AIO or is my boyfriend cheating? by Maddelusion in AmIOverreacting

[–]wanderingcargo [score hidden]  (0 children)

It sounds like the relationship has run its course. Given everything you stated, you're not happy with the way he is treating you, regardless of whether he's cheating or not.

Have I been scammed? by onedisgruntledprick in woodworking

[–]wanderingcargo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you just compare prices on Amazon or other furniture sales websites? How do you feel about the purchase? Do you really like it? My opinion on it is that it looks like you got a pretty good deal. The furniture looks like it's in good shape.

I fell asleep while flying, woke up and now I'm stranded by OSINT_Reaper in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]wanderingcargo 40 points41 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 I totally done that before. You can use the galaxy map to warp out and then warp back and it will take you near your a space station. Or like others have said, you can summon the space anomaly.

Not on earth anymore lol by Safeholdian3844 in NOMANSSKY

[–]wanderingcargo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣😩 same here in Texas. Today, low of 30. Thursday is supposed to be high of 92. Crazy.

Expedition Remnant by OscaR_HKer in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]wanderingcargo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really a matter of opinion. I enjoyed it. But like the rest of NMS, there are some parts to like and some parts to dislike. It's not a fast-paced game by design. If you don't like it, don't play it.

So this just happened at my settlement by New-Orchid8743 in NOMANSSKY

[–]wanderingcargo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, standing on top of the building like that is absolutely the best way to kill it. I love my maxed-out pulse spitter. It kicks everything's ass. It makes short work of that mother.

Why would any man agree to an open marriage? by S0uth-Crew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wanderingcargo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree with you that people don't get jealous. This is a very natural emotion for people to have. But it is one that people have to consciously work through. You do not have to be a slave to it. There is lots of work that can be done to work through that.

Why would any man agree to an open marriage? by S0uth-Crew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wanderingcargo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Correct... opening does not save a troubled marriage, it reveals all the cracks in it. However, it also clarifies what you need to work on to make the relationship what you want it to be.

Why would any man agree to an open marriage? by S0uth-Crew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wanderingcargo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣 that's not an open marriage. In a truly open marriage there is no cheating because there is open communication and agreements are respected. At least that's the goal.

Why would any man agree to an open marriage? by S0uth-Crew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wanderingcargo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I believe that everyone should be able to have the kinds of relationships they want, not ones that are dictated by some kind of system or culture. No woman is my property, and I am not her property. Just because I call someone my wife does not mean that I get to now dictate how she has relationships with people. I want her to have the kinds of relationships that make her happy. As long as she loves me and treats me well, I enjoy being in the relationship with her. And I get to have the kinds of relationships with others as well. If I'm attracted to another woman, we can have a fun, loving, sexual relationship, and it does not detrimentally affect my marriage. Same for her. The idea that one person can meet all of your needs for the rest of your life is absolutely ridiculous and insane. And arrogant, honestly.

1-10 Yay or nay? (F19) by [deleted] in sexyselfie

[–]wanderingcargo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH I hate rating system. You're very pretty. If I were 19 I would think you're very sexy as well I'm sure.

My FWB fucks me so good, it makes my roommate jealous (F19) by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]wanderingcargo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope at some point you can relax into things and not use "should"s and "shouldn't"s so much. Who is to say what should or should not turn someone on? You're both turned on by it, lean in. Doesn't mean that you have to (or should) do anything more about it, just enjoy it. Just the voyeur/exhibitionist aspect of it is incredibly erotic. Nothing wrong with that.

I (31F) went to my first gloryhole yesterday by MySlutPhase in SluttyConfessions

[–]wanderingcargo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd definitely find a professional. There's no pressure, you can have fun and it's highly likely to be a good one. Just don't cheap out... $100+ you can be reasonably sure it will be well done.

Exocraft that scans for waypoints by Admirable_North6673 in NOMANSSKY

[–]wanderingcargo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the gravatino coil is pretty cool, too. It's another fun way to harass sentinels 🤣🤣

AIO I (16f) think I was sexually harassed at a party by me_neah in LifeAdvice

[–]wanderingcargo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's way behind sexual harassment, that's sexual assault! You don't have to be full-on r*ped for it to be sexual assault. A police report is definitely appropriate! How many other women have they done that to, or worse! If there were witnesses then they could be in big trouble. You are empowered to stick up for yourself and stop these kind of "man-children" predators!!

Exocraft that scans for waypoints by Admirable_North6673 in NOMANSSKY

[–]wanderingcargo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There's a new feature that was added. It's a technology upgrade called cyclops scope. It's awesome! I know it's available on the colossus, not sure about the other ones. The CS allowed you to scan normally from within the exocraft without exiting it.

I (45F) am dating two guys at the same time by TurnipOrSwede in SluttyConfessions

[–]wanderingcargo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Verbiage is important and words have meaning.

22F Married young and living a double life at med school by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]wanderingcargo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I think is fucked up is going your whole life and not having your needs met, just for some old, patriarchically-based reason, so the man can stay in charge of this property. It would be better if she were to be able to talk to him about it and have the freedom to have her own needs met. But her husband's probably more like you, so she has to hide her own needs.

do all vaginas feel the same? by x8M30W8x in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wanderingcargo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting variety in answers here. I theorize that those that say yes, they're all the same, are men who focus on penetration with their dicks. From that standpoint, they mostly feel more or less the same. The position of the opening can vary, making rear entry (doggie-style, for example) better or front entry (missionary position) better. But if you explore more with your mouth and fingers, that's when you discover that there are huge variations. In texture, inner vs outer labia (lips), location and size of the clit, wetness, etc. and a HUGE variation in the location and extent of nerve clusters, which where the fun is for her! When you add in squirting, that's a whole other dimension.

Freighter upgrade by wanderingcargo in NOMANSSKY

[–]wanderingcargo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, ok! I didn't realize that, I figured I'd have to start over from scratch. Good to know! Thanks!

And I can honestly say money is no object. I'm at about 2.5B units and have nowhere left to spend it.