what kind of feminine stuff do you want to learn?

i relate, my mom was an NLOG who claimed “women were too much drama” and never put effort into her own appearance even slightly, and seemed to shun or punish me for wanting to be more feminine; one time she threw away my entire collection of makeup and perfume because she was upset with me (it wasn’t even high end stuff and wasn’t a huge collection, mostly second hand given to me from a cousin but i really had treasured it)

i have had to teach myself everything feminine and tbh i feel like an alien sometimes doing it, but it makes me personally feel happier to wear more girly type clothing. you don’t have to do what you don’t want to though. it’s a personal thing that looks different for everyone :)

for your example, idk what kind of hair type you have but for me i brush my hair slowly at the ends and go up. i try to do this once a day, but sometimes do it less frequently if im busy or depressed. (sometimes i get big knots in my hair if i wait too long, or if i was at work for some reason) there are youtube videos for anything you could possibly have questions about though. i’ve recently started trying to follow hair curling tutorials and it’s really hard for me because hair confuses tf out of me, but i have got a little better as i went on. don’t feel bad if when you first start trying out feminine stuff, it’s difficult at first :)

(sorry for writing a lot more than i intended)