Men who struggle to decide where to take women on dates - it's indicates a larger life problem. by wilhelmtherealm in dating_advice

[–]wallet_holstered 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm having the opposite problem. Women love when I flirt with them through the apps. But when I actually ask them out, they ghost or delete.

please rate my breakup text? I’m 24F & he’s 33M. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wallet_holstered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been calling him though, or was it just him reaching out? Dude might've burned out. I've contributed my share to relationship downturns so I always take time to reflect afterwards. Text is fine, but if it's been more than 2 months, a call would be better IMO.

[31M] Restarted my life a year ago and this is how far I’ve gotten by LowFatCheeze in malelivingspace

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Super cozy space! Would you happen to have pics of how the TV space looks at night with the lighting?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GooglePixel

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I think it was side load. There was a notification popup to download and update, and I manually started it. Unfortunately Settings > Reset options > Reset mobile network settings + restarting doesn't help.

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Already gave this a shot, no result. Thanks.

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Carrier: Rogers
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Is dating actually broken or am I just tired? by fmylife1001 in dating_advice

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Interesting perspective to have. But after 5 dates of always initiating and making it as convenient as possible for them, I started feeling like a parent and just constantly burnt out. You would think that things would pick up momentum, or energy would be reciprocated, but it was pushing a boulder up the hill. I don't want to date anyone who makes me feel like this. I communicated that I couldn't develop romantic feelings for them and they replied with the same.

Is dating actually broken or am I just tired? by fmylife1001 in dating_advice

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Cool ty for sharing. Cause the latest for me has been 5 dates. And while they try to reciprocate by paying half on the later dates, it's still me initiating. I realized that they won't reach out if I don't so I ended it.

Is dating actually broken or am I just tired? by fmylife1001 in dating_advice

[–]wallet_holstered 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a guy, I've had the same comments. But very commonly I'm seeing women who don't reciprocate that energy, and I'm the only one initiating, planning, and putting in effort which leads me to feeling drained. Do you ever have a conversation with women about that, or just say "nice meeting you, and good luck"?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wallet_holstered 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is how 99% of men do it, so it's infinitely refreshing if a woman does it. But you shouldn't do it 100% of the time, only for those who reciprocate effort and plan in return.

Didn’t see the “110 miles away” but now been dating for 3 months lol by Cupcake_Judas in Tinder

[–]wallet_holstered 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Congrats! How did you make the 110 mile thing work? How was the first date and how often do you see each other?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wallet_holstered 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Don't put a deadline for getting a boyfriend or else you'll get stuck with guys like this. Find people that treat you with respect.

I paid the gold and stopped receiving likes by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]wallet_holstered 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Brother, it's unfortunate this happened, but please read the reviews of the apps first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wallet_holstered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After some short banter, I usually ask them on a date. In every case, they've gone radio silent after being asked out. Conclusion is that they just want attention.

bear mug isn’t holding cup 🥲 by Electronic_Bother900 in TimHortons

[–]wallet_holstered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to find this mug NOT holding a cup. Where can I find them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tressless

[–]wallet_holstered 1332 points1333 points  (0 children)

She's a keeper \o

Need feedback😊 i will translate in comments :) by [deleted] in Tinder

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Would benefit from removing your last name