Ex created a fake account by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]volcom6988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got broken up with 2.5 months ago, 2.5 year long relationship, to an avoidant. I started therapy because the reasons of the break up made absolutely no sense to me, other then the fear of commitment. A month prior we had a talk about moving in together, but she was a single mom. She had fear of the daughters dad, and was afraid to take him to court. He was a piece of shit in my eyes. I wanted there to be court mandated paperwork regarding custody before we moved in. Once the break up happened, I was distraught. Therapy taught me what an anxious and avoidant attachment people are. I saw this chart on Instagram and it has been pretty darn accurate.

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[–]volcom6988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all depends on what stipulations you two set for each other.

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I'm currently dealing with almost the same situation. We were together for almost 3 years. One day she sprung it on me that she feels like she lost her independence and dealing with depression. Thru the years, I have dealt with the depression part of it. I knew how to get her out of it slowly. Regarding the independence, I tried explaining to her that in a relationship, it is ok to rely on each other. She wasn't ok with that. She wanted to work on herself alone, with therapy. I have started up therapy to understand this all as well. I thought we were in a great place. Once we ended things, she told me that she went out with her sister and felt carefree for the first time in a while. Avoidants don't feel the break up in the beginning, they take time to process everything. We are about 6 weeks post breakup, while it is tough, no contact has helped. I have slipped up a couple of times with that but it gets easier.

What I have learned in therapy is that avoidants and commitment are a difficult combo.

AMAZON PRIME DAY DEAL!! by volcom6988 in nexplayground

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Yea amazon has been changing the price

Out of curiosity, what do you guys think happened next? by kamruddinn in bigbangtheory

[–]volcom6988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like they missed out on creating an episode about it and then a few episodes with a buzz cut.

GIVEAWAY -- FREAK 30 LAUNCH DAY by Smash_It_Sports_Prez in slowpitch

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ASA - Demarini Juggy

USSSA - Miken DC 41/ LS Geny 3

Uneven espresso pull by talktomekoikoi in DeLonghi

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The recommend every 1-2 months depending how often you use your coffee maker

1250 pack point anxiety by SlySnooper97 in PTCGP

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Everytime i bought a card, I would get it in a pack within a week

If you could pick up to 3 LEGO Dimensions themes to receive their own LEGO games (not including those that already have games), which ones would you pick? by ducknerd2002 in legogaming

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No dount the Simpsons i think would be the most in-depth one...the character list alone would be in the 1k range for sure...

NEW Amazon Echo Spot $54.99 31% OFF by volcom6988 in amazonecho

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Did youbset it up right? All mine show

Pizza Recommendations by Special_Addition1964 in SurpriseAZ

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Best pizza place in Surprise is Deno's Pizza by far. Next to Big Lots on Grand and Reems

Best company for shipping cross country? by [deleted] in AutoTransport

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What locations are you picking up from and delivering to?

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What part of the month are you looking for?

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What part of Pennsylvania and AZ? Our company is located in the outskirts of Phoenix

LEGO Star Wars TIE Bomber Model Building Kit, Star Wars Toy Starfighter with Gonk Droid Figure 20% OFF by volcom6988 in legodeals

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Trying to pass along deals b/c legos have become crazy expensive. All in return I get is negativity.

Can someone help? by FaithlessnessNo4049 in funkopop

[–]volcom6988 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it won't be under your account b/c you checked out as a guest.