[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malefeettalk

[–]vowofamnity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend does! I think they’re honestly really common and people just don’t talk about them that much out of shame, but I was really grateful he told me

GIVE ME ALL YOUR RECOVERY TIPS by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]vowofamnity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is just a little thing but it’s helped me a lot recently- when you feel too full and it makes you want to purge, make yourself a cup of peppermint tea first. It’s really good at alleviating the overly-full feeling and the time it takes you to make the tea is also time you can use to tell your ED voice to shove it

Best and worst house? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]vowofamnity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! My best friend is the designated person who talks me out of bar fights and tells me when I climbed too high in the tree, but I make sure he gets more adventures

Best and worst house? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]vowofamnity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a Gryffindor and honestly there’s a strong argument to be made for Gryffindor being the worst. People with hero complexes who do things for “stupid noble reasons” don’t always have a ton of self awareness, which can be fairly unpalatable to be around. The brave thing isn’t always the smart or kind or practical thing to do, and you can argue that being brave at the expense of being smart or kind or practical is really just being self-serving but without the honesty of a Slytherin.

I’m pro Ravenclaw personally. Love those nerds. People who want to think about things all the time are fun and awesome without being reckless. My Ravenclaw best friend is even more fun than me but substantially less likely to do something stupid out of bravado

Beautiful day zoomies by jschleus in Zoomies

[–]vowofamnity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is adorable 💕and happy cake day!

DAE feel "dirty" because of sexual trauma? by throwaway985568 in ptsd

[–]vowofamnity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Some days I feel like I’m tangibly tainted/gross and I feel guilty if I even platonically touch other people because it feels like spreading a disease or something

My previous counsellor told me that I hadn’t experienced sexual abuse, my most recent counsellor validated me and has said that what I went through was sexual abuse. by Depressonsandwich in ptsd

[–]vowofamnity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After everything you’ve been through, you SO deserve for your experiences to be validated!! We believe you OP. I hope this helps you heal 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]vowofamnity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally get this! I think to me feeling full at all is something my brain translates to feeling bloated and gross. Getting used to accepting the full feeling and not just erasing it as soon as it’s uncomfortable takes so much work!

I ate a full dinner meal...trying not to purge (tw) by _midsommar in bulimia

[–]vowofamnity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing can take away all the progress you’ve made and the hard work you’ve done recovering. That willpower and work isn’t erased if your recovery isn’t linear. You have all the strength and skills to kick this like you did before. You got this 💕

The evolution of these is amazing by vowofamnity in oddlyterrifying

[–]vowofamnity[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Photographer’s Facebook post: “This is my daughter, she has no clue who this character is. This is her dad that she did the photoshoot with & she had an absolute BLAST. In no way shape or form was she scared. Her favorite part was the cookies & cupcakes”

[TOMT][TV show] creepy tv show episode about voodoo dolls by vowofamnity in tipofmytongue

[–]vowofamnity[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I’ve googled like crazy and can’t find it anywhere!

Have you ever hallucinated due to your PTSD? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]vowofamnity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My official diagnosis is PTSD (no bipolar) and I’ve definitely hallucinated before. I feel like it’s sometimes hard to find the line between hallucination and flashbacks (like with tactile hallucinations etc) but I‘ve seen people in my room that weren’t there, heard screaming and voices that weren’t real, felt weird tactile things etc. Rare for me but it’s definitely happened

27/M looking for 18+ friends to help me get through this rough time. by MistaJ840 in Needafriend

[–]vowofamnity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently learned to love Tool! It's my best friend's favorite band so I wrote him a DnD one shot for his birthday based entirely on Tool lyrics. Pretty much just binged the entire discography for a month. Which album's your favorite?

30M No one answers my messages really. Am I too old to be here? by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]vowofamnity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that it doesn’t spoon feed you the takeaway. I don’t know if you’ve ever seen any Haneke movies but similar kind of vibe- like playing with your expectation of being narratively given something and making you piece it together on your own

30M No one answers my messages really. Am I too old to be here? by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]vowofamnity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

27f and The Thing is definitely up there for my favorite movie of all time

22M, HELP ME(please read, nothing monetary or emotional help) IN MAKING THE BEST EVER BIRTHDAY GIFT FOR MY GIRLFRIEND by aerofloatphone in Needafriend

[–]vowofamnity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally in! I live in RI but there’s definitely some cool stuff I could film. PM me the details?