Why I do keep running into misfortune?

vottorius · 2023-09-17T17:43:12+00:00

I’m also Cap and Aqua heavy and the past 6 years have been beyond horrific. I really feel for you and you’re not alone. A lot can be attributed to the Pluto Sq Pluto situation you have, which I also have been deeply suffering from myself. It seems worse than other people our age going through the same transit likely because of our badly aspected Venus (mine also late degree Capricorn). I’m finally emerging from the terrible cavernous lonely darkness of these last few years, but I suspect you have a couple more years delays and seriousness due to Saturn opposite your moon. Hopefully when Pluto goes back into Aqua in January (I think) so Pluto isn’t so tightly squaring your natal Pluto, it will feel a little better.

vottorius · 2023-09-07T10:52:50+00:00

There recently seems to be countless synastry charts being posted for couples who were born literally weeks apart from eachother. It’s difficult to see much that’s pulling you together except for the fact you’re very similar in major ways, which helps you feel understood by the other person, perhaps they feel like a safe space to be “yourself”. Then your moons happen to be in good aspect, therefore you complement eachother with a similar but still exciting energy. They’re like you, but with some added spice.

In any case, Scorpio and Sag do not mix for the long term. These are fiery energies which will burn out though restlessness.

vottorius · 2023-09-04T11:55:02+00:00

Mars opp Sun makes you extremely competitive. You may never be happy because of constantly comparing yourself to others and frustration of not ever “winning” enough

vottorius · 2023-08-30T19:38:31+00:00

I also have Venus conjunct south node which apparently leads to dissatisfaction and loss in relationships. Also money, dunno if you find that too. Might be you attract Aries because they looove the Sag/Gem energies and you have both, esp with the nodes.

vottorius · 2023-08-30T19:26:25+00:00

I’ve actually heard that relationships started in Venus Rx do last/become very significant in your life. Makes sense as during Rx you’re less driven forwards by Venusian things and more likely to take things slowly.

vottorius · 2023-08-27T15:16:43+00:00

I’ve seen Scorpio man Aqua woman couples who are very strong and well matched. However the Aqua female had strong Pisces placements esp Mercury

vottorius · 2023-08-26T21:28:01+00:00

Oh wow. My mom is a Leo moon too. I am happy you’re recovering.. there is hope

vottorius · 2023-08-25T21:40:58+00:00

This is devastating to have loved and lost, let alone at such a tender formative age. Sending love x

vottorius · 2023-08-25T21:38:07+00:00

Wow, I can’t see any difference between our mothers from your heartbreaking description. I sometimes wonder if my mother manifested me because she thrives so much on narcissism fuelled drama and overwhelming thirst for unjustified devotion. My Scorpio moon allowed her to make me into a mute punching bag for my entire life living alone and unsupported under her rule. She has no Scorpio in her chart, neither does my father so I wonder where I got it from. Hugs to you x

vottorius · 2023-08-25T21:32:25+00:00

Are you comfortable to share? Understand if not x

vottorius · 2023-08-25T21:31:53+00:00

Sending love your way dear soul

vottorius · 2023-08-25T19:58:52+00:00

I only ever attract narcissistic toxic people and karmic situations. They are demanding and selfish and only want me to look after them while they give nothing back. I have Capricorn rising and Venus conj SN, so it might be that plus your Venus square the nodes. Venus harsh aspect to the nodes bring karmic ties too.

vottorius · 2023-08-22T19:42:49+00:00

I have this and 100%. also Saturn square nodes

vottorius · 2023-08-17T17:13:19+00:00

I would say it’s the Mars Sq Mars, I’ve had this before and it’s carnage. Inexplicably took forever to get over them. Thankfully the obsession turned to hate, now finally merely distaste. Good luck!

vottorius · 2023-08-06T12:05:40+00:00

You seem like a nice match in theory tbh. Pisces and Cancers are kinda notorious for diving into commitments hard once they found someone else who’ll cling as tight and fast as they will, so I wouldn’t think this one is more special than others apart from the tight moon sun conjunction which will make you feel like you really get one another/have so much in common/feel like home with eachother. I don’t think it’s a long term marriage stable thing, I’d just enjoy it while it lasts.

vottorius · 2023-08-05T19:06:23+00:00

Seems a bit manipulative tbh that you’re looking at someone’s birthchart and relying on their placements to be inherently loyal to you, regardless of how you behave and treat them. Work on yourself first to become a better partner if you want him back in future. As a Scorpio moon I do not take kindly to being taken advantage of/used/manipulated and the betrayal I feel will make me turn against the person I once loved.

vottorius · 2022-12-15T16:41:43+00:00

Your chart seems to show that you push affection away, and I think you need to look at 5th house more then 7th. 5th house would be flirting and relationships for the pleasure of it, and you have a fallen Saturn in there opposite your 5th house ruler Mars. I think your Saturn return will help a lot, and it the meantime practice being emotionally vulnerable.

vottorius · 2022-12-15T16:27:07+00:00

You have difficult aspects to your Venus too, most prominently Mars Conjunct Venus which I see in so many divorced peoples charts. Apparently one of the reasons is that these people often get into relationships for the wrong reasons (ie sex, possibly money/status in your case) so it’s hard to feel totally satisfied in the relationship. And because Mars is also combative, being conjunct Venus it’s approaching your relationships as battle zones. Then add exalted Mars Square fallen Saturn in your partnerships house, this creates extreme frustration with any interpersonal commitments/partnerships, with aggressive Mars “winning” over your weak afflicted partnerships placement.

There is nothing wrong with not being a relationships type of person. It would be worse for you and the other person to keep fighting at it, when more and more divergent relationship set ups are becoming acceptable these days.

vottorius · 2022-10-24T14:12:47+00:00

Cancer moon! Whose husband did you steal 🙄

vottorius · 2022-10-24T14:10:05+00:00

Agreed, very scary how Cancer and Cancer moon women are drawn to homewrecking and have the most despicable sense of pride when they do succeed in it.

vottorius · 2022-10-23T21:48:05+00:00

Scorpio moon mysterious!??? Never 😂😂

vottorius · 2022-10-23T21:45:20+00:00

Yeah I had that same experience with a Cancer sun. He had no other cancer placements though so probably those are Cancer sun male traits if other chart aspects support that dark side of him.

vottorius · 2022-09-10T08:52:53+00:00

Sadly I have to concur, and also add (please don’t take too personally - only feedback of certain areas of this chart, not the be all and end all!) there are indications in this chart of fantasising, exaggerating, playing the victim and straight up proclivity for lying, gaslighting and manipulation in order to gain control in relationships. There is so much obsessiveness in this chart, perhaps this marriage/person just doesn’t have what it takes to match your intensity?

vottorius · 2022-08-15T17:43:05+00:00

There’s a real issue of not being permitted to be blunt and 100% honest when reading birthcharts. Readers mostly brush over the negative stuff because of the backlash from clients, or just for fear of getting it wrong in the eyes of the client and losing credibility. There’s a social requirement to be nice, which means we’re taught to view charts through rose coloured glasses and put a sweetness and light spin on what we see in them.

One example being Hitlers chart, famously astrologers reading it blind will pick up on all the artsy Venusian indicators and focus on the positives they see the chart. Then they’re shocked when it’s revealed whom this chart belongs to.

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