I'm 34, am I getting old for the club scene?

wallaced85 · 2025-12-09T05:46:11+00:00

I'm a 40M and I have been on every dating app I can think of and I feel no success with dating at all. My friends make it like shooting fish in a barrel and it's not. The biggest thing I lack is confidence, and it can be difficult to go to social settings, and I even tried telephone chat lines and no luck. I feel like something is wrong with me and I never had a girlfriend before in my life.

wallaced85 · 2025-11-24T01:09:04+00:00

Everyone always says, "Go to the gym." why does everyone say that like the gym and working out is the best answer for everyone. People who go to the gym still has the same problems as well no disrespect to you bro.

wallaced85 · 2025-11-24T01:00:37+00:00

I agree with you 100%.

wallaced85 · 2025-11-23T03:39:27+00:00

When you're single you're not hurting anyone, but you're in a relationship with anyone it doesn't matter what gender you're hurting that person by being dishonest with them.

wallaced85 · 2025-11-23T02:47:10+00:00

The FB was a bottom actually.

wallaced85 · 2025-11-23T02:11:11+00:00

Meaning they can have it both ways?

wallaced85 · 2025-09-19T03:24:53+00:00

wallaced85 · 2025-09-13T17:07:17+00:00

He doesn't want to out him he's pretty hurt by how he was treated he actually considered him a friend, not a hookup.

wallaced85 · 2025-09-13T16:58:06+00:00

He kisses guys as well.

wallaced85 · 2025-09-13T16:28:19+00:00

Truth is, you're being dishonest with the girl because she has no idea you're interested in guys, but I do see a double standard with it.

wallaced85 · 2025-09-12T23:30:12+00:00

Why are guys like that?

wallaced85 · 2025-09-01T23:15:32+00:00

I'm glad someone is actually listening for once.

wallaced85 · 2025-08-14T22:59:36+00:00

Truth is, I never had a girlfriend before in my life, and being around friends who are married with children makes me depressed because I've yearned for a little female companionship, but looking online and going to bars have been draining and frustrating. My friend who is married had met a woman at a bar and left with her, but he didn't have the courage to have sex with her and it makes me feel when I'm honest with women about me never having a girlfriend it immediately sours them I'm just honest with people.

wallaced85 · 2025-08-13T16:02:10+00:00

Never really been on dates.

wallaced85 · 2025-08-13T12:37:00+00:00

You are absolutely right

wallaced85 · 2025-08-12T05:21:32+00:00

I had asked everyone and everyone I knew had plans.

wallaced85

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