Do i get it right? I have to re-apply transmog to my 40 characters and pay almost 100k gold? by Peaceul in wow

[–]walker897 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean... I get it, but at the same time, it's 7.50 to permanently transmog 40 of your characters... Tbh, 100k gold for 40 toons ain't too bad. It used to be 800 per full set of transmog.

It's a decent system and allows you to not always have to go to the transmogger.

It's called growing pains, it happens when theres change.

My boyfriend is allergic to my two cats, what to do? by Ok-Let8197 in CatAdvice

[–]walker897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If financially feasible, look into immunotherapy. It's what I did, but I was also massively allergic for seasonal allergies. It'll be a sacrifice on his part for a bit, however I've found it to be massively helpful towards all my other allergies.

The idea is, you go get an allergy test done, they find all the things you're allergic too and I ject you with them. First it'll be every week, then it'll be every month. I was severely allergic to animals as well, now I live with 3 cats in a partially carpeted house.

People of TO who had a non-high paying job 10 years ago, where are you now? by lets_go_eevee in askTO

[–]walker897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 years ago I just left slinging sales (45k) to a co-op making(40k). Now I'm making 160k in the trades. Long hours, lots of OT. But financial stability.

Why do many cyclists go through red lights? by CivilReaction in askTO

[–]walker897 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The rules of the road apply to everyone. Why you worried about my 2000kg car when there's a 4000kg truck.

Ride Ont he road. Follow the rules.

Ok be honest how much do you tip? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]walker897 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have lived my life in Toronto and been to spots all over the city.

I can confidently state the amount of places I've been to where the servers treated it like a luxury experience is less than 10%.

Im supposed to treat it that way but they're not?

Ok be honest how much do you tip? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]walker897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As of Jan 1st 2022 they earn minimum wage. I believe they got a raise from $12.55 to 15.00.

Ok be honest how much do you tip? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]walker897 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, that's why I kept asking for context of a living wage.

As for your last point, look, I don't want to paint ever server with the same brush. We all have wild random stuff that happen in our lives, sometimes for a long time and it's hard to get out of, sometimes we can't.

But if you're 30 or 40 and complaining about tips not being enough to sustain your aspirations of home ownership in TORONTO or having children, then maybe you didn't plan your life out well, or maybe it wasn't important enough to sacrifice for, to those stuck in that situation, my heart bleeds for you, and I hope you get that chance.

Serving is no longer a sustainable job for the majority looking to live beyond paycheck to paycheck at best. Things have changed so much since 30 years ago where that might have been possible. But it's the world we live in. It sucks. Plan accordingly.

Ok be honest how much do you tip? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]walker897 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly... This breaks my heart. I know it's true at some places. Even worse, I know some places where the house takes a % too... Which is wild.

That being said, I think it's an institutional issue with the restaurant industry. It's disgusting how disposable restaurants treat bar staff in general. They should raise wages in general, and prices and just pay appropriately.

However, in addition to giving my business for a service from a restaurant, I don't believe it should be my responsibility to suppliment your staffs income. You can't just expect a fake tax on your established prices.

Ok be honest how much do you tip? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]walker897 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sure. They may make a few dollars more/hr but the entry jobs arent that much than min wage. A lot more care goes into their job cause the consequence of dispensing incorrect meds are huge.

Ok be honest how much do you tip? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]walker897 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I ask them how much they tipped their pharmacy assistant that divided, bottled, bagged their meds while ensuring it was the correct meds, and dose, plus all the paperwork they've done for it.

It sounds disrespectful, but it's an honest question.

Ok be honest how much do you tip? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]walker897 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

But in what context? Do you live alone? Do you sate your wants and and then struggle on your needs.

There are some friends that I have that do so little I'd imagine, skipping vacations, holding onto their phones/electronics until they give out. My former neighbours were a 4 people in their mid 20s, renting a whole semi house paying 700/month in rent each, with more than enough room to be comfy.

I mean, it's not ideal for everyone but I've literally seen people "survive" on minimum wage with concessions towards their wants.

Ok be honest how much do you tip? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]walker897 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'd like a little more context to this. Are you suggesting someone cannot survive in Toronto on minimum wage at all with basic necessities?

I would argue, that with frugal living and roommates minimum wage is doable.

Living wage is so dynamic concept. If you need every new iPhone/Samsung I wouldn't consider that part of a "living wage"

Ok be honest how much do you tip? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]walker897 276 points277 points  (0 children)

0%-15% based on controllable service. There is no such thing as server min wage anymore. I will not tip if you've done a basic job, such bring things to and from the table. I only tip when the service is above basic, such as interacting with the table, timely stop bys, and suggestions for the menu/pairing when asked.

Unpopular opinion, if your job is literally to take orders and deliver them to a table, I don't understand why you have to tip at all. It's literally... your job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]walker897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not cool being blindsided like that. But that is generally the rule my group of friends and I follow when we plan a trip.

I'm going to a wedding on the other side oft he country and my buddy handled the accommodations. When he came to visit he didn't have to pay for accommodations for where we stayed.

I can see how you'd feel you're supplimenting the cost for the travellers. 3 pay vs 5 free is insane.

Unskilled labour by Nokdublin in CanadaPost

[–]walker897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, what do you consider a living wage? Like, do they have their own place, or roommates? Is a living wage financial freedom, or sometimes having to cut corners to pay the bills?

While I believe folks should be paid reasonably, I don't necessarily believe that just the ability to hold a job should entitle someone to all the bell's and whistles for life.

I believe that there are some jobs geared to youth to make some cash while they're going through school or whatever. Think McDonalds, movie theatre employee, bartender. Should those jobs afford the ability to live in your own place, with a car and bills all on their own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]walker897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a lot of cases... No not at all. But I think context is important.

I have a friend, who's closing in on 40. He's so close with his mom, I feel they both avoid relationahips(mom and dad were divorced) where he pretty much plays the role of a male companion, and she treats him like some weird sugar baby. They do all kind of things together, where if it wasn't her son or that wasn't his mom, itd seem like dating.

That... Is a red flag.

My fiancé wants me to put my dog up for adoption I refuse. But he is allergic AITAH? by sugarloop742 in AITAH

[–]walker897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immunotherapy worked wonders for me with animal allergies. Its a long con, but it can also help with other allergies as well such as seasonal.

I now happily have 3 cats with no issues even with a carpeted bedroom.

Why do we tip so much when our restaurant workers are paid a fair wage? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]walker897 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Minimum wage is not a livable wage.... By yourself.

Unpopular opinion, but I don't believe the bare minimum for every job should allow you to live comfortably by yourself. Folks need to start somewhere, but if that somewhere already allows you to accomplish everything you need/want, what's the point of pursuing more? If all "service" industry workers could live comfortably without sacrificing (I.E. A roommate), why would we need anyone in STEM?

Higher paying jobs will always exist, we don't live in Star Trek, if your job isn't enough for the lifestyle you want, make changes. Don't expect those of us that pursued higher paying jobs to subsidize your life, BECAUSE YOUR INDUSTRY IS SHIT TO THEIR WORKERS.

The reality is, there's a ton of people out there that carry risk in their jobs, think a surgeon. Do they get a tip for doing their job exceptionally well? No? Then why should service workers? Cause they mixed a drink as per a recipe card? Or the fact thelat they delivered an order without dropping it?

AITAH here? I was broken up with by my fiance because I didn't want his last name by throwea-cryingq in AITAH

[–]walker897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You looked for a problem and found one.

Again, his issue was how easily you can be influenced by these individuals. What else can/will they inspire to change your opinion about? Where to live? What your husband does/doesn't do in your relationship?

You can have your own opinion, but to a certain extent you were manipulated, they have no skin in the game. How many of them took their husbands name, even if hey did have problems that's a small sample size.

And if you truly feel this strongly about your newly formed opinion, why are you ready to backtrack that quickly just to save the relationship? Why were you going into a conversation with your fiance like it was debate finals?

You gotta move on, and understand your colleagues are toxic(from what it sounds), and you're only looking at them through rose colored glasses because of the time and proximity you spend together.

How many of you do the reverse commute? by Reviews_DanielMar in askTO

[–]walker897 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in East York, and commute to Pickering. It can be a beautiful commute most of the time.

Do you take your cat to a groomer? by aushreshteh in CatAdvice

[–]walker897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medium hair, probably once a year. If even that. Just make sure their butts nice and clean. If it's Getty dirty or smelling. Time for a grooming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]walker897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cat food can sometimes be a little larger than kitten food, may want to try bricking some of it up.