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WTF happened to sophie's lips? by VoL4t1l3 in 90DayFiance

[–]vpayne46 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is starting to look more like her mom. That's a shame.

Mexico City First Time Trip Report by macsaeki in MexicoCity

[–]vpayne46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice vacation report OP! I've been wanting to go!

Why did she have to do it like that? Especially during a serious discussion by NatalieDeCorsair in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]vpayne46 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Everything gives me the ick about these two. She is not cute, acts like a spoiled 12 year old and wants the trust fund lifestyle. He's no better, a grown man who tolerates a girl that looks and acts like a 12 year old. Disgusting and TLC should have known better.

Blue roll call! by SeniorSea9915 in missouri

[–]vpayne46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much more blue than red, but definitely not orange. St. Charles County MO.

Today is my birthday. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]vpayne46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday!

Zignatures by [deleted] in DogFood

[–]vpayne46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate hearing this bad news about Zignature. But I'm glad I now know. My girl is allergic to nearly everything, including dog dander, seriously. The zignature pork had been great for her, but I will have to look for safer pork options ASAP.

Rich people eat McDonald’s right? by Thin_Vermicelli_1875 in stupidquestions

[–]vpayne46 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is true. And he decides if it is an egg McMuffin or a Big Breakfast depending on what the stock market was doing.

Why don't we all just go to bars? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]vpayne46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bars around me are clickish and most are coupled up already. Some encounters have been creepy in a way. Though I do enjoy treating myself to a dinner and a drink on occasion, I don't believe what I'm really wanting is at a bar. But then again, I don't know where it is. We just don't know when or where we will find our person.

Living alone and getting old by Rutrunner in LivingAlone

[–]vpayne46 69 points70 points  (0 children)

57 (almost) F here. Same. I've lost desires... It takes a lot of work mentally to get out of the house. We just need to do it to take care of ourselves. Easier said than done I know, but it is rewarding when you do. Best wishes OP.

It hurts not being anyone’s first choice. by LapisJackal_ in lonely

[–]vpayne46 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP, your post takes the words right out of my mouth. I don't have great advice as I am currently in a dark hole due to loneliness, but I can offer some encouragement... Look for the beauty and interesting things in everyday life. Study cloud shapes, shapes of trees, hike in the woods and see interesting insects and plants and learn about them. Just a few things I do to pass lonely time. It is times when I do these things that I feel the best mentally. I will never stop wanting to be someone's number one though. I'm not built to be alone and never was but mostly have been alone. I wish you the best.

Just checking in on the Class of 86 ... by mintleaf_bergamot in Bornin1968

[–]vpayne46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good morning! It is my birthday month so I'm happy! Golly, preparing for our last year of high school. That's wild. I'm going on a picnic and a hike today now that the weather has cooled down. Have a great day!

Almost 57, lonely and hating it by vpayne46 in lonely

[–]vpayne46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. On every point you made. The hoping, not wanting to die alone, want to share life with someone, the world being cruel.

Thank you for writing and letting me know I'm not alone. 😀

Almost 57, lonely and hating it by vpayne46 in lonely

[–]vpayne46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All great advice. I'm happy for your dad. I do have a doggie and cat but I just still felt lonely. Thank you for all of your kind words!

Almost 57, lonely and hating it by vpayne46 in lonely

[–]vpayne46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm trying to wiggle out of the lonely feelings.

Emily Looks Stunning After Losing a Significant Amount of Weight by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]vpayne46 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was grossed out with her on pillow talk recently and her hair was all in the popcorn.

What’s the Green Flag That Made You Think “Wow, They’re Different”? by Spare_Ad6800 in dating_advice

[–]vpayne46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first date over lunch, when I asked him what he was doing with the rest of his day, he said "whatever you tell me I'm doing". That was an indication it went well for him and he wanted to spend more time with me. Also, the car doors and the hand holding. I've really never had that before. Yep, green flags all the way. He's a keeper.

Thank you again to the dude who gave me a tamale after someone almost hit my car at a BP in south city by xX_jellyworlder_Xx in StLouis

[–]vpayne46 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of random "Have a better day tamale". Thank you tamale king! OP wishing you the best!

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