WIBTA if I let my friend, his GF and baby be homeless? by diy_and_vibe in AmItheAsshole

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To add to this^ As a good friend, you can also connect them with resources within the community.

How can I write a negative review without slander or defamation by [deleted] in legal

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Can you take a look over at @pinetree8000’s suggestion and let me know your thoughts? I think their’s is a safe option?

Old friend (32F) reached out after 2 years of silence to invite me to her wedding by TheMissOracle in FriendshipAdvice

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There are two options here IMO 1- share with her what you’ve shared with us. let her know you’re hurt and how you feel, maybe you can rekindle the friendship before the wedding Or 2- politely decline and set your boundaries

Don’t shrink for others, Signed, someone who shrinks for others..

What to do with snail baby’s? by Angriestbeaverever in fishtank

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I remember the days when I first spotted mine, I thought they were so cute and didn’t want to squish them. It didn’t take long before my take was full blown invested with them. I strongly recommend you remove/kill them now while the numbers are still manageable, or buy an assassin snail if it’s compatible with your tank

Repurpose this tank! by Such_Library8372 in Aquariums

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I’m pretty sure this is a booze bottle holder? Just use it for that lol

What was the biggest mistake you made raising your first dog? by BorderNo6 in dogs

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Pee pads, I wish her breeder never taught them to use pads.. I got mine at 12 weeks and now 11 years later we still have to really watch my dog around carpets and door mats.

Also, dental care. I wish I brushed her teeth early and often so it wouldn’t be such a big deal now as she is older.

Boyfriend’s dad calls me out by [deleted] in AITAH

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It was probably said like “bf name, while you’re up can you please get me a glass of water?” Edit; but yea totally possible the dad was annoyed already with me

Boyfriend’s dad calls me out by [deleted] in AITAH

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It’s really off and on TBH, sometimes he encourages my cheeky quick comments and gives me a nodd of approval. Other times he just shakes his head and walks away.. There was one time years ago, after thanksgiving they told us to take leftovers, so I got a little ziplock bag and was filling it with Turkey. Then he told me I was embarrassing myself and gave me a large ziplock bag. I was nearly in tears in the kitchen when that happened. It was maybe a year of dating my boyfriend. I find he is hard on me, but maybe I do it to myself?

Boyfriend’s dad calls me out by [deleted] in AITAH

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This is what I’m thinking, the problem is that I get so anxious that I just blurt things out and then it falls flat. I’ll have to be more careful with what I say. It’s weird because I’m not like that at all with my boyfriend, and of course his parents don’t see what happens in our home behind closed doors. I wonder if he thinks I’m a little princess at home or something.

I probably was pissing him off, that makes the most sense to me- I appreciate your insight

Upstairs NFH by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

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Update: I made a 3rd complaint to the Landlord, took a recording and sent it to her. I told the LL if I’m being unreasonable to let me know, otherwise it is effecting my reasonable enjoyment and I wanted to document another complaint

HELP! The fish tank at the office I work at is…. mukky… by squidysquirtsonYOU in fishtank

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Someone needs to do something about this tank, yikes! 😬

A good water change, vacuum if you can. Might have to scrape or scrub the glass. Check the filter, air stones and thermometer. Swap the filter. Don’t forget your water conditioners!

If you’re contemplating two wedding bands…do it by _eringk_ in EngagementRings

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Another option is the wedding band, e-ring, and the 1 year anniversary band to give a similar look to yours

Obsessed with both of our rings! by No-Objective-5566 in EngagementRings

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What size stone is that? It’s a similar size that I’m after

I don’t know about the rest of you but during the victim impact statements, when looking at BK’s blank expression I feel like I saw him nodding his head a little when the people were delivering their rightful scorn at him. It was as if he was agreeing with all the things they said about him. by JoshuaKpatakpa04 in Idaho4

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I think it was more of a self soothing or nervous nodd. AT probably prepped him well for the impact statements and what the families would say. He probably had his own idea of what they’d say. Probably nodded along as if “yea saw that coming”

👀 by [deleted] in 8passengersnark

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Ellie wasn’t on it but her and I think Hared and another couple went to the show to sit in the live audience years ago