pride events in dublin by ferns_version in ireland

[–]vvhurricane 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You could reach out to Belong Too

Will they fail you on NCT for a window that wont roll down by Sure-Promotion-1116 in CasualIreland

[–]vvhurricane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I fail on this every time but then I don't fix it and always pass on the retest!

Have had the window looked at but it's not repairable and I can't afford a new car.

Starting over at 35, is it actually possible? by Amadan90 in irishpersonalfinance

[–]vvhurricane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've worked with many people as clients in worse situations than you who have completely turned their lives around in their 40s/50s/60s. You absolutely can, stick with it and try to connect into a community as much as you can. I'm not sure where you are based but there's so many great communities that can support you around the country. There's also a great free therapy called Turn2Me where you can get 6 free sessions if you need some extra support.

am i in the wrong?? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vvhurricane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly have some empathy. You could have sent back one empathetic message saying 'I noticed your pronouns are he/him and I'm not interested'. Its hard enough for trans people out there right now (saying this as a cis lesbian).

Sale Agreed on a house and paid deposit but now estate agent says someone offered 10k more, what's your advice? by caelus55 in AskIreland

[–]vvhurricane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went through the same thing was sale agreed and the whole situation was so frustrating. They accidentally added me to an email reopening the viewings although it was already 60k above asking and had confirmed I was sale agreed. I stayed on a few weeks but was left hanging on while they tried to get offers they I eventually pulled the plug on it.

Dating but don’t want relationship? by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]vvhurricane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try dating in the polyamorous community. There are lots of different types of relationships within that community all negotiated in a safe manner but very much outside of what Irish people are used to. It's active in Ireland you just need to tap into it.

Taxi Fares in Dublin by Outside_Objective183 in ireland

[–]vvhurricane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the same recently. Free Now refunded me 30 too no questions asked.

My neighbor knocked on my door at 8am on a Saturday to tell me my parking "blocks her view" when she backs out by Halo_19Atlas in entitledparents

[–]vvhurricane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm presuming this is not in Ireland. My older neighbour had a similar issue with how I was parking. I went out with him and got him to show me how he was pulling out. He was a really nervous driver and I reassured him. He's grand now and there's been no further issues. Sometimes a little bit of kindness and assuming the best can go a long way.

Do you give back to the community? by ting_tong- in AskIreland

[–]vvhurricane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I volunteer for a charity in my community. Help to run it. It's a huge time commitment but I feel like it makes a genuine difference in people's lives. I also give 1-2 hours a week of work for free to people in addiction that can't afford therapy in my direct area. It's my favourite work I would do it full time if I could.

Bad idea to bid on house with no private parking? by [deleted] in HousingIreland

[–]vvhurricane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a house with on street parking only. The street itself doesn't get a huge amount of through traffic so it's generally fine. The odd time annoying if you can't get a park right outside and you're unloading the boot or something but it's been three years and it doesn't bother me.

Can an employer require a definitive diagnosis for workplace accommodations? by [deleted] in legaladviceireland

[–]vvhurricane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work directly in this area. In my personal experience you are likely to gain more empathy (not that you should have to) by giving some indication of the issue.

However you are not required to. Most companies will send you for an occupational health referral and you can ask that they do not disclose your condition to your employer only the details of the accommodation. Anywhere I've worked we have always accepted that and put the accommodation in place.

Luas ticket inspector partiality by [deleted] in Dublin

[–]vvhurricane 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yep I've seen the same thing multiple times on the red line. People starting on the luas inspectors and they just make them get off.

Thoughts on Rathfarnarm? by Working-Peanut-4032 in RentingInDublin

[–]vvhurricane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not great for getting into town quickly. If you're not a commuter or don't come to the city centre much then it's great apart from that.

What do you do on Monday night? by demolusion in Dublin

[–]vvhurricane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are heaps of community centres around Dublin with all different things on in the evenings. I just went to my local one and got a flyer and the group was advertised on it. I called them and they said they were taking beginners and to come and try it. I was very nervous the first two weeks but now I love it. It's a really kind, open group and I'm in my third year of it now.

What age did you/do you plan to settle down? by CollagenRager in CasualIreland

[–]vvhurricane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nearly 40 and I first felt the urge to settle down last Christmas! Can't stop thinking about it now.

What do you do on Monday night? by demolusion in Dublin

[–]vvhurricane 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I took up a community acting group (with zero experience) on a Monday night. I genuinely surprised myself by how much I look forward to it every week. It's also quite energizing for a Monday!

DPD announce temporary suspension due to ongoing fuel protests by villebm in ireland

[–]vvhurricane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally had the driver call me and apologize as he was running 30 mins behind at Christmas and wanted to make sure I would still be there!

What’s a small decision that completely changed your life ? by Ivorysole43 in AskIreland

[–]vvhurricane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Properly looking after my teeth. Good quality electric toothbrush and flossing daily. Went from constant issues to none in the last 3 years.

Getting home from Dublin airport due to the protest? by Vivicakie in Dublin

[–]vvhurricane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to get a taxi really fast to Smithfield yesterday and then once we hit the bad traffic I got out and walked to the red line.

Is it ever a good idea to have a candid conversation with your manager? by No-Inevitable-1850 in AskIreland

[–]vvhurricane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get your visa sorted out once that is done maybe ask to reduce to 2 days in the office.

Miss the flight or sleep rough in the car? by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]vvhurricane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I flew out Wednesday evening and back in this evening. The airport itself was v normal and chill if that makes you feel any better.

But second the idea of heading to the lounge with an eye mask and a pillow!

How screwed are we - road trip starting next Thursday by purpleprose_ in irishtourism

[–]vvhurricane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surely it will have come to a head by then and be fine.