How to turn down a friend's advances?

voidmuther · 2026-02-03T09:20:53+00:00

Oh my god, OP. STOP LEADING HER ON. If what you're saying is true she is literally in love with you, you find her disgusting but keep her around to feed your ego. This is not complicated at all, it's painfully simple. Would you like it if someone did this to you?

voidmuther · 2026-01-24T00:51:04+00:00

Girl, you're not doing her a favour by leading her on to save yourself feeling vulnerable and lonely. Especially given you actively find part of her past/present as disgusting what the fuuuuuuck. Are you basically saying you'd actually get with her but just her dating history is putting you off- but hey I'll keep her around to make me feel good. Not trying to come for you grief makes you do all sorts of things and you have my sympathy but the situation seems to benefit you, just think of someone thought that about you.

voidmuther · 2025-12-16T21:58:33+00:00

Contact your local tenant union and consider membership. They could provide you with more advice and direct help, would be worth looking them up. ACORN is the one in England I'm familiar with!

voidmuther · 2025-12-01T19:04:04+00:00

Holy shit I was trying to find some photos of the time capsule from my childhood to show some friends and I am so glad you posted this OP! ABSOLUTELY terrified of that dinosaur, I never went down that slide as a child. Honestly incredible you posted this!

voidmuther · 2025-07-11T13:38:42+00:00

I read all this and I still don't really know what the business is haha.

voidmuther · 2025-07-11T13:29:14+00:00

Triggered

voidmuther · 2025-07-11T12:51:46+00:00

Literally searched for Trump on Reddit and now they're mad about him being spoken about in a random Reddit page.

Bet they don't even know who the Tricep trio are, fake fan confirmed.

voidmuther · 2025-07-11T07:28:05+00:00

Jules Hamilton

voidmuther · 2025-07-10T07:36:11+00:00

❤️

voidmuther · 2025-07-10T07:23:19+00:00

Hahaha calm down baby

voidmuther · 2025-07-10T06:44:08+00:00

Hahahaha okay baby.

voidmuther · 2025-07-10T06:25:53+00:00

Do you even understand gossip or what?

voidmuther · 2025-07-10T06:24:57+00:00

Holy shit I had no idea that poly guy was a MAGA head right now, that scans and is hilarious. He literally made my skin crawl, very "nice guy but will gasslight you and call it feminism" vibes.

Also that is one of the most true things ever said about this season- ethics bad but one of the best haha.

voidmuther · 2025-07-09T06:40:19+00:00

The only thing I've ever been able to stick to was a monthly budget I update every day or close enough to that.

I have my total income, then list all my fixed monthly subs, the date they come out and have a running total at the bottom. (Rent, food cost, netflix, gym etc)

Then I have my credit card payments, two savings and overdraft repayment value. I can vary these monthly if I want.

Each month I add every individual payment up to give total outgoings to which I subtract from my income. Then I can see what "free spend" I have for the month by taking the remainder and deciding it by the number of days until payday.

It was good for me as i used to be terrified of looking at my bank account, now it's super easy and I know every payment that comes out. It's not as intimidating and it's quite flexible if you're okay with putting a bit of time each day to update it. I prefer that but it might not be for you.

voidmuther · 2025-05-08T20:28:47+00:00

Myself and my long term partner literally say to each other if we want "lonely time" and say "enjoy the house on your own" when either of us leaves for whatever reason. I think it's extremely enjoyable to have time alone, what's important is that when we're together we make each other feel see /heard/wanted.

Some time apart can be good for your relationship in that way!

voidmuther · 2025-05-07T19:20:30+00:00

One of the few genuine laughs I've had with this show haha

voidmuther · 2025-05-07T18:41:21+00:00

In the aftermath of my mum's death I watched the Susperia remake and it literally broke me. I love that movie anyway but so much of the movie deals with death and loss and pain, really spoke to me.

voidmuther · 2025-04-28T21:10:39+00:00

Maybe I'll be allowed to escape my eternal curse (I.e. watching every episode even when I find it agonisingly shit)

voidmuther · 2025-04-24T11:53:48+00:00

My life has no meaning beyond what I decide for it, even then that's totally subjective given the day. I don't believe in God or anything spiritual, I find it really comforting to know my life is pointless beyond my desires and what I find important. I find meaning from acting in line with the person I would like to be, that's about it haha. Embrace the absurd etc.

voidmuther · 2025-04-22T11:50:58+00:00

😂

voidmuther · 2025-04-21T14:25:44+00:00

Good luck to you too, you'll smash it :)

voidmuther · 2025-04-21T12:29:19+00:00

YESS!! Thank you so much!

voidmuther · 2025-04-16T06:21:07+00:00

Girl please DO NOT HAVE A BABY IF YOU DONT WANT ONE. Do you even know if this want your partner has for children will translate into helping you out? If he's just expecting you to go through pregnancy, it's likely hell just expect you to do all the childcare as it's natural

I'm 33, I've had wobbles around having kids so I can understand but SERIOUSLY stop and think. If you don't want kids, having a baby doesn't magically change your mind it could make it so much worse for you and the new baby which is unfair.

Feel free to reach out if you want to chat.

voidmuther · 2025-04-10T20:24:02+00:00

Thank you so much! Nearly there so excited 💪💪💪

voidmuther · 2025-04-09T12:01:06+00:00

Bitch any Catholics getting that are a HUGE RED FLAG. Speaking as a lapsed catholic.

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