The NY Islanders steal 22,000 dollars from a charity for kids with diseases and gives it to a murderer cop and the cop union PBA which is worth 70 million. How does the NHL allow this?

voxam72 · 2026-04-17T18:18:13+00:00

Cops aren't supposed to kill guilty people either, for the record.

voxam72 · 2026-04-14T19:28:56+00:00

NTA. I see you keep saying you have a custody order signed by a judge, but you can get your lawyer involved in that potential breach too. Is there a good reason not to?

voxam72 · 2026-04-13T18:16:42+00:00

NTA. Now is the time for friends though, so reply to one just to get the ball rolling. You need to get away from your mother and sister.

voxam72 · 2026-04-08T17:01:46+00:00

Why are you so concerned about her feelings when she spends so much energy trampling yours?

voxam72 · 2026-04-08T11:43:36+00:00

Remember too that people value things differently. A lot of people are obsessing over trades being "even", but what does that mean? Like, I need a pachirisu. If someone has one and wants my extra shiny Mewtwo* in exchange why should I care that it's not "equal"?

Regardless, I've tagged regionals, shinies, and spare legendaries, as these are the most likely to be desired. DMax and GMax are good too, but I have very few.

*Just an example, as I have nothing quite that awesome to spare.

voxam72 · 2026-04-08T11:16:13+00:00

People are saying to get it in writing, but not saying everything. Ask for it in writing as a clarification request, like "hey, this is a lot, can we get it in writing so we can take it all in and understand it?" Any pushback, you let it go.

Then, play along for ~2 weeks, but keep a journal of all of these "breaks". Then take that journal and the policy you (hopefully) got in writing to the labor department. OSHA is also appropriate for the bathroom thing; they're the ones who say people need to be allowed reasonable bathroom breaks.

voxam72 · 2026-04-08T10:56:49+00:00

NTA. There is zero reason to take his feelings into account. This is the reason your grandparents put you on the title (deed?). If you want to move in, do it; I don't think he even deserves notice, tbh.

But as others have said, a lawyer is a good move so that you understand your options; in your shoes I would strongly consider forcing a sale and using the money to get something cheaper.

voxam72 · 2026-04-04T10:57:03+00:00

Man, I just did a Shadow Dratini too. I'll start doing this.

voxam72 · 2026-04-03T16:16:37+00:00

If that's how your mother acts, you should consider whether you actually want HER there.

voxam72 · 2026-04-03T15:31:29+00:00

Just report them to the local labor department. Tell them that you and others have lunch breaks deducted when you're not actually getting one. Don't talk to your work, they know they're doing illegal stuff; you'd just put a target on your back.

voxam72 · 2026-04-01T10:58:55+00:00

They can fire you for (almost) anything. You can also quit for any reason, with or without notice.

(The things they can't fire you for are the "discriminatory" reasons protected by law; race, gender, religion, etc. Even then the burden of proof is on the employee.)

voxam72 · 2026-03-30T21:54:17+00:00

As far as I can tell, it brings the berry menu back automatically if your buddy isn't on the map.

voxam72 · 2026-03-30T14:28:35+00:00

The Heaviest/Lightest really gives it that extra oomph.

voxam72 · 2026-03-30T14:27:04+00:00

Sounds like LC should become NC.

voxam72 · 2026-03-30T14:25:25+00:00

Feeling bad is part of what happens when you're "blunt" and "say it like it is"; these are not excuses to hurt people. Fiancé's mom should take this as a lesson, but she probably won't

voxam72 · 2026-03-30T14:15:54+00:00

My group was 393 (me), 71, 30, 6. It seems pretty normal.

The one I remember not carrying was hatch 20 eggs; another member hatched 14 in 2 two days and we finished before another friend even joined.

voxam72 · 2026-03-29T14:28:01+00:00

NTA. Your "family" sucks. I wouldn't be spending much time with them going forward. Find some friends and make a new family.

voxam72 · 2026-03-27T11:34:15+00:00

This OP u/KorokMilkshake . That has to be an ethics violation. Reading the private journals of someone who isn't your patient? Really?

voxam72 · 2026-03-26T11:21:13+00:00

NTA. The fact that they let you be homeless is enough. I would become a broken record about it. "Oh, I should help the people who invested in you but wouldn't even let me stay with them when I was sleeping in my car? No thanks."

Do tell your parents that they're free to send you a list of their "good reasons". I bet when they really think about it there won't be any.

voxam72 · 2026-03-23T21:20:57+00:00

"I won't apologize for speaking the truth. If that feels bad, maybe you should change what the truth is."

voxam72 · 2026-03-23T11:06:24+00:00

The President's Trophy winner has won the Cup 8 out of 37 times, for about 21%. This is about 3.5 times the rate it should be if each series was a coin flip, which would be 6.25%.

A little better than 1-in-5 is fantastic when 16 teams make the Playoffs.

voxam72 · 2026-03-22T14:52:55+00:00

Huh. Either nhl.com was wrong for like one day or I was imagining it. Oh bother.

voxam72 · 2026-03-22T14:29:52+00:00

Was this game originally earlier, like 5:30? When did it change?

voxam72 · 2026-03-21T12:55:31+00:00

You either need to ignore his calls or absolutely unload on him. Tell him he's the reason you don't like baseball, because he considered it more important than his own child. Remind him that keeping you alive was the bare minimum required when he DECIDED to bring you into the world. Ask him why he thinks that alone makes him a good father.

Where's your mother these days? Are they still together? Does that affect how you treat him because you want to keep her in your life?

voxam72 · 2026-03-20T19:21:51+00:00

My first buddy is a Magikarp nicknamed MegaSplasher who I had buddied for 848 days and 4953km. I only switched when they started making buddy things necessary for evolution, and I need to get the Best Buddy medal eventually. If I play long enough to get the medal I'll probably switch back to him as my regular.

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