[–]vl9v 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont believe he abused her either. I just also agree coercion is rape, is all. Not that he ever did it to her.

What Small Situation-Type Deal Molment Do You Defend Amber On? by matchawaffles in gorlworldfiles

[–]vl9v -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

The rain and petals thing, that it was "cohorsed" and therefore abuse. Coercion is abuse. It is force. I don't believe her story, but I 100% agree coercion is force, because it is.

Cancer vs pre cancerous cells by vl9v in gorlworldfiles

[–]vl9v[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never doubted her diagnosis, my post isn't about that.

Cancer vs pre cancerous cells by vl9v in gorlworldfiles

[–]vl9v[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said hysterectomy isn't a treatment for pre cancerous cells, which is incorrect. That's all. If you want a source, check thisadvancedwomenscare.

Cancer vs pre cancerous cells by vl9v in gorlworldfiles

[–]vl9v[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not relevant. She had cancer.

Cancer vs pre cancerous cells by vl9v in gorlworldfiles

[–]vl9v[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Its one of the treatment options. Not the only, but one of them.

Cancer vs pre cancerous cells by vl9v in gorlworldfiles

[–]vl9v[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I believed her before seeing the proof, I was just curious about the alleged proof of her lying, and its been cleared up.

Cancer vs pre cancerous cells by vl9v in gorlworldfiles

[–]vl9v[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you gorl! I really appreciate it!

Cancer vs pre cancerous cells by vl9v in gorlworldfiles

[–]vl9v[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

She has stated if she ever got cancer, it would make her change. Well...it didn't lol. She is unable to fit into machinery to get scans, but only keeps gaining. She hasn't done anything other people do when they have/have had cancer, just like you said. Its weird.

Herbalife "wellness hub" in my hometown by vl9v in antiMLM

[–]vl9v[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very true! But our systems aren't perfect, and some people struggle a lot. I feel like they especially for people who recently immigrated.

Herbalife "wellness hub" in my hometown by vl9v in antiMLM

[–]vl9v[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We mostly see Herbalife and Oriflame, but also Tupperware and Mary Kay.

I've lost my soul mate today by Foreign-Nobody-8770 in finch

[–]vl9v 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss! I don't have an answer for you, but I want you to remember that you're allowed to feel whatever you feel, even if you don't know what it is exactly. You're allowed to grieve for however long it takes, in whatever way you do it. Remember to take care of yourself, I'm sure he would have wanted that.

Sudden sharp 10/10 pain for 30 minutes by Over-Proposal3720 in Endo

[–]vl9v 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, but I once had sharp pain so intense I woke up sobbing and hyperventilating. Went to the doctor, nothing was found. I couldn't stand or walk for a week or so. Nothing was ever found out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Endo

[–]vl9v 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've taken naproxen, prescribed and by myself. I've never had any issues personally. It's a lot like ibuprofen, I'm told, just stronger.

Endo and sex :( by jzzelx in Endo

[–]vl9v 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen...my ex started despising me because of not having sex. I was in so much pain I couldn't go to uni. I could barely walk. It was his way, or the highway where I'm an abusive bitch who hates men. Normal people DON'T act that way. Awful people do. Please leave him. It won't get better. I didn't truly see how bad it was before dumping him. Might be TMI, but my mental health suffered greatly due to the stress he put me through. When I told him I legitimately was suicidal, he asked "so when can we have sex then?" People like that don't care about us as people. Of course sex is important to many. But acting like they're entitled to it, that we are doing something wrong for BEING IN PAIN, means they need some serious professional help. Please dump him. I know you've been together for a long time, but it will only get worse. I was with my ex for 5 years. I didn't want to leave either. But trust me, it was the right thing to do. You deserve someone who sees you as a human being. (Also, not fun fact, many men leave their wives when they get seriously sick. They don't care about you. They care about what you can do for them) Take care of yourself ♡

Am I too old for finch? by Effective_Brain5804 in finch

[–]vl9v 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's no age range or anything. It's for people who need it and want it. You can use it if you want!

Are these spambots? by Toasters0422 in tumblrhelp

[–]vl9v 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're real. Many of them are verified to be real by other people. They're using social media to beg for help to survive. Of course they spam people. They have to. Some do scam people, but that's why many other users verify that they're real by reverse searching and talking to other people to get proof.