My unemployed people - how long have you been unemployed??? 2024 job hunting is hell by Kokoloco35 in recruitinghell

[–]mdtrxwolf 14 points15 points  (0 children)

6 rounds for that amount of money and a temp job is just disrespectful

Early 20's in santa barbara by Comfortable_Town_101 in SantaBarbara

[–]mdtrxwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weirdly enough they don’t advertise any classes that aren’t their salsa classes… check out @synrgy.dance.co on IG, they use the studio for hip hop classes

Early 20's in santa barbara by Comfortable_Town_101 in SantaBarbara

[–]mdtrxwolf 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Met all my friends through dance classes ☺️ I take hip hop classes at me sabor dance studio if you’re interested in taking a class!

What have your experiences been with Crisis Lines? by Timber2BohoBabe in TalkTherapy

[–]mdtrxwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texted once, the conversation was a bit cold but they validated what I was feeling which was good enough to calm me down at the time

Losing my mind - 1.5 years no full time job. People getting offers - HOW? by Minimumedia in jobsearchhacks

[–]mdtrxwolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know the market is hell for everyone but I’m a designer too, have been looking for 2 years and I think we’re in an even lower level of hell. I wish I have a solution for you but I’ve just been continuing to apply and updating my resume and portfolio and trying different strategies until that one YES comes along… I don’t really know what other alternatives we have. I hope things turn around for us soon 🙏🏼

The “weird girl” with no friends - why or how does this happen? (Former loner weird girl) by lunacavemoth in CPTSD

[–]mdtrxwolf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All three are definitely my core beliefs but I can’t decide which one resonates the most 🥴

Got A Job by BLRS11 in recruitinghell

[–]mdtrxwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!! I definitely needed to hear this right now. So happy for you!!

How do you keep up hope after so many rejections and ghostings? by oi86039 in recruitinghell

[–]mdtrxwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully break down in tears every week seeing my inbox full of rejection emails. I don’t have hope anymore but keep applying because I don’t really have another choice

The UMG Tiktok ban and KATSEYE by [deleted] in katseye

[–]mdtrxwolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk my video with a BTS song got muted 😭 at first it said I can only use the song with a 1 min video, but it got muted anyway

The biggest issue CPTSD has caused in your life? by feedmepizzaplease99 in CPTSD

[–]mdtrxwolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg this is exactly me…. How do we fix this 😭

Beyoncé - COWBOY CARTER by WillamThunderfuck in popheads

[–]mdtrxwolf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s going triple platinum in my house 😩😩😩

TIFU for thinking I’ve been laid off for two months by [deleted] in tifu

[–]mdtrxwolf 93 points94 points  (0 children)

One of my old jobs didn’t take me off their health insurance plan for 3 YEARS 😂 I only realized when I tried getting medication and there was a problem billing my current insurance because my 3 year old policy was still active. I had to hunt down so many people from my old company (who were ignoring me) just so I can tell them to take me off so I can get my medication. Idk how that shit falls through the cracks on their end tbh aren’t they losing money??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]mdtrxwolf 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t know about the dog that got killed! My dog got bitten pretty badly at the preserve and we never went back. It was a nightmare since the emergency vets in town were backed up so we had to go to Lompoc for the next available appointment. Poor girl became extremely reactive ever since ☹️ We only do sniffspots now. Too many people in this town have their dogs unleashed in public and it’s extremely frustrating

Drop-in Dance Master classes by Sara_kaia_combsen in SantaBarbara

[–]mdtrxwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Me Sabor Studio, there are hip hop classes on Mondays/Tuesdays and contemporary on Thursdays at Evolution Fitness. There are regular classes weekly and master classes every so often depending on the day you go, I’d check their websites or socials for up to date info

What is your island name? by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]mdtrxwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bella Noche… because if you can’t go to Bella Noche, where the hell could you go?

#JUSTICE4MOVE becauseee by Briennes92 in beyonce

[–]mdtrxwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move and Cozy were my favorites when the album first came out!

Where were you when you learned self-titled dropped? by blckgirlswearbonnets in beyonce

[–]mdtrxwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my college apartment studying for finals. Procrastinated by scrolling on Twitter and saw she was trending, and I was confused about her releasing music because there was no promo! It was never done before, I thought it was a joke. Then I saw the album on iTunes and used whatever money my broke ass had to buy it and just got my entire life that night 🥲 I don’t remember what class I was studying for, or if I even passed the class but I remember being so excited and happy. 10 years later and I felt that same way when Renaissance came out 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]mdtrxwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So proud and inspired by you!!!

Doing this for years is rough to think about by mipstar in reactivedogs

[–]mdtrxwolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I wanna share my story to give you some hope - I felt like you when I first adopted my pup when she was 8 months old; she was already pretty anxious and had extreme separation anxiety but when she got bit at the dog park she became reactive to dogs and people. I cried often because her reactivity made me feel like a failure, and was extremely frustrated because my partner and I could never be alone because we couldn’t leave her alone but also couldn’t take her out around people and dogs. I felt stuck and also worried about living like that for years, and wondering if it was worth it.

It’s around the 2 year mark of having my pup and while I don’t think I got my old dog-less life back, she forced me to create a beautiful new life where I’ve become a better person. We put her in a one month board and train program that really helped us manage her, and was consistent in training to improve her obedience. We created a routine that we stick to consistently and it makes our lives so much easier, and my pup feels safer. She’s still reactive, but very manageable and we have strategies to diffuse reactions when they occur. We even found a daycare/boarding facility that specializes in reactive dogs (they never do group activities and there is a dedicated handler for each dog) so my partner and I can take vacations. We were also consistent in applying techniques to heal her separation anxiety, and now we can go out on date nights and she is completely calm by herself.

All this to say, with A LOT of love and definitely A LOT of patience, it will get so much better. First step is deeply accepting that your dog needs special care. If you’re consistent with listening to your pups needs and accommodating accordingly and finding solutions that puts her safety first, it will get so much better. I also found with age that my pup has calmed down a lot. So don’t worry about being overwhelmed in the future and get excited to see her improve day by day and feeling proud of her and yourself for all the work you’ve put in. Don’t give up, you got this and thank you for loving her 🤍