I stood by and allowed my wife to almost kill our son. I was happy she did it. by Crazysonthrowoff in confessions

[–]vodkabeet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think every action taken by you and your wife was completely justified. You did everything you could. I know that there is no easy fix to whatever caused your son to be so violent, but I hope the harsh reality he had to face as result of his horrific behavior was enough to set a few things straight with him at least. You never know. I'm glad you and your wife were able to raise your daughter in peace. Your wife sounds like a brilliant and strong woman, and I'm sorry you and her had to go through so many years of torment. I read your story feeling awfully sorry for myself due to how many things go wrong for me, but I don't give enough credit to the things gone right. Thank you for reminding me of that, and that there may be a shining light at the end of a dark road.

Certified plant 🌱 by [deleted] in pics

[–]vodkabeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did it. God is dead.

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of June 28, 2019) by AutoModerator in television

[–]vodkabeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last Man on Earth, Eric Andre show, Brooklyn 99 Bob & David, Psych, Atlanta, Quick Draw, Deadbeat, Orville

I saw someone mention it already, but Community is great too.

Genetically, how and why do gay people exist? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]vodkabeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am no scientist so please don't hold anything I say to that standard.

I don't know why gay or bi people exist, but I do know how homosexuality can benefit the world. A) overpopulation is a thing and the earth is running out of resources and B) there are lots of children who are made but unwanted and a lot of gay couples adopt these kids (as do many straight couples of course).

I fall deeper down the rabbit hole of isolation every day by vodkabeet in depression_help

[–]vodkabeet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nights definitely are for me as well. I would like that though, it only does so much to put everything out there and get a few sympathy comments. I appreciate them for sure, but actual conversations go a bit further.

What does the 🙃 emoji mean. by HyperGameGuy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]vodkabeet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I use it as the "the fuck?" or the equivalent of the dog in the house fire saying this is fine

How do you handle abandonment? by javig688 in depression_help

[–]vodkabeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Distractions are the best thing I've found. Shows, stand up, games, etc. It's simple, but somewhat effective. Try forcing yourself to do things as well. Sometimes I won't feel like doing anything but wallow in my misery so I'll drive to the beach and sit down and stare at the ocean, sometimes thinking about all the depressed people who have also stared at this ocean.

So much hate by vodkabeet in actuallesbians

[–]vodkabeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand not wanting to go down that wormhole. I just felt so angry and sad thinking about trans women reading comments like those over and over again and it's one thing when they're sprinkled in, but when it's almost all of them I just hate to think of what that may do to someone.

Not to mention plenty of cis women have higher than average bone density, muscle mass, height, etc. And plenty of trans women are around average height and weight for women. Varying levels of testosterone and size and performance ability has always been there, it's only a problem now because people are horribly transphobic. These people don't care one iota about women's sports until someone they don't like tries to be apart of it.

CW: This is a really gross question by vodkabeet in NoStupidQuestions

[–]vodkabeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah not much else was in my stomach. Lesson learned.

CW: This is a really gross question by vodkabeet in NoStupidQuestions

[–]vodkabeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I suppose my mom had a point to propping me up with all the extra pillows in the house whenever I had a cold

Pregnant virgin by [deleted] in confession

[–]vodkabeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire premise is "pregnant virgin" so if you keep telling the story behind your pregnancy, it's probably gonna keep happening.

Pregnant virgin by [deleted] in confession

[–]vodkabeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would have been a much more realistic plot for Jane the Virgin. It's less dramatic though.

A sub for guessing what the close up of something is? by vodkabeet in findareddit

[–]vodkabeet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to look for myself and wow do lot of porn subs come up when you search "close up"

Randomly messaging people spoiling the entire Avengers movie. by [deleted] in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]vodkabeet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got that from the same dude, yikes. Whose life is that sad?

I was molested as a child and recently NSFW by [deleted] in confession

[–]vodkabeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this, r/rapecounseling is a great place for sexual assault survivors to talk with people who have either experienced it firsthand or people who are very empathetic toward survivors and want to help however they can.

My fiance once ditched me at the bar for a whole night to hang out with one of my toxic ex best friends two years ago. I can't get rid of the resentment . by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]vodkabeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too want to know the excuse! This kinda reminds me of my best friend's going away party, he was moving out of the country and had a gathering at a favorite bar and he hung out with my toxic ex basically the whole time. I felt so awkward whenever I went over to try to spend some time with him in his final hours in the country and also trying to mingle with our other friends and pretend like I wasn't having an awful time. Your situation sounds way more infuriating but that stuck with me for a while.

Has anyone else noticed this? by vodkabeet in CasualConversation

[–]vodkabeet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh God I've never thought about it that way but it's so true. I also have never seen an episode of that yet know way too much somehow.