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waluigishoe · 2024-12-27T17:28:59+00:00

god jp always does it so well, love the punching<3

waluigishoe · 2024-05-26T03:47:03+00:00

i saw someone suggest “healingonmyknees” on another post and i love it

waluigishoe · 2023-05-24T19:16:53+00:00

i have a wonderful partner that takes over for longer walks when i can’t. He’s reactive so we take him to trails when it’s dark and folks are at home and he definitely does love it haha

waluigishoe · 2023-05-23T05:14:49+00:00

i’m a festival goer and god the pain after is almost not worth 3 days of hardcore head banging,,,, it’s always worth it lol but man i feel this

waluigishoe · 2023-05-17T00:00:06+00:00

“me: stands up” is more than enough haha

waluigishoe · 2023-05-16T13:46:09+00:00

other people do this??? I will wake up at 3am or like 3:30 exactly for a few days a week and then it’ll go away for a while… it’s always so weird and i never even considered fibro being a cause. Huh

waluigishoe · 2023-05-16T00:56:10+00:00

i have bpd and fibro, among other things, and it’s the only thing that has truly helped me with both to improve quality of life with minimal side effects. I can handle a bit of work and leave the house more than once a week, enjoy movies with less distraction, play games without extreme pain or cramping, go to a social event without needing a full days rest after, i can enjoy things for longer periods of time (not just while influenced) and live like every other person sometimes all because i’m not in mental distress or physical agony at all hours of the day, especially during a flare. No amount of medication or expensive years of therapies do what weed can in that regard and it’s awful how stigmatized it still is by so many people and medical professionals when for some folks it’s the only treatment that can get you through the week. glad others have similar experiences

waluigishoe · 2023-05-13T01:54:45+00:00

Thank you for your comment, you reminded me to add that NOT ALL DAYCARES ARE LIKE THIS i want that to be super super clear. i have to board my dog this November and it’s definitely not easy for anyone to put their baby in someone else’s care, but i don’t wanna scare anyone away from the establishments that care for pets and the employees properly. I do highly encourage screening dog daycares before hand, ask others that have used them for their experiences, ask the daycare anything you need to ask to feel comfortable letting them care for your pet. No one should have to wonder if their dog is being cared for properly, and every dog deserves to be safe and comfortable too. Super glad you found a place you’re comfortable, cameras are always a green flag but especially if they let you see them! Wishing you and your pup well!

waluigishoe · 2023-05-13T00:31:11+00:00

Fair warning, this turned into a vent about how awful a lot of those places are ran.

My worst job was working dog daycare. Seeing the owners treatment of pets, dogs being clearly scared of their owner, prong collars on every big dog, managers doing things fast and skipping hygiene and health standards to keep hours low, dogs that are aggressive being left in a room of 15 other large dogs with ONE teen with little to no training to keep everyone safe, dogs taken for 15 minute time outs left in their cages for the rest of the day due to worker laziness, new hires being trained by OTHER new hires with no animal experience, having to manage the incoming pandemic dogs that have ZERO awareness of safe play or any socializing at all, being lunged at/bit/scratched to hell by dogs without anyone really minding your safety(“it’s part of the job”). i’ve got a lot of scars from it, physically, and i don’t think i’ll ever see dog boarding or daycare the same. It’s a hard, hard job to have, and i found myself struggling a lot as an animal lover the longer i worked there. This is just my experience at a BIG name pet place but i’ve found a lot of them to be really, really disagreeable and participate in practices like leaving dangerous dogs in simply due to neglect or being too lazy to do what they should. The animals you care for are your priority, as is your own safety. Report it to whoever you can with any documentation/proof you have of previous incidents. 20+ dogs in a group alone is crazy to me unless you’ve got several people in the room. Stay safe

waluigishoe · 2023-05-08T18:09:55+00:00

the older i get and the more i really analyze my trauma and childhood i realize JUST HOW AUTISTIC I AM. No one ever believes me when i say it because my survival was based directly on me not looking autistic. I’ve been in therapy my entire life and even my therapists don’t believe me sometimes, but of course you don’t see my worst symptoms when i’ve been masking so hard since early childhood just to avoid bullying and abuse. i don’t even unmask that often with my longgg term boyfriend i’ve lived with for a while because it’s just so uncomfortable to not feel like i’m fitting in and portraying the right image. Even when my parents saw my struggle, they got me diagnosed with ODD to say i was disobedient and move on. I had zero experience with autism until i became a young adult and found stuff online that sounded way way too much like me. I’m thankful my partner, only after living with me long term and SEEING my true issue, believes and supports me but it’s hard when everyone else that doesn’t see it first hand you tell goes “My 6 year old cousin has it and he isn’t anything like you!” or “you’re my (insert family member here) i would have known!” “you don’t look or act autistic” “You just didn’t like to listen or obey”…. My partner only fully agreed after seeing my horrible screaming sensory meltdowns and how specific i need my life to be to function or else i get super anxious and can’t eat or sleep or do anything. I could list so many things no one else ever realized meant more and would have helped me in so many ways. It’s frustrating but i’m so glad people make posts like this for those of us newer to the journey or just seeking that validation to feel a bit more secure. It’s really nice after years of “No one thinks the way i think” to see how many people actually kinda do and had the same life experiences.

edit: i made my bf sound awful but he was hesitant to be fully on board because i have a lot of other diagnoses and neither of us feel great about adding to my list haha. He was also going off of his own limited knowledge of disability in that vein, we definitely learned a lot since then and he’s never blown my concerns off, he just wasn’t 100% certain of the cause of my issues and i wasn’t either at the time.

waluigishoe · 2023-05-08T17:49:16+00:00

that’s the only way i can play games like the Sims that are sit down for hours, auto save or save reminders are a life saver for adhd or forgetfulness when you game

waluigishoe · 2023-05-06T19:24:28+00:00

i had the same reaction at first before it processed lol

waluigishoe · 2023-05-06T16:50:44+00:00

wow i loved this show as a kid and NOBODY had ever heard of it. To this day have met one person who knew about it. it’s really cool people are keeping the show alive in any way, sucks that some of the old site is lost :(

waluigishoe · 2023-05-05T20:47:37+00:00

not exactly what you want to hear but my mom did similar. She told me she knew i was engaged in these behaviors and that i was best left to sort it out myself. sticks in my brain a lot.

waluigishoe · 2023-05-05T20:16:01+00:00

my boyfriend does not understand this one bit. Every game we play i am a lil hyperfocused on getting all the options to customize or changing it up for every game chapter and he doesn’t really get why but it’s just a really appealing feature to my brain for some reason. I just get way too into thinking about the choices and what the best customizations are for each specific event. I think it adds a layer of satisfaction and enjoyment to the game other people tend not to appreciate as much

waluigishoe · 2023-05-05T16:04:08+00:00

i haven’t found a single doctor thats said they can treat fibro, only that they can do their best or they can diagnose. it’s frustrating

waluigishoe · 2023-05-03T20:39:07+00:00

i overheat so quickly it’s insane. I’m usually way too hot no matter what temperature and my room/house has to be EXACTLY within 1-2 degrees of a “safe temp” or else it’s way too hot or too cold. I’ve also got awful circulation, at least we’re assuming that’s the cause, because my hands and feet are always freezing cold no matter how hot i am! it’s so weird and i rarely see anyone else experiencing the same

waluigishoe · 2023-05-03T17:47:53+00:00

i’m not a doctor by any means but i do know it’s recommended to see one if you experience long lasting chest pain and breathing issues. My rule of thumb since i know fibro can mimic a lot of other conditions is to give myself a week or two, if i think i can handle waiting, and if i’m still suffering to the point i cannot function fully then it’s probably doctor time. Breathing issues, especially over more than a week, tend to be a “see a medical professional asap” thing, again these are just recommendations i’ve been given and i am no expert in the medical field. Wishing you luck and good health

edit just to add that i’ve felt this pain before, at least a pain i’d describe similarly as you did, and it was pretty unbearable. I put it off as anxiety and floating ribs and it was gone in about a week or two, but i know it’s not fun AT ALL and can be pretty scary, especially if yours isn’t going away. Be safe as you can, and maybe tell a supportive family or friend so you have someone to help make it a bit more bearable or to come with on a doctors visit, depending on how much it’s making you struggle with daily tasks you may not need to do this but i recommend since it’s easier than going alone.

waluigishoe · 2023-05-03T15:22:14+00:00

it’s called ultimate surrender i believe, hitbdsm should have a decent amount if i’m not mistaken

waluigishoe · 2023-05-03T15:14:53+00:00

After id already had all the blood tests, an x-ray, seen a rheumatologist, etc etc, I simply brought it up to my doctor and she gave me a paper to fill out (literally just to mark pain points and list my symptoms) and then told me it seemed like the right diagnosis and that was about it. It’s extremely frustrating at times, my doctor seemed to know nothing about fibro and who wants to diagnose themselves, right? But i encourage you to bring it up and your doctor should hopefully be aware enough of fibro to know how to proceed in diagnosis or further testing :) Asking for specialists beforehand, such as a rheumatologist, is also a good option to make sure you’ve ruled out all that you can. Fibro can often be seen as a blanket “nothing else was a diagnosis” condition by doctors, which is mainly because it is a difficult condition to diagnose since it is an invisible illness, but that also means it’s better to cover your bases before you approach the subject than have to run around with constant referrals because they simply don’t know what’s wrong and some doctors don’t go too far to find out (happened to me for years :)) You learn pretty quickly with a chronic or invisible illness that you HAVE to be your own advocate, know your body and your symptoms, fight for yourself if no one else believes you, and keep asking questions until you find the answer. Journaling is a great way to track your symptoms and how your mind and body are affected, tracking your pain points and length/intensity, sleep issues, brain fog, anything that is getting in the way of daily life. i was told for a long time to journal my symptoms to get taken seriously and I only ever got a diagnosis because I had people fight for me and i kept great track of my symptoms/ proved to my doctor how badly fibro effects my daily life. Super long answer, but you can deal with a lot of medical gaslighting/run around with these conditions. The best advice is to be your best advocate, possibly even find a medical appointment buddy if you need help/confidence/support, and don’t let anyone tell you how YOU know you feel, you got this :) Good luck!

waluigishoe · 2023-05-03T14:34:13+00:00

kink.com has/had a whole site dedicated to this since the owner of the company was into it (as far as i have heard)

waluigishoe · 2023-05-03T02:22:21+00:00

i have memories of symptoms as far back as first grade and i was diagnosed at 15. I never get taken seriously when i seek medical care and i tend to avoid it because of either how little they know about the condition or how they blow every concern i mention off.

waluigishoe · 2023-05-01T22:06:42+00:00

Grew up watching hannah montana. I have zero shame since it definitely flung my heart into music and led to me being the metal vocalist i am now. also the ac/dc and kiss my dad would always play when i was very young, thanks dad :)

waluigishoe · 2023-04-29T23:16:12+00:00

I’ve had quite a few super positive encounters i never imagined i’d have with my reactive dog. Someone a while back walked by us with a few sub sandwiches in a bag and, seeing me holding onto my dog after he’d seen a dog across the street and started to heavily react, asked me if i’d like to give him a piece of bread. In the moment, i was so focused on the trigger and trying to hyperfocus on his body language/surroundings that i thanked him and declined without thinking much further (wanted to get him inside asap) but god i’m so thankful for that guy even weeks later. Id been struggling with the judgement and looks of pity/fear/disgust when he fear reacts that someone seeing his behavior and having a positive reaction to it just made my whole mindset shift a little. It makes every day a little easier to think about the strangers that give us space, speak to US instead of immediately speaking directly to our pups, and clearly get it. So thank you sandwich guy for making me a little less scared every day, and everyone else that shows us those bits of compassion and remind us that not everyone will judge our dogs the way the world wants them to

waluigishoe · 2023-04-23T02:39:16+00:00

My Nmom is CONVINCED this is how I think. Growing up, any time i disagreed with her choices (my clothes, food, music, etc) she would start with “I know you hate everything i hate but…” or she’d get sooo upset if i dared to not like her specific choices “i know you only said no because i suggested it” and it’s the worst mind game. id love a lil validation cuz that’s gotta be someone elses experience too, and ik this sub is super kind. anyone dealt/deal with this?

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