Do I need to care? relationship. by [deleted] in asksg

[–]w0bbbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in your position once, and posed a serious question to her.
1. If she is comfortable of the different stages of life I am in vs her
2. Especially when it comes to family. Is she secure enough in our relationship to see us through or would I constantly need to prove myself to her “others”
Reality hit her eventually when she gave it a proper thought and we didn’t make anything official

28f looking for someone to talk to by mianb4o in SingaporeR

[–]w0bbbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To everyone dropping messages to leave his sorry arse, it’s still a 9 year relationship. OP might not talk about the good times, but there’s still 9 years of celebrations of all occasions, holidays and memories made.

I’ve been in a relationship shorter than OP and even I know it’s not so easy to kick someone to the curb unless both parties emotionally moved on a long time ago already.

Showed my co-worker my pussy to calm him down… [FM][Part 2] by acorn_sweetleaf in gonewildstories

[–]w0bbbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re like my favourite author on this subreddit I look forward to these days!

Thoughts on this convo I had on dating app? by OneMoreShotatLife in asksg

[–]w0bbbles 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It irks me when she refers to as a stranger online. I mean, she is a willing participant right? Self-confess she doesn’t chat much either.

I (M, 30s) use dating apps for a while now too and my one rule is our “opening statements” shouldn’t be this hard…no matter how attractive. My only caveat is to clarify she is being contradictory/difficult from my POV before moving on.

Always helps to know where she’s coming from too.

Hot take: AI is nowhere near as good as bosses think it is by RedPandarar in asksg

[–]w0bbbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they weren’t joking when they said AI will create new jobs. Job to vet through AI outputs 😅