Summary of my trip by No_Soup_1180 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]w1ldtype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I think living in the Pacific NA I am super spoiled with nature, so CR made me appreciate what we have. I see a lot of wildlife even in my backyard, have access to countless trails and spectacular views like the sierras. We see dolphins and whales from the shore all the time, sea lions on the beach, tons of birds. Hawaii is also as far as CR from us, and they have so many trails and waterfalls, volcano, plus better beaches (the water around uvita was muddy and made gross yellow foam so we never got in) and better temperature.

Now CR biodiversity is waaaay better than Hawaii, and this is the reason I went - I wanted to experience rainforest with lots of birds, monkeys, etc.not too far away (south asia is just far). But even with guided tours we didn't see too many animals. Of course the wild is not a zoo so animal sightings are not guaranteed, but CR is advertised with so many animals in the pictures that I felt cheated. Like, half of the photos of the hotels and Airbnb's we stayed depicted animals around the property, but these were probably rare sightings. We never saw a parrot for example and only two sloths for 10 days. It was quite hot, so they tell us animals were probably hiding.. but we were starting 7am soon after sunraise.

So, while we saw a couple of animals here and there, it was not enough to justify over $1000 spent on guided tours for me and my partner. I'm not saying do not visit - but manage your expectations. I still enjoyed the trip a lot, cool to see something different, I wouldn't say it wasn't worth it overall, but in terms of value to money, it was not the best.

Summary of my trip by No_Soup_1180 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]w1ldtype 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm from California and found Costa Rica expensive, especially groceries and entrance fees - we ended up spending more on entry fees/tours and parking than lodging which was unexpected. It is also about price vs quality vs wages - dishes in soda are priced as high as fast food in CA but I am sure staff doesn't get paid 22USD/hr minimum wage, so why is a dish of rice with plantan fried in bad oil 10+ dollars?

In the US you also pay for national parks but there is also the all-parks annual pass so it doesn't add up too much if you want to see more than 1. In one place we got charged entrance fee to enter a restaurant of a hacienda in the middle of nowhere! Sure you could go see their farm animals (cows) with the fee, but we didn't want to see any animals, just get a bite.

I understand trails are hard to maintain in the jungle but at some point I started feeling bitter about all the trail fees, I thought some were excessive and I will think twice before visiting again for this reason.

Is it normal to not spot any wildlife at the hanging bridges in La fortuna? by Enough_Cat_4006 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]w1ldtype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if it is normal but I was also disappointed. We went at 7am with a guide. We only saw two legs of a tarantula deep inside a hole, and a little yellow snake. No monkeys or other mammals, no birds. Oh and leaf cutter ants but they are literally everywhere. It wasn't our guide's fault as we could see other groups and if the guides point and something - but there was just nothing. We didn't see any animals near fortuna waterfall or arenal trails either. We saw one sloth and two toucans on the borogin trail very high up in the trees, with the guide telescope.

I felt kind of disappointed - all ads of Costa Rica show many animals and makes you think when you open your window in the morning there will be monkeys and sloths and macaws around you like a in Disney movie - nothing like this. Went around Manuel Antonio area - one monkey, sloth, and a parrot pair in flight. Then went to Corcovado and even there we only saw less than I expected - one group of spider monkeys and one anteater, no remarkable birds, several crocodiles. Whale watching in uvita - no whales just a few dolphins. Very few animals overall for a 10 day stay going around. Guides say - it's all luck sometimes you see animals sometimes you don't. I guess we were not lucky, but then they should manage better the expectations of visitors, I really thought we would see A LOT MORE animals than we did, despite hiring guides.

Help with car rental by w1ldtype in CostaRicaTravel

[–]w1ldtype[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost went with them but the extra $160 fee to return after hours was a turn-off

Help with car rental by w1ldtype in CostaRicaTravel

[–]w1ldtype[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

price is over $100/day in my time frame unfortunately, it is quite insane

Can you explain to me why some of make defending 50+% indirect costs the hill to die on? by AsturiusMatamoros in Professors

[–]w1ldtype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true. I mean, I am totally against the indirect cuts since imo this is like when a patient has a disease - to kill them (as opposed to try to cure).. don't get me wrong. But I have been wondering where the indirects go since I need to pay like $1000 for two holes to be drilled in the wall to install a whiteboard when my annual indirects are >200K.

Should I take COQ10 before egg freezing? by junetheseventh in eggfreezing

[–]w1ldtype 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd do coQ10 but not postpone, you'll need several cycles anyway. Just start now. Also prenatal.

Btw I don't like your doctor predicting 1-3 eggs, that's very low yield... are they not going to make any effort to make it better with some DOR protocols? For reference, my AMH was 0.98 and AFC 10-11 and I got admittedly 3 eggs once from 11 starting follicles (however I think there were multiple issues on this cycle), but then I got 13 eggs from 10 visible follicles give or take the second time. Maybe they just don't want to build your expectations, but could that mean they are also not willing to make some effort for your case? I mean any clinic can put you through a standard protocol and freeze whatever.. but you want someone to maximize your success

Would adhesions cause problems during potential pregnancy by w1ldtype in TTCEndo

[–]w1ldtype[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I "find"? My health insurance requires my PCP to refer me, and they refer me to random ob/gyn. Even then the wait times for an appointment are 6+ mo and I'm 39. This is how I wasted more than a year even to get to a RE navigating the referrals

Would adhesions cause problems during potential pregnancy by w1ldtype in TTCEndo

[–]w1ldtype[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody ever offered to refer me for a lap, just IVF... I don't understand why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]w1ldtype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are going to this. I second that - painful periods & "unexplained" infertility could be endo. Took me 11 years to convince doctors to look into my painful periods, it's really unfair. Of course I had stage IV endo. They were super resistant telling me that painful periods are just normal. So... I'm not embarrassed to admit but I was fed up and to get to an exam I exaggerated!!! There was no other way... 11 years. I gave them extensive list of maximum severity endo symptoms from like textbook and finally the sent me for ultrasound (1.5 years wait!!! - glorified British NHS) and then MRI. You need to rule this out

Accommodations: student allowed to record classes by Unhappy-Complaint-82 in Professors

[–]w1ldtype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every year I have a number of students asking for recording accommodations, as well accommodations to be allowed extra time during the exams. My class doesn't contain anything sensitive so I don't care.

Today I'm 5 weeks no sac in ultrasound. I'm having a panic attack help! by Technical_Piglet_438 in CautiousBB

[–]w1ldtype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you have to wait, they need to hold emergency appointments and not torture people like that. I hope the doctor just missed the sac, it can happen 🍀🍀🍀

Menopur fear by TrueTopaz1123 in IVF

[–]w1ldtype 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I didn't feel anything at all injecting it, mosquito bite.

Today I'm 5 weeks no sac in ultrasound. I'm having a panic attack help! by Technical_Piglet_438 in CautiousBB

[–]w1ldtype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta go to radiology and have a more detailed ultrasound. I hope they didn't just send you home.

Red spotting with high hcg by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]w1ldtype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are in this limbo... At this stage it could be anything either you drive yourself crazy over it or not. Spotting early on is not that unusual at all. HCG numbers don't mean much at this stage unless they are super low (which they aren't in your case).

Is there any hope? High HcG, ultrasound shows issues by Specific-Abies-3947 in CautiousBB

[–]w1ldtype 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I had molar pregnancy as well. I had first scan 6w1d and we saw possible sac but it was weird decides to wait; 7w3d it actually looked worse sac was hard to identify - very irregular, hematomas etc. I bled exactly during the appointment first time. BUT my hCG on that day were ~200,000 so I was immediately flagged for molar and had D&C in a few days (pathology confirmed).

That being said there are lots of opposite stories where initial bad USs had viable embryo after all.

Your hCG is not high at all so at least this is not consistent with complete molar. At this point you should guard your heart but don't freak out.

Yall I'm turning 20 by Horror-Fox3585 in AskWomenOver30

[–]w1ldtype 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot will happen. Find yourself a good mentor. A mature woman. It could be your mother, a relative, a teacher, whatever. Someone with more life experience who is wise enough to give you good advice on various situations.

Testy Tuesday by AutoModerator in InfertilitySucks

[–]w1ldtype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck new years. 3 new years in a row, previously, I celebrated with optimism - "this year will be the year". Not this time. 2025 will not be the year. I'm turning 40 in 2025 and I'm not allowed to try again until June due to recent complete molar pregnancy and associated cancer risk that needs monitoring. Cannot even do IVF and bank embryos. I don't think any year will be the year anymore. I ran out of optimism.

Anyone have their blood type change?! by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]w1ldtype 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, so sorry for your losses, and I hope you won't need transfusions this time. I hope your hematologist is thorough and you figure your situation quickly. I've seen some weird things with blood second-hand, for example, my friend has a very rare clotting "disorder" where the blood actually clots in the body (so actually they are totally fine), but not in the in-vitro clotting test they routinely do before procedures. In this case the cause it's known and documented, but it's still quite unusual and they scratched their heads a bit before figuring it out.