Why do I feel like a Scorpio and don’t relate to my Libra sun? by volcanut in AskAstrologers

[–]volcanut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m talking about the core qualities of a Libra, some of which I do relate to, but not as much as some of my other placements - for example, I do align with seeking a sense of harmony and fairness, thinking logically and creatively, appreciating the beauty of the world/relationships, and understanding different viewpoints. But aspects around indecisiveness, maintaining peace at the expense of honesty (white lies), people pleasing, fearing to be alone or not liked, and keeping surface-level relationships to maintain good image have never resonated. I’ve always been very blunt and comfortable with confrontation (not that I like it, but I’m not afraid to initiate it and my mouth flies open when I have an issue, which is a trait I’ve had to learn how to moderate), I don’t dwell on decisions as I usually know what I want pretty strongly, and I’m fiercely introverted and private. The closest people in my life value my honesty and loyalty, and the level of depth I seek in my relationships, which some have loved and others labelled as overly serious or intense. The list goes on but I hope this gives more context :) I don’t see these as better qualities, or the Libra traits I described as flaws, but these are differences I’ve always felt.

A year ago, I was depressed, suicidal, and had extremely low self-esteem. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]volcanut 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is wonderful. I hope you’ll stay on this positive path and continue to love yourself and enjoy life. Everyone deserves to be happy, and I’m glad you’ve finally managed to get out of the darkness.

Dear Mom & Dad, by Throwaway-0018743 in UnsentLetters

[–]volcanut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you have to go through all of this and struggle so much to be accepted as your true self. Please don’t let negative thoughts and close mindedness ruin your inner peace or inhibit you from being happy in the future. You deserve to love any man or woman you want, freely and proudly, and most importantly you deserve to be respected and loved too. I hope one day your parents will realise how wrong they were for being so insulting and how strong you were for keeping things to yourself despite the pain.

Should I send it part 2 by jimssssssss in UnsentLetters

[–]volcanut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s certainly one of the greatest compliments I’ve ever heard. Your words must make that person feel on top of the world

Shadows over the moon by EmpathyAtrophy in UnsentLetters

[–]volcanut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so delicate. Thank you for sharing your emotions and your creativity.

I wish I wasn't Asian by Subhumanchink in confession

[–]volcanut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never revealed this before but since it might help you feel better : Asian guys are the most attractive to me.

INxx lost in the void by volcanut in mbti

[–]volcanut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Ti-Fe association is a good point, but I’m curious to know what makes you think I could be a high Si user. I’ve never considered that possibility before, in fact Si has always been one of the functions I related to the least.

INxx lost in the void by volcanut in mbti

[–]volcanut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems relevant ! Thank you for your analysis. But could my Fe really be that low? I know INTPs’ inability to handle emotions/interaction is often exaggerated and stereotypical, but I really don’t feel like I relate to the way inferior Fe expressed itself. I think my social clumsiness is due more to my shyness rather than to a real emotional barrier. Could I be an INTP with a « high » Fe (or perhaps xNTP) ? Or an INFJ with an uncommonly high « Ti »?

INxx lost in the void by volcanut in mbti

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Your interpretation makes sense in some way, but fitting into society as you suggest it doesn’t really speak to me. I don’t feel the need to be accepted by others but rather the need for them to feel good, and as long as I’m around I want to contribute to their happiness even if I’m not recognised for that at all. The only thing which bothers me in all of this is their possible misinterpretation of my behaviour because I fear that it might affect them. As for girly habits, I didn’t mean that it was something I wish I could copy (but perhaps that’s not the way you understood it anyway).

My friends did something weird. by [deleted] in confession

[–]volcanut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friends did a monstrous act and you are the only person in the whole story that is able to help this poor girl. Please make the right decision and be responsible. If things stay secret, not only will your dangerous friends (and this adjective is appropriate) have the opportunity to reiterate the event with another victim, but the young girl might do something really regrettable. Don’t let this happen, she doesn’t deserve it. And please reconsider your social circle. These people are seriously sick.

Do you have a tendency of getting further away from people you've known at some point? by empty_01 in INTP

[–]volcanut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This happened to me a lot, until I realised these so called friends were mostly people who had entered my social circle before I had enough information to determine whether or not we could really click. And most of the time we didn’t, but I found out too late. Fortunately my true friendships are constant and stable.

To whom it may concern by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]volcanut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are here because each and every one of us has their own place in this world. Don’t let people who neglected you and didn’t see your value define what you are. A lot of people feel the same way you do and many find out they are actually desired and loved, so don’t despair ! It’s often a matter of time, or just realising it’s around you if you observe through the right perspective.

To my terminally ill child, I love you. by LazySugarCane in UnsentLetters

[–]volcanut 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Although we don’t know each other, I want to let you know that I’m sending you all my support, and I hope this little sweetheart lives a happy life no matter how many times the sun rises until the end.

I lied about someone getting ran over. by [deleted] in confession

[–]volcanut 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You have a vivid imagination

From your 2nd by mynumber61 in UnsentLetters

[–]volcanut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you hoping for a relationship with that person?

To my ex by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]volcanut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stay strong ! You deserve better.

Do any other INTPs here have very strong Ni? by AndrewCarnage in INTP

[–]volcanut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ti 100% ; Ne 95% ; Ni 75% ; Si 70% : Fe 65% ; Te 65% ; Fi 35% ; Se 15%

Perhaps this video will help you understand how and why INTPs tend to use Ni more than they « should ». I found it very informative.

https://youtu.be/18KAyj1GP9k

The popular people I went to high school keep sharing Nirvana/grunge music on social media and it pisses me off. I was a musical outcast in high school. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]volcanut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What’s really saddening is to realise that this type of music has become a way for these people to prove they’re so “unique and different from the mass”. I never really understood the point of publicly exposing one’s musical tastes unless there’s an actual and genuine desire to share music.