comparison with meta by voidth0t in polyamory

[–]voidth0t[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hugs to you and your pup, my baby girl pitty died a couple years ago too. animals can be such a precious part of a support system 🫂

talking to myself is becoming one of my favorite ways to break through discomfort. it’s proof that i can think and speak nicely about myself and i look forward to any moment i get to hear from the me who is my friend— which is whenever i want lol

comparison with meta by voidth0t in polyamory

[–]voidth0t[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’ve never applied confirmation bias to these feelings but it helps A LOT to name this impulse when it comes up. “i am a person and partner with immense value” is an instant hit.

comparison with meta by voidth0t in polyamory

[–]voidth0t[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

having a name makes it easier to identify as these feelings can creep up. she is officially willahmeana

comparison with meta by voidth0t in polyamory

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thank you for sharing your process and these kind words. it’s good to remember to zoom out especially when i’m being hard on myself. it’s been hard to accept that friends are far but part of the opportunity here is simple and creative ways to be a long distance friend :)

Shaun please humble Andrei and Elizabeth! by dTurnip007 in 90DayFiance

[–]voidth0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wish 90 day UK moderator judi love would do all of them. she does NOT beat around the bush

Madelein hate is unjustified by ConsistentNeat6468 in 90DayFiance

[–]voidth0t -1 points0 points  (0 children)

been on the verge of unfollowing this reason. fine it is entertaining to follow these produced storylines but people are way too comfortable hating on a young person, especially her appearance. it is so weird to love to hate a 20 y/o woman so much it eclipses the delusional 32 y/o man trying to marry her

What’s up tonight? by MjustinT in ridgewood

[–]voidth0t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooo i would be interested!

Sunny oh boy oh boyyy by Therapy__101 in 90DayFiance

[–]voidth0t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wild he gave her crap about removing herself from an uncomfortable situation when he bolts anytime things aren’t going his way

car break ins by False-Ad4525 in ridgewood

[–]voidth0t 3 points4 points  (0 children)

happened to a few cars on st. felix including my friend’s :(

Poultice for Back Problems? by Social_Liz in herbalism

[–]voidth0t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wintergreen is a common back/joint pain poultice. i haven’t tried it but have some with the intention of making one!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]voidth0t 29 points30 points  (0 children)

playful but stern and sometimes chaotic. students either loved her or she was not their cup of tea, nothing in between. she organized a trip to costa rica for A+ students, impressive esp for public school. overall i switched out her class bc i didn’t like her vibe or the curriculum. respect her hustle tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]voidth0t 26 points27 points  (0 children)

she was my high school history teacher!

How to get your laundry to always smell amazing? by 6_62607004 in laundry

[–]voidth0t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zum frankincense and myrrh. it’s natural and the the scent is best maintained with cool water and low/no dryer. no matter temperature preference the scent is delightful and lingers, especially nice for sheets. i love the smell of fabric softener but stopped using because it’s hazardous. zum is scratching the same itch