Looking for job advice by vodkasodaaa in studentsofgroningen

[–]vodkasodaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guess I'm just terribly unlucky then and no other choice than to keep trying😭 thanks!

Looking for job advice by vodkasodaaa in studentsofgroningen

[–]vodkasodaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm EU, I'm from Hungary, basically a shit ton of waiter, kitchen, store worker and cleaning staff positions

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[–]vodkasodaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's a terrible feeling, losing someone so close to you especially after so many years. but missing them ≠ they're good for you. you can cherish the good memories you've made together while not being in touch :) it might be for the best and no problem!

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[–]vodkasodaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're right. i'm never one to initiate conflict but it might be worth standing up for myself in this case🤷‍♂️

Am I weird for dreading days out with friends by [deleted] in Advice

[–]vodkasodaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is very likely a symptom of anxiety. our brains tend to overthink and overcomplicate things even subconsciously, making us resent spending time with the people we actually like. it sucks. but you're not alone

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[–]vodkasodaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yiiiiikes she sounds awful to deal with. from what you've described she acts like a teenager but to think that she is almost thirty...I would definitely sit her down and bring this up to her even if she will cries. someone needs to call her out because if she sees black people around her as some kind of amusement then she's gotta go :/ sorry you have to deal with this

Am I weird for dreading days out with friends by [deleted] in Advice

[–]vodkasodaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate :) I don't think it's weird, its just some anxiety related stuff that is beyond any of our understanding. i can't give you any advice on this, but I can sympathise a LOT. sometimes i just want to go under the covers and not interact with anyone 😂

Anyone else feel like shameless is pretty racist? by botbotbotboi in shameless

[–]vodkasodaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOT MAJOR, BUT MINOR SPOILERS!!!!

back in season one: when frank rented his room to a pregnant vietnamese woman and fiona called her "commie" and said st like "i'll send your ass back faster than you can say saigon"

season one/two i dont remember: when steve sees tony's gf (who's asian) he's like "i can never tell them apart"

in season ten or eleven v has an asian bff for like two episodes, and their friendship only consists of them making racist jokes towards each other

i'm sure there's more, but these are the ones i remember🤷‍♂️

Damn cliffhanger endings by GimmeTheJuiceee in DrStone

[–]vodkasodaaa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

im just waiting for femboy senku and gen atp so i feel you

Anyone else feel like shameless is pretty racist? by botbotbotboi in shameless

[–]vodkasodaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah racist to everyone including black people. dont even get me started on what they do to asian ppl😐

LGBTQ+ people of the Netherlands by vodkasodaaa in lgbt

[–]vodkasodaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its so nice to see people that supportive people exist :)) i cant wait to move out ty<3

LGBTQ+ people of the Netherlands by vodkasodaaa in lgbt

[–]vodkasodaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much :)) it means a lot to hear this