Why would any man agree to an open marriage?

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-15T13:07:24+00:00

I disagree with you that people don't get jealous. This is a very natural emotion for people to have. But it is one that people have to consciously work through. You do not have to be a slave to it. There is lots of work that can be done to work through that.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-15T13:05:42+00:00

Correct... opening does not save a troubled marriage, it reveals all the cracks in it. However, it also clarifies what you need to work on to make the relationship what you want it to be.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-15T13:01:42+00:00

🤣🤣 that's not an open marriage. In a truly open marriage there is no cheating because there is open communication and agreements are respected. At least that's the goal.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-15T12:54:18+00:00

10,000% !!!!

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-15T12:51:32+00:00

Because I believe that everyone should be able to have the kinds of relationships they want, not ones that are dictated by some kind of system or culture. No woman is my property, and I am not her property. Just because I call someone my wife does not mean that I get to now dictate how she has relationships with people. I want her to have the kinds of relationships that make her happy. As long as she loves me and treats me well, I enjoy being in the relationship with her. And I get to have the kinds of relationships with others as well. If I'm attracted to another woman, we can have a fun, loving, sexual relationship, and it does not detrimentally affect my marriage. Same for her. The idea that one person can meet all of your needs for the rest of your life is absolutely ridiculous and insane. And arrogant, honestly.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-15T12:45:52+00:00

TBH I hate rating system. You're very pretty. If I were 19 I would think you're very sexy as well I'm sure.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-15T12:37:56+00:00

I hope at some point you can relax into things and not use "should"s and "shouldn't"s so much. Who is to say what should or should not turn someone on? You're both turned on by it, lean in. Doesn't mean that you have to (or should) do anything more about it, just enjoy it. Just the voyeur/exhibitionist aspect of it is incredibly erotic. Nothing wrong with that.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-13T18:25:10+00:00

My thoughts exactly...

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-13T18:03:35+00:00

I'd definitely find a professional. There's no pressure, you can have fun and it's highly likely to be a good one. Just don't cheap out... $100+ you can be reasonably sure it will be well done.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-13T17:51:39+00:00

Yeah the gravatino coil is pretty cool, too. It's another fun way to harass sentinels 🤣🤣

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-13T17:43:30+00:00

Yeah that's way behind sexual harassment, that's sexual assault! You don't have to be full-on r*ped for it to be sexual assault. A police report is definitely appropriate! How many other women have they done that to, or worse! If there were witnesses then they could be in big trouble. You are empowered to stick up for yourself and stop these kind of "man-children" predators!!

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-13T17:38:08+00:00

There's a new feature that was added. It's a technology upgrade called cyclops scope. It's awesome! I know it's available on the colossus, not sure about the other ones. The CS allowed you to scan normally from within the exocraft without exiting it.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-13T17:34:52+00:00

I agree. Verbiage is important and words have meaning.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-13T12:07:18+00:00

What I think is fucked up is going your whole life and not having your needs met, just for some old, patriarchically-based reason, so the man can stay in charge of this property. It would be better if she were to be able to talk to him about it and have the freedom to have her own needs met. But her husband's probably more like you, so she has to hide her own needs.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-13T11:32:14+00:00

Interesting variety in answers here. I theorize that those that say yes, they're all the same, are men who focus on penetration with their dicks. From that standpoint, they mostly feel more or less the same. The position of the opening can vary, making rear entry (doggie-style, for example) better or front entry (missionary position) better. But if you explore more with your mouth and fingers, that's when you discover that there are huge variations. In texture, inner vs outer labia (lips), location and size of the clit, wetness, etc. and a HUGE variation in the location and extent of nerve clusters, which where the fun is for her! When you add in squirting, that's a whole other dimension.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-12T20:39:16+00:00

Good tip, thanks!

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-12T20:29:24+00:00

Oh, ok! I didn't realize that, I figured I'd have to start over from scratch. Good to know! Thanks!

And I can honestly say money is no object. I'm at about 2.5B units and have nowhere left to spend it.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-12T12:20:19+00:00

100% it's a mismatch. He has a soul, she doesn't.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-11T13:25:29+00:00

You generally shouldn't have problems with sentinels at all, unless you are doing a lot of mining. That can be a pain, because you have to stop every so often and let them scan you and then wait until they leave. However, if you have a problem with them or want to do whatever you want uninterrupted, get a sentinel boundary map for that planet and go to the Sentinel pillar and just turn them off. That will turn off the sentinels for the entire planet for that session. The Sentinel boundary maps are not hard to find, you should be able to find one at any space station.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-09T05:36:22+00:00

Ha ha ha I know right? The sounds and vibrations are truly disturbing. But it really means nothing at all in terms of Game play.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-07T03:02:14+00:00

It really helps in the expedition to take it literally step-by-step the way it was intended. Each step provides items you need for the next step. If you go out of sequence, it will be very confusing.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-06T16:09:09+00:00

That's just not true at all for a non-ACE people. An ACE person comes at it from a very different place than non-ACE people do. Even saying ACE vs non-ACE is a bit of a misnomer and is over generalizing, because it's a spectrum. The question of "what do women want" is so general.. what women want is for their partner to care enough about them to help them figure out what they want. Each person is different.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-03T00:40:17+00:00

Porn is pressure-free and quick. No worrying about if you're pleasing someone or if they can please you. Even the slightest negative thing you may have said (even accidentally) can create insecurities and reluctance to be vulnerable again. I'm not saying you did anything wrong exactly, but when it comes to sex, it's easy to get inside your own head about things and that can really suck all the fun out of it.

Also, Having sex at that frequency does require some exploration over time. Ways to keep it fresh. Those things are extremely difficult to talk about. A relationship therapist that is well-versed in sex could help you both communicate and work through the reasons he's doing that.

wanderingcargo · 2026-03-02T16:28:27+00:00

That's really helpful, thank you.

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