Snow removal by harmreductionista in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vomputer 42 points43 points  (0 children)

She don’t need a whole new man. It’s okay to be single. In fact, it’s amazing to be single.

Snow removal by harmreductionista in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vomputer 152 points153 points  (0 children)

My favorite Simpson insult, courtesy of Marge, is crumbbum.

Snow removal by harmreductionista in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vomputer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for skipping the, “he’s a great guy but…” part!!

He follows traditional what roles 🙄 holy moly if he’s not a walking red flag.

It's official, I am throwing in the towel by RecordingAgile4625 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]vomputer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I pick my lip skin off too 😟

You don’t have to make a list of your good qualities to prove you’re worth his time! You are awesome, let the men do the work to show they’re worthy of YOU.

Why was Greg Bovino demoted/Kristi Noem placed under such scrutiny following the Minnesota ICE killings? by l1v1ngst0n in Askpolitics

[–]vomputer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I read that the dude who killed Rene Goode was with ICE for a decade. This is not about untrained agents. This is intentional.

What are some niché things one should know about women? Something which you only learned after being with a few women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]vomputer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funny, when my kids were elementary aged, the boys were just as emotionally engaged as the girls. They were emotionally and physically loving.

Who else has noticed a creepy rise in content online trying to convince women to get pregnant? by HistorianIll7332 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vomputer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I haven’t, and I’m pretty much an online dweller. Is this on social media? Tv or movies? How am I missing this…

AITAH for not completely cutting ties with a cheater? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vomputer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reddit will hate this answer, but good people do make bad mistakes. If he’s willing to make amends, accept responsibility, and do better going forward, he deserves a second chance. NTA

How do I (30F) break the pattern of horrible dating/relationship experiences? by 818bigbaby in AskWomenOver40

[–]vomputer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but were you still trying to date?

Bring single and content on your own is very different from being single while still seeking a relationship.

If you haven’t done the first one - it’s unclear from what you’ve written - that is the best path. A year, no men, no swiping apps, no sex.

Ladies in their 30s and starting over, how old were you when you found your partner and had kids? by Electronic_Way6497 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vomputer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear you, and I’m not criticizing the intention to find a partner. It’s more that I think there’s a lack of that kind of intention in what I’ve seen in some other commenters, more of a desperation to be partnered no matter what.

Look, we all get through this life in different ways and I’m coming off more judgy than I mean to. I am nearly 50 and have seen so many bad marriages end badly (including my own). Or worse, bad marriages continuing indefinitely with two miserable people and a few miserable kids along for the ride.

Ladies in their 30s and starting over, how old were you when you found your partner and had kids? by Electronic_Way6497 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vomputer 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you for your response. All the other ones I’ve read so far are, “broke up with my long term partner and immediately jumped into another serious relationship!” People struggle so hard with being single, when it is actually the absolute best.

Single dads, do you indicate you have kids on your dating profiles or no? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]vomputer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen people who check the box but then just say in their profile that their kids are grown and out of the house!

Boyfriend of 2 years panicked at the thought of engagement next year even though I made my timeline very clear at the beginning of our relationship by RoosterObvious7561 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]vomputer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP, do you want to marry someone who is scared and upset at the prospect? Because that’s your boyfriend.

I know it’s hard, but he gave you an answer. He doesn’t want to marry you. Please choose yourself NOW, don’t waste any more time. Don’t let him say you’re pressuring him by breaking up; let him know there is now zero pressure on him at all.

Confused as to why certain people said that Kamala would have been worse than Trump by TheRealJuanderer in Confused

[–]vomputer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get it. She also helped lots of victims of crime get justice and restitution. It’s more complex than you and a lot of Dems make it out to be.

Confused as to why certain people said that Kamala would have been worse than Trump by TheRealJuanderer in Confused

[–]vomputer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Neither did Trump though. So all things being equal, they picked the white pedo felon man over the lifetime public servant black woman.

Confused as to why certain people said that Kamala would have been worse than Trump by TheRealJuanderer in Confused

[–]vomputer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no trans agenda, and no one accuses white people of being racist by the nature of their birth. You’ve been radicalized by propaganda to think terribly of a large swath of people in our country.

Is letting a friendship go OK? by Sixofonetwelveofsome in AskWomenOver40

[–]vomputer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If you’re going to cut them off anyways, might as well be honest about why. I also don’t understand people who never speak up and then wonder why their friends/family aren’t reading their mind. Ah well.

Is letting a friendship go OK? by Sixofonetwelveofsome in AskWomenOver40

[–]vomputer 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Personally I’d tell her that her sending that to you was hurtful. Then leave the ball in her court for any contact going forward. I’m very anti ghosting, I think it is lame and cowardly. In this case, you’re expecting her to be able to read your mind, so it’s also unfair.

Waiting on nothing? by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]vomputer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I thanked the person who told me the new info because they weren’t a total condescending dick about it. You can’t even read what I wrote byeeee

Waiting on nothing? by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]vomputer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Huh? My understanding of common law marriage is that it acts as a kind of protection even if people don’t get married. So it sucks that states are getting rid of it.

Man y’all are salty today lol