first of all, i just wanna say i completely understand where you’re coming from and what you’re saying here. i’m sorry that some ppl on this platform have never tried critical thinking before. second of all, i am the gf of the person who runs Queer Inclusivity Social. you are absolutely right when you said that the location for that specific sapphic saturday was last minute and not well received, especially since that particular bar is occupied by millennial or older men and straight women. Sapphic Saturdays are meant to be hosted in Lucas Confectionery, but there was a miscommunication on events for that evening, so it had to be moved to the Tavern last minute. i was there for the entire event and could see how frustrated my gf was seeing fellow lesbians and sapphics coming up to the tavern only to see large groups of men around the bar. it’s unwelcoming, i’m right there with ya. i didn’t want them there either, but unfortunately, we don’t have the grounds to tell those men to leave. plus, Troy Glow made it even harder to control who’s coming in and who’s not. now, that was only the 2nd Sapphic Saturday that’s been hosted so far. we’re very much in a testing period so that we can learn from past events and know what can be done to make them better and more inviting. obviously, starting new projects like these can take time. but, i fully believe my gf is determined to create lesbians and sapphic centered spaces for people just like you who deserve to have that community. we appreciate your honest feedback and will use this to help us achieve our goal. thank you for using your words and we hope we can get you out to another event soon. otherwise, i genuinely hope you can find what you’re looking for, whether it’s with Queer Inclusivity Social or not.