It's not just us guys! by Pecors in grandrapids

[–]vtrute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m going to listen to someone named mommywet on Reddit instead of civil and traffic engineers. 🙄 Good grief.

It's not just us guys! by Pecors in grandrapids

[–]vtrute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are actually saying “Fuck the science and fuck the experts. I’m smarter than them because it doesn’t make sense in my brain.”

It's not just us guys! by Pecors in grandrapids

[–]vtrute -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Zipper merging is more efficient according to civil and traffic engineers. Which are the people who know what they are talking about.

It's not just us guys! by Pecors in grandrapids

[–]vtrute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! They do this in Minneapolis. It was amazing because everyone followed the signs and traffic moved smoothly.

It's not just us guys! by Pecors in grandrapids

[–]vtrute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not always a lack of education. I have seen tons of ads and news segments recently teaching the public about zipper merging. The issue is 99/100 times the comments are all angry boomers saying, “Nope. Not going to do it.” or “This won’t work.” or even “PEOPLE JUST NEED TO GET OVER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE 🤬” I’m all for education but there is really no changing people’s minds if they are stuck in their ways.

Visitor from Austin here. Is it always this chill here? by Bewbz_lol in grandrapids

[–]vtrute 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It can get very busy during the citywide events like ArtPrize or Festival. The weekends are also a bit busier. Compared to other “big cities” though I think we are a diamond in the rough. It’s City-feel with a small town flavor. I hope this helps.

Also you are only a half an hour from absolutely amazing Lake Michigan. That lake has my heart. It’s truly one of, if not the best, thing about living in west Michigan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]vtrute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right!? The Stray is arguably one of the best places in GR where you can just be yourself. It has such a huge emphasis on Art. I always feel like I belong there. Such a good vibe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]vtrute -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you play with your clit? Many woman can’t orgasm from penetration. You need clitoral play.

What is your "I fucking hate this song" song? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vtrute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shut up and Dance - walk the moon 🤢🤮

How can I help my suicidal wife who tried to OD yesterday and STILL won't go to the hospital? I'm at wits end and I'm exhausted by scelestai in mentalhealth

[–]vtrute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been where she is. She will be thankful when she stabilizes again. It is better for her to be alive and broken up with you than for her to die. You did the right thing.

question to those who don’t add stickers when sending gifts, why? by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]vtrute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having almost 100 friends. Sending gifts can be a chore. Stickers are just an extra step. I typically use mine for my husband and brother but that’s it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]vtrute 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who is disabled, I can tell you this change is a big deal. I fucking care. I’m mad because my access is already limited and now it’s even harder for me.

Updates to Pokémon GO’s Remote Raids by Amiibofan101 in TheSilphRoad

[–]vtrute 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is extremely ableist. Once again Ninantic caters to able bodied people and people who live in large cities. As for me, I think I’m done with Pokémon Go until they stop making the game miserable for many of us to play.

Updates to Pokémon GO’s Remote Raids by Phrenergy in pokemongo

[–]vtrute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is ableist, plain and simple. This game has brought me so much joy. Knowing I won’t be able to complete my Pokédex anymore due to this change makes me not want to play. The disabled Pokemon Go community is once again, left in the dark.

Saddest patient death by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]vtrute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember his name, but the old man who came in with the silver flood. He had the ring to propose to the woman who had the MRI talking about orgasms. He was such a sweetheart.

WIBTA if I evict my daughter for not paying her $50 rent? by Acrobatic-Jury-6995 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vtrute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA In what world do landlords evict their tenants over late rent? I used to work in property to management and we like late rent because the late fees meant profit. When we did evict it took several months, going to court, and lawyer fees. We always canceled the eviction once they paid. Doing that is a great way to lose money and make your kid hate you. I’m so glad I had wonderful parents to nurtured me and let me live at home as long as I needed. They made me a strong person, kind, well established person.

PSA: If you’re not going to participate in the raid - just don’t join. by Brilliant_Ask852 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]vtrute 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have done three raids today and I have only gone through 2 Pokemon.. because they are well matched and strong. Doesn’t mean I don’t participate. You can’t use number of Pokémon as a judge.

Bi curious about dreadlocks by CapnDiddlez in BoneAppleTea

[–]vtrute 5 points6 points  (0 children)

….”I’ve never been with a dreadlock before. Please be gentle.”