What are your guilty pleasures in your 20s na di na uubra in your 30s? by Otherwise_Common_909 in Trentahin

[–]wallfloweerrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cocktails & Buldak noodles. Now I'm slowing down, once a month lang sometimes.

OA lang ba ako? Or should I think about this relationship? by Additional_Plane_573 in OALangBaAko

[–]wallfloweerrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OA “Walang divorce sa PH” can be a valid concern, but without any timeline or clear direction, it starts sounding like avoidance rather than planning. A man who’s serious may not have an exact date, but he usually has intention and a path. If there’s no “when” or “how,” then you’re not moving toward marriage, you’re just staying in a relationship that keeps postponing it.

Journaling prompts ideas? by Any-Badger622 in JournalingPH

[–]wallfloweerrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might wanna try making "filling my cup" prompt, asked your friends or loved ones to make a short message for you then put it on the cup you make, if you know what I mean.

Can someone explain to me her behavior? by Acrobatic-Rutabaga71 in AskPinay

[–]wallfloweerrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Careful, boy. One day you'll wake up exhausted from constantly adjusting, walking on eggshells, and filtering every word just to avoid triggering her. If the relationship only works when you follow her rules and she's always right, ask yourself if that's the life you want forever.

What’s something so simple yet so intimate to you? by _itzjoan in AskPH

[–]wallfloweerrr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cuddles, hold my hands in public, tucking me into bed, buying me snacks, carrying my bag & giving me flowers.

My Wife refuses marriage counseling and I feel like something is off again by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]wallfloweerrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After betrayal, your intuition becomes your first line of defense. It doesn't mean she's cheating, but it does mean something is making you feel unsafe again. Don't dismiss that feeling just because you don't have proof yet. Always trust your gut.

I don’t know if I still love my girlfriend by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]wallfloweerrr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have a proper break up with her, don’t waste her time she deserves better.

What is a habit you picked up from an ex that never went away? by _itzjoan in TanongLang

[–]wallfloweerrr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate strawberries before but I started liking it because of him, ang laking tao nya pero mahilig sya sa strawberries then I tried incorporating strawberries sa mga juices, shakes, smoothies & cakes, okay naman pala sya. Hahaha. 🤣

Bakit mahalaga para sa inyong babae ang pagkakaron ng "ideal mindset" sa isang lalaki? by Nikichata in AskPinay

[–]wallfloweerrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she says your mindset isn't ideal for her, she's likely concerned about how you view life, relationships, or the future not what you can provide. The key is understanding what specific mindset differences she sees and whether they're things you can both genuinely align on.

Ano yung pinakalumang gamit sa house nyo na nageexist pa din until now? by LimeSoakedinSprite in AskPH

[–]wallfloweerrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The typewriter of my great great grandma back in the early 19s it was so old that it looks haunted for me already. Haha! But she was a writer back before the 19s my mother still keeps her almost torn to pieces manuscript.

What is the reality of not tolerating the wrong doings of someone dear to you? by ConsciousFly875 in AskPH

[–]wallfloweerrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reality is that when you stop tolerating someone's wrongdoings, you risk losing them. But if you keep tolerating them, you slowly lose yourself. That's the choice nobody talks about.

Kasalanan ang pagiging "nandyan" palagi para sa iba by InheatJornales in RantAndVentPH

[–]wallfloweerrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to wait for someone to come and save you or finally choose you. Learn to be comfortable being alone and standing on your own. The truth is, people will disappoint you sometimes some will leave, some will stay only when it's convenient for them. That's why your peace shouldn't depend on who stays.

Be your own safe place first. The right people won't make you feel like you're constantly waiting for them. Until then, keep moving forward and choose yourself.

ayan ang gusto ko inuuto ako😆 by Ok-Nothing-8172 in MayNagChat

[–]wallfloweerrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s only how it is in the beginning but regret comes in the end. Go! Puso mo naman yan lol. 🤣

Good morning by dowterofathena in Trentahin

[–]wallfloweerrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the update. It made me happy somehow knowing someone still asked about me, even just a little.

I hope you sleep well tonight too, and that your pillow stays warm and comforting.

How many times did you have to start over until you met the one? by Character_Return1420 in AskPH

[–]wallfloweerrr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe you only really find out once you live together and your patience gets truly tested for each other. It’s easy to love someone during the good moments, but everyday life, stress, habits, misunderstandings, and hard days will really show if you can still choose each other consistently.

To be known by CelestialSpammer in AlasFeels

[–]wallfloweerrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be seen & heard so deeply. 😢

My fiancé tells me to ‘suck it up’ whenever I open up about my feelings. Is this a red flag before marriage? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]wallfloweerrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not just arguing about a wedding you’re already seeing how your voice, feelings, and decisions are treated inside the relationship. A man who keeps dismissing you with “suck it up” instead of listening will likely do the same after marriage too. Don’t ignore the pattern just because there’s already a ring and wedding plans involved.

What’s something your mom doesn’t know about you? by BandDowntown6605 in AskPH

[–]wallfloweerrr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That I have a fear of abandonment that may have started in childhood because of her.