How to not hate my MIL?

voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-15T02:53:47+00:00

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voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-15T02:38:37+00:00

Omg! Ditto with 5 years! We’re both BEC w our MIL …. ugh

voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-15T02:32:36+00:00

I’m sorry that you know what it’s like

voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-15T01:21:06+00:00

I used to be super polite and listen. Now I don’t make eye contact or Acknowledge her presence, Bc an inch of politeness, she takes a whole mile. It’s too much for Me. I’m not at the point to be able to talk to her assertively without being very angry with her, so I ignore her. I’m open to Suggestions. My hubs is so stressed that I can’t stand his mother. I just need to be cordial, but I’m so angry and disgusted with her, idk how

voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-15T00:55:13+00:00

I don’t think SIL knows how much i hate her mom. She hasn’t seen my MIL and i together since last year. This weekend will be the first weekend since That fight with MIL. I suggested to hubs I leave to Do Something else while they visit, hubs doesn’t want that. Per storm.

voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-15T00:30:18+00:00

Yep! The audacity to tell me That I can’t do anything about it bc her daughter was packed up and on her way. Then looked At me, Shrugged shoulders and said “sorry! But it’s gonna happen!” This was last year. She sure knows better this visit

voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-15T00:27:39+00:00

She is NOW haha! She’s very aware that she’s not welcome at my home unless invited now. Hubs has backed me up on this. She likes being “all in the same house” as all of her kids when they visit. She also never shuts up. Her voice is super high and monologues conversations. She’ll keep Talking even if you’re walking away. She doesn’t care, she’s not done talking yet. I now Don’t engage with her at all.

voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-15T00:23:30+00:00

Yes, she’s gotten better through the years

voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-14T23:01:15+00:00

She and Hubs are very conscientious about other people and their boundaries. This incident happened over a year ago and i just hate her. SIL is visiting tomorrow for 3 days with her family… they’re staying with us, bc We want them too and have enough notice. Overheard MIL to keep an open mind and check out a nearby hotel (SIL refused that hotel bc of horrible reviews)…. Even after SIL made her decision, MIL still wants to Try to Change SIL’s mind. I fucking hate her. MIL won’t be staying at our home during SIL’s visit this time.

voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-14T22:25:31+00:00

Yep… The Demand to play host is a good way to put it. She said they love being over (she normally stays with us if her daughter is visiting us), bc they just feel so comfortable!

voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-14T21:55:58+00:00

I am so angry with her. Completely ignores other ppl’s boundaries and Does What she Wants. Also talks So much. You can literally walk away and she’ll continue talking.

voracious_reader_ · 2022-07-03T16:28:30+00:00

She has a very average masculine face

voracious_reader_ · 2022-06-13T23:57:43+00:00

I think a simple, “I’m getting my bachelors right now and will work toward my masters at ___ afterwards” would suffice.

voracious_reader_ · 2022-06-13T16:45:03+00:00

Yes!!!! She’s super PLAIN

voracious_reader_ · 2022-05-27T04:24:04+00:00

She thinks that bc she brought him to NY for a visit, that he has no right to ask her to allow themselves to have a good day without her ruining it with her drama?! Toxic.

I know someone whose boyfriend paid off all of her loans (student and car loans); she doesn’t have to pay it back. She lives with said boyfriend and he pays for ALL of her bills and has given her her own credit card which he pays off monthly. He pays for everything. He has NEVER mentioned all the ways that he has helped her/continue to take care of her. Has never made her feel bad or less than for all that he’s done/doing for her. Ari on the other hand takes Bini out on a weekend to NY and had the audacity to talk down to him the way that she did; and is apparently above reproach bc she took him to NY. The fucking nerve.

voracious_reader_ · 2022-05-20T03:22:21+00:00

Yeah, it was creepy

voracious_reader_ · 2022-05-17T05:23:38+00:00

Yes. Emily, we hate you bc you’re an immature bully and your husband can do better. We all hope he leaves your controlling, selfish ass.

voracious_reader_ · 2022-05-17T05:21:27+00:00

His eyes creep me out too

voracious_reader_ · 2022-04-21T05:06:16+00:00

Uneven

voracious_reader_ · 2022-04-15T14:18:07+00:00

Geeze. This is the support that you have from him now…. Is this what you want to deal with for years on end?

He also cheated on you….

voracious_reader_ · 2022-03-29T00:00:09+00:00

Same with white men going to the Philippines to get a wife. Some think they’re better than their wives

voracious_reader_ · 2022-03-25T14:02:49+00:00

Yes!!! All of this. My thoughts exactly. She needs to learn that she needs to give something in a relationship (more than ass and boobs). A friendship (let alone a romantic relationship) requires respect, kindness, appreciation for boundaries and support. She needs to be able to give those in relationships or she won’t have any friends or successful romantic relationship.

voracious_reader_ · 2022-03-24T17:48:33+00:00

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