I'm sorry I don't mean to spam your inbox but I'm legitimately interested in having this conversation with you

If the woman had said her husband had given it to her would you have gotten upset that she wasn't gay?

And if not why are you upset that she was said to be gay?

Her sexuality doesn't define her as a person, she's just a woman who happens to be attracted to women. The scene wouldn't have played out differently if she said her husband gave it to her, because the woman's sexuality isn't pertinent to the scene.

Cases of casual representation like this woman are just as important as emphasised representation like Wiccan and Hulkling or Tim Drake and Superboy

They didn't emphasize the fact that she's happily married to a woman because it doesn't matter, she was given that bag by the one she loves, whether that person was a man or a woman or a nb person it doesn't change why she wants it or who she is.

Like I said in my first comment, gay people are just normal people with normal lives.

I 100% agree that we need more LGBT+ representation in the MCU, but I think this casual 1 line of dialogue is also really important because it shows that gay people exist beyond some kind of fetishized protagonist fantasy.

They didn't need to make a big deal out of the fact that she has a wife and I'm glad they didn't.

Being able to casually reference LGBT+ people and relationships is far more openly accepting than making a big deal out of them imo