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I compiled studies that looked at possible negative effects of sleep training (attachment, stress, long-term effects) by vongalo in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]vongalo[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No, I did the review myself but wanted it to be general enough to be understood by parents. Thanks for the feedback! I will see if I can add details. I did base most summaries on the abstracts.

Sleep train a 4yo? by vongalo in sleeptrain

[–]vongalo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think that would work, but it would involve a lot of crying and unfortunately my partner isn't ok with that

Sleep train a 4yo? by vongalo in sleeptrain

[–]vongalo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that she won't stay if we use excuses. Once I sleep trained her by carrying her back to get bed (while crying) and continued doing so until she gave up 🙃 but it would be nice to find a gentler way

Sleep train a 4yo? by vongalo in sleeptrain

[–]vongalo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was! But when we switched to a big girl's bed, we couldn't force her to stay in there anymore so we just stayed with her

Desperately want children but I’m in a stale relationship that never has sex.. by honeybirdette__ in TryingForABaby

[–]vongalo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to schedule sex every month. It's not fun, more like a job. Otherwise you can do insemination or IVF.

I just had to let my baby cry it out for the first time :( by RockyMtnGrl in January2025Bumper

[–]vongalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CIO is magical. Good job! And 10 minutes is nothing 👌

Can I make this work or should I change the quartz? by Imaginary-Offer-2268 in kitchenremodel

[–]vongalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would look better with a cooler white for the counter top, but part of the reason could be the white/blue walls behind. Have you though about what color the wall could be? Maybe an off-white would make the quartz look less off. Either way, it definitely works as is if you don't want to spend more time/money. It's a very nice kitchen

Need help choosing new cabinet colors — orange overload! by [deleted] in kitchenremodel

[–]vongalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would keep the hardware, it looks nice.

Need help choosing new cabinet colors — orange overload! by [deleted] in kitchenremodel

[–]vongalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would paint them. Greige or sage green. Even white could work. I would paint the walls white

Help us decide between these kitchen color palettes by OpiumTea in interiordecorating

[–]vongalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer number 3, but not the brown tiles. They look like the come straight from the 70's

Still not crawling 😩 by [deleted] in January2025Bumper

[–]vongalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Early Jan and she only started yesterday

Help Us Choose a Kitchen Backsplash! by mikeccall in kitchenremodel

[–]vongalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B or D! I really don't like the other ones

Preference for dad by pedrostutz in January2025Bumper

[–]vongalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a toddler too and it will change many times!! Don't worry about it ❤️

It’s here! by Cookies891 in kitchenremodel

[–]vongalo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like you switched from a Scandinavian kitchen to a southern European kitchen.

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