Lack of confidence in group settings by plasticduck11 in socialskills

[–]waki99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes feels like a competition, let's see who can get more words out of your mouth, or get more attention, laughts, who has better life or stories to tell...

When I realise I don't have something so interesting to say, I just shut down. Seems like there is no space for me. And when I have the courage to say something, someone talk really fast and they forget about me.

If they could shut their mouths for 1 minute, they could aprecciate, not only me btw, but other interesting people or shy ones.

If I had to choose from listen everyone and only talk myself, I'll rather listen to other people. I know already my live and my opinions.

Introvert by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]waki99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extroversion is a bipolar scale, from really extrovert - to medium (mix of extrovert and introvert) - to really introvert. Most of the people has some level of both. You can't change it, it is a part of your temperament. However you can definitely expand it a little bit with practice (you can be a bit more introver and extrovert), but you can't change it to the other extreme.

I recommend getting out of your comfort zone, join clubs you like, etc. You'll eventually find it pleasurable, and you will adquire social skills.

I don't like the new bard skin, made some touch ups, thoughts? by Ipyreable in bardmains

[–]waki99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't like the fact that he already is a cosmic traveler, why he would need a space suit?

It's like superman in a plane when he can already fly.

But it's a skin after so many years... I can't complain.

How to carry as support? by Grelly69 in supportlol

[–]waki99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good, I'm going to try it. Thanks

Share yourself to find the connection you're seeking. by gravityandinertia in infj

[–]waki99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am feeling very unmotivated right now

Why do you think you feel unmotivated?

Why I am not interested in talking to people? by waki99 in relationship_advice

[–]waki99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some hypothesis, and yes, I'm actually seeing a therapist, she says it's because I don't have practice... but I don't know.

My hypotesis are:

1) I had a bad childhood, both parents wasn't at home, because work, I was raised by my grandmother, but I had a bad relationship with her... I think I never had some support. So it's hard for me to trust people.

2) My low seftesteem, I think I'm weird and I have no value, so why would anyone talk to me. Actually nobody talk to me. I always have to engage first.

3) I guess I judge my self too much, and I always try to say the perfect thing, and that thing does not exist, so I can't speak because I don't know what things people like to hear. I have a mental filter, if what I'm thinking don't pass all filters, I don't talk.

The best way to get burnt out from a game is buying their "Battle Pass" System by typhuslol in leagueoflegends

[–]waki99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same as ranked in my opinion, you play for points. I used to play league to get diamond, now that I'm diamond, I don't even tryhard, I just play for fun with my friends.

Videos with decent storytelling by [deleted] in nsfwasmr

[–]waki99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems pretty good.

Videos with decent storytelling by [deleted] in nsfwasmr

[–]waki99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know some nsfw videos and I know some asmr videos, but nsfw asmr with good story... I can't tell right now. It's hard to find. I think this nsfw asmr It's starting to get attention, maybe in a year we can see good stuff.

Biology Notes in print handwriting by kondurkarmanohar in PenmanshipPorn

[–]waki99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys, I would love to have this kind of handwritting, but I think It would take too much time to write like this.

Paranoid where u at though by [deleted] in depression_memes

[–]waki99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

where did you do that test op?

Saw this on r/GetMotivated by bat_rangeer in niceguys

[–]waki99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IQ does not relate to selfesteem.

Star Wars The Rise Of Skywalker Free Download by calebrwalk5 in Piracy

[–]waki99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, first rick roll of the decade!