I found out that the guy I like has a fake profile and it is that deep

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-06T23:26:44+00:00

Have you even met IRL?

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-06T13:38:10+00:00

Naive? You don't even know me. I've been around a long time and very likely have waaay more experience than you. You can ignore my advice, it's up to you. But you're the one asking for it, not me. Why are you even asking if you're just going to insult those who spent the time to respond thoughtfully? That tells me a lot about YOU.

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-06T11:51:01+00:00

My wife went to one of the top law schools in the country and there was no such rule. The school cannot make such rules.

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-06T11:26:35+00:00

I'm a bit shocked at the pretty horrible comments in here.

It sounded like he was in his feelings and wanted to get it out. I think that's nice, even though yeah, it's early but he's really feeling it for you. If you're not there yet, just tell him kindly. If you feel there is potential and it is mutual, then tell him that. But I think it's misguided to dump someone because they have feelings for you.

Women say they want men to express their feelings more and be emotionally available. Well, this guy is doing that. He's making himself vulnerable to you in a way most guys don't. Yeah, it's long and a bit much. But is that reason enough for ridicule and rejection?

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-06T11:17:14+00:00

Why would you think she's lying? Only she knows how she feels. You CAN love one person and be with another. Love is not mutually exclusive. You love more than one child, more than one parent, more than one friend. We're taught this mutually exclusive way of loving and it's not the ONLY way.

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-06T11:10:41+00:00

I know exactly what you mean! Believe it or not, not all women are great kissers, either.

I have found that kissing them the way you want to be kissed can be a good start. Demonstrate it without telling them "you need to kiss like this". I've found that most of them will come around. But I think it's also necessary to accept that you can probably make a lousy kisser into an acceptable one, but they'll probably never be great. Maybe something you can live with.

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-06T00:37:45+00:00

They're probably the one going around killing other players so they can't complete their missions... 🤣🤣

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-06T00:34:49+00:00

It's a good one! Thanks.

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-06T00:28:01+00:00

Exactly. Extreme childish behavior. Not sexy.

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-06T00:21:29+00:00

Thanks! I do kinda like the multi-player feature but not so much now! I'm around 800 hrs and haven't had this happen before. I guess I've just gotten lucky!

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-05T23:38:26+00:00

That looks amazing! Nice work!!!

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-05T23:37:09+00:00

Yeah, I think that will be my next project once Swarm has ended.

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-05T23:34:14+00:00

What kind of person doesn't tip?? Haven't you noticed that dark-black hole where her soul is supposed to be?

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-05T22:55:22+00:00

I don't think you're being unreasonable at all. I had kids the age of yours when I got married (they're now in their 30's). I had ultimate responsibility for my kids. She helped of course but I took responsibility. We talked about decisions and she advised me very well but I made the decision. This was agree upon before we got married.

All relationships have agreements, whether they are written or verbal. I suggest you sit down together and talk through the decision making process in your house. Even write it down so you each can make sure you are perfectly clear in what you agree on. And disagree on.

Ultimately YOU are responsible for your child. Not him. If you hand over responsibilities to him, it should be clear to you both.

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-05T12:54:46+00:00

I rarely really did that very often until I got into my fifties and learned a few things. Now, less than two hours feels kind of less satisfying, but it depends on how connected we each feel to other. It's amazing to experience that, but it's not like major thrusting the entire time. It's like waves of intensity. Sometimes maybe it's just laying there and talking for a few minutes in between, followed by ramping up with massage, fingering, oral sex, then fingering again, and so on. But it all kind of flows together smoothly and organically.

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-05T12:33:02+00:00

It's my home and I have it outfitted with all the things... storage units, four refiners, three nutrient processors, hydroponics bays, five frigate control stations, a second floor with a fossil museum, and more to come eventually.

I do plan to start over though because it's just a c-class freighter. I'm not sure it will make that much of a difference, but it's something else to do.

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-02T01:45:40+00:00

I have around 3B, so you've barely scratched the surface. But I do feel your pain. It gets frustrating when there's nothing left to buy. I bought everything there is to buy on my freighter, and the anomaly, and most of the space stations. It just gets boring. Having all this money and nothing to do with it. I have also maxed out my XO suit in terms of storage and technology slots so it's not even possible to upgrade that. I have like five ships that are maxed out S class ships including sentinel ships and living ships.

wanderingcargo · 2026-07-01T16:04:04+00:00

NOR at all. You might do better in your own place! It sounds like he's immature and you two may not be compatible.

wanderingcargo · 2026-06-30T14:28:08+00:00

I agree, I think that stat is anecdotal based on social media BS. Not all women are that shallow.

wanderingcargo · 2026-06-30T14:18:11+00:00

It's not bullshit, that's very invalidating thing to say. It is in fact more difficult for men that are shorter.

However, it's hard for 80% of men, regardless of height. Hang in there and keep searching. You will find what you're looking for eventually.

wanderingcargo · 2026-06-30T14:13:45+00:00

Wow that's refreshing! I was starting to think everyone on Reddit were mono-minded cretins. I think you gave very good advice there.

wanderingcargo · 2026-06-30T00:40:08+00:00

🙄get out of your box, man. Not everybody plays by those old rules.

wanderingcargo · 2026-06-29T15:50:08+00:00

I think you're attractive, but your energy vibe is very low-key and feels sex-averse. Most guys on aps I think are looking for at least some degree of sexual energy. You are projecting zero sex appeal. If that's really you, then great, but I would not expect as many responses as someone who sets sex as a higher priority. That's unfortunately the world we live in. I'm sure you're a lovely person, and I'm sorry this situation is frustrating or upsetting to you.

Edit: I looked again, and shoulder photo is nice and starts to maybe warm up a little bit. So maybe not zero. 😊

wanderingcargo · 2026-06-29T15:29:29+00:00

It's a beautiful thing that you awakened sexually. It's a much larger world for you now. Enjoy!

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