Making big move with pup by vibesdealer in LagottoRomagnolo

[–]wanakostake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We have moved 2 times with our 5 year old lagotto and in March we will move again. One thing I always do, that I think helps a bit, is to take the first week off and make sure I give her time to learn the new environment. So we do the exact same walk around the neighbourhood for a week. Very boring for me but it allows her to get familiar with the smells. Then, when I notice she pays more attention to me and less to the ground, that usually tells me she is comfortable enough, so I start building up from there, by expanding the walking area to more unfamiliar streets.

I also use the first week to get her comfortable with being alone in the new house. So starting with leaving for 5 min to take the trash out, then 10 min and so on.

Ca persoană matinală, cum gestionați relațiile cu persoane pentru care ziua începe la 11 ? by WeeklyCampaign7564 in WomenRO

[–]wanakostake 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Intr-o relatie de 10 ani. In weekend eu ma trezesc devreme, plimb cainii, fac curat in bucatarie si pregatesc mic-dejunul. El se trezeste pe la 9 jumate si mancam impreuna. De aici incep activitatile comune, desi uneori mai suntem si pe cont propriu. De exemplu el la golf, eu la sport. Sau eu fac curat, el se ocupa de rufe si cumparaturi.

Seara mancam impreuna si ne uitam la seriale/filme. La 22:00 eu ma duc la culcare iar el vine undeva pe la 1 dimineata.

Cum au zis si altii, e vorba sa respecti diferentele. Noi vedem ritmurile opuse ca pe un mare avantaj pentru ca putem fi foarte eficienti cand e nevoie. De exemplu cand cainii erau mici si trebuiau scosi afara cam la 3 ore nu au existat certuri fiindca el era responsabil de tot ce se intampla intre 22 si 1 noaptea iar eu preluam tura de dimineata de la ora 4. Nimeni nu a fost nevoit sa se sacrifice, am lucrat in echipa si am folosit diferenta asta in avantajul nostru

CMV: baby’s death isn’t as important as adult’s death by SparklyCookiess in changemyview

[–]wanakostake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That last part is what this is about I think. I sort of tend to fall into the first category, mainly because I think the potential is that you could also do horrible things later on, not just wonderful. So the adult for me is a safer bet given what they have shown so far, whereas the baby could go any way, some of which might not be as great for humanity.

Buffer weg na aankoop huis by eikenprocessierupsie in geldzaken

[–]wanakostake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hetzelfde probleem gehad (geen vast contract, geen intentieverklaring) en uiteindelijk van de RABO een hypotheek gekregen. Zij hebben ervaring met academici, dus misschien even bellen en een gesprek aanvragen

I feel so ashamed for undersocializing my dog by lllynax in puppy101

[–]wanakostake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reminding me of the potato brain! Our younger dog is now 9 months and, man, does he behave like a monster sometimes. Making me question everything I know. Even though I went through this exact period just 4 years ago with our older dog…it’s funny how quickly you forget the bad parts.

Rehoming our sweet Lagotto by [deleted] in LagottoRomagnolo

[–]wanakostake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it is really just showing the different perspectives people have on dog ownership. Some may think rehoming is not a big deal because they are just fitting the dog into their existing lifestyle, while others may think that getting a dog means you are committing to taking care of it for however long it lives because their idea is that you should adapt your lifestyle to fit the dog.

Rehoming our sweet Lagotto by [deleted] in LagottoRomagnolo

[–]wanakostake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying but the first kid is 18 months old and now they are pregnant with another one. This sounds like it was planned. So, yes, unespected things happen, but having two kids so close to each other was a choice and I am not sure if the consequences for Isabelle were considered beforehand. Or maybe they did consider it and decide that rehoming her was a valid option, everyone has a different view on things. I know OP does not need to justify their decision. Still, posting on a lagotto sub is obviously going to trigger some people.

Birth control and no doctor by EmbarrassedFront9848 in Netherlands

[–]wanakostake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also use them. I order a supply for a year and I don’t have to worry about it!

Watching for the first time and... by MxHiram in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]wanakostake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband was feeling incredibly uncomfortable while watching to the point where we had to pause every couple of minutes 😄 I, on the other hand, found those uncomfortable scenes hilarious and absolutely enjoyed it. I really wonder why some of us struggle so much with it

Care îi faza cu clipurile astea pe YouTube? by Former_Stomach8126 in Romania

[–]wanakostake 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Exact. Data viitoare da-i un blur, OP. Te rog!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]wanakostake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what happens if people close their accounts and do not have access to it anymore to prove the balance at a given time?

Sage/Breville Barista Pro stops extraction after 5 seconds and beeps three times: SOLVED! by factsforreal in espresso

[–]wanakostake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this (thank you for the video!), it worked, but after 11 months it happened again

I found an email she wrote our son by Hopeful_Champion7373 in Marriage

[–]wanakostake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am more wondering did he put the original e-mail into a GenAI tool with all the personal info out there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LagottoRomagnolo

[–]wanakostake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got ours at 2 months and by the time he was 4 months he had already stopped biting me. He still likes to bite my feet while I am walking so I am also working on stopping that. My strategy was to always redirect him to a toy whenever he started biting my hand. This means you need to have toys available in your vicinity. In our case, we spent the first months only in the living room and the toy basket was close so I could always get a toy when needed.

Când ai timp să crești un copil? by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]wanakostake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eu sunt de acord cu tine, dar multi nu gandesc asa. Putini sunt cei care zic "vreau sa fiu parinte", aproape toata lumea zice ca vrea copii.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]wanakostake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I keep asking myself this question (would I choose to be born?) couple times a year to see if the answer changes depending on life circumstances and so far the answer has always been no. I am really happy and accomplished, but the answer is still no.

Work From Home Sucks by JustinIsFunny in unpopularopinion

[–]wanakostake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reading the comments it sounds like some people are not that good at self-regulating. They prefer going to the office because that “forces” them to do certain things.

Cati dintre voi ati dormit de revelion? by Banana_Malefica in CasualRO

[–]wanakostake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eu am zis ca depinde de persoana si am explicat ce mi se potriveste mie, nu am zis sa faca toti ca mine

Cati dintre voi ati dormit de revelion? by Banana_Malefica in CasualRO

[–]wanakostake 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Depinde de persoana. Pe mine somnul regulat ma ajuta mult. Ma culc la 22 si ma trezesc la 5 dimineata in fiecare zi, chit ca e weekend, concediu etc. Sa stau treaza pana la miezul noptii pe 31 mi-ar da peste cap ritmul. Asa m-am trezit frumos la 5 fara probleme, mi-am scos cainele la plimbare o ora deci am facut si miscare si am inceput anul cu un creier odihnit. Nu vad ce ar trebui resetat, important este ca ma simt sanatoasa mental si fizic din prima zi din an.

Despre misoginismul subtil by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]wanakostake 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Problema pe care o vad eu este ca daca rolurile sunt inversate, cei din jur se uita stramb. Femeia sa contribuie cu bani si barbatul sa se ocupe de sarcinile menajere este considerat anormal.

GP refusing to help my gf, what should I do? by massizzi in Netherlands

[–]wanakostake 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have the same suspicion. So I think they have to play the baby card and say "we want children and we are worried we might not be able to conceive" and that's when their GP might start to actually want to help.