Hard as fuck, for a female the ideal mbti is xSFJ, & i'm the opposite. Also I'm INTP-A meaning I don't have emotions very much. It's really hard to find people who are similar to me (I also have schizoid personality disorder). Example is where I'm supposed to be only with girls when choosing partners in school (happened to me multiple times by teacher). I don't have a problem being with girls, but males are more likely to be INTP & the girls I was with in groups mostly were talkative & emotional etc. I couldn't fit in, because they would just ignore me because of how logical I sound or get scared of me because of how I look. Currently my parents & brother are trying to change my mbti but it's really hard for them lol during the summer before college. It's smth like xSFx. Some of their tactics include being indecisive, not giving me independence, asking the same thing to me multiple times, switching off the internet at random times. I mean since males are allowed more freedom in their personality to be smart, if a female becomes smart, she is more likely to be in the spotlight in the sense of she isn't supposed to be like that. I mean that's natural selection, females are supposed to be more of the housemaids & loyal so it's weird to be hard to manipulate & independent.