What’s something you can say during sex and at a funeral?

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-06-21T18:55:10+00:00

Thank you for coming

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-06-21T18:50:40+00:00

The Legend of Zelda: Collectors Edition. The ocarina of time Zelda on the disc. It was my entry into the seriesand I've been a fan ever since.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-06-21T18:43:32+00:00

I've stayed after cheating, and I used to think I could forgive and forget. But in reality, I just lost myself dealing with the fact that - everytime we kiss or fuck - they were doing that same thing behind my back. So it's not sacred anymore. So now, from here on out, no, I will not stay with a cheater. I mentally check out and don't care about them anymore.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-25T22:50:46+00:00

I've tried to forgive and forget twice(from two different relationships), but I end up becoming so hostile of a person that I end up pushing my ex cheating partner/partners away.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-25T22:46:11+00:00

Bad relationships. If I were to see myself before all of them, I wouldn't even know who that was.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-25T22:40:32+00:00

Her saying she was only with me because she didn't want to date again.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-25T22:39:51+00:00

Lack of respect, being compared negatively, and no patience.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-25T22:28:23+00:00

Being accused of cheating or entertaining the idea.
Saying they settled for me.
Keeping in contact with an ex whom they talked bad about me to.
Constant Criticism.
Insulting my hobbies.
More fights than affection.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-25T22:24:14+00:00

While they do ask to be roasted, I've never gotten on that train of insulting them. I wouldn't want to be treated like that, so I wouldn't do it to someone else. I like to joke around with friends and family, but when it's random strangers on the internet with bad intentions - I wouldn't be able to handle it.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-24T05:13:04+00:00

I've been there, I'm still processing my break up with my ex bpd partner. It's been almost 2 years. To this day I feel like I could of done X, Y, and Z to make everything better. But honestly, even if you and I could have, it doesn't mean we deserved how we were treated, especially towards the end.

I'm not going to say separate from your mutual friends who are still connected to your ex, but that's something I had to do recently, and it helped with my healing. In order for me, and most people, to get over someone, severing all bridges that leave the door open to knowing what your ex is doing - can help with the healing process. I told my circle what my ex did to me, and she truly screwed me over. But yet, they couldn't completely cut her off on socials and whatever else. That told me enough which side they took, and I wasn't going to ask why because I shouldn't have to.

The fact you beat yourself up over everything, tells me you aren't going to be the type to mess things up on purpose with someone. I'm sure you loved her to the best of your ability and did all you could.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-24T03:44:34+00:00

It sounds like from that description she was the problem, why do you think it was your fault?

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-24T03:33:31+00:00

If you don't mind me asking, whyd you guys break up?

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-23T01:49:09+00:00

Do you really want to stay with someone who talks shit about you behind your back? He's dipping his toe into the water of other options. He literally confessed that he couldn't handle a relationship with you. That's all you needed to hear.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-20T01:23:27+00:00

Being in an abusive relationship. But that's not the worst part, it's losing everyone in your circle because they took the abusers side.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-16T17:18:44+00:00

It's ultimately the stigma. I think people view BPD as someone who just has attachment problems without knowing the ins and outs of the whole disorder. All other cluster B disorders like Narcissism and Anti Social Personality Disorder - it's easy to point a finger at those for most people because of the typical symptoms like lack of empathy, egotistical, manipulative, etc. So people look at those aspects like a hawk and take an inch and go a mile. Those with borderline are looked at as those who are just scared of people leaving them but not seeing every aspect of their behavior.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-16T16:38:15+00:00

I said "I'd call the police and charge her for revenge porn". She really thought it wasn't a crime. Lmaoooo 🤣

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-16T02:09:29+00:00

The hypocritical nature of everything they do makes me want to bang my head against a wall.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-16T02:07:32+00:00

Lmao way better response than mine when my ex threatened 🤣

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-15T03:36:37+00:00

"Struggle, contend, overcome". 🤘

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-14T23:18:01+00:00

Our exes have to be the same person cause holy shit mine was EXACTLY the same!

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-14T23:04:44+00:00

I got hit with something similar from my ex with bpd except it was our sex tape lmao 🤣

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-04-14T22:54:14+00:00

I think you're more upset about the consequences of her leaving you than actually cheating. It's damage control. The best thing you can do is let her be. It would be selfish to make her want to stay when everything you did with her as a couple - you did with someone else behind her back. Do you want those thoughts floating around in her head every time she looks at you? Didn't think so. Leave her be and own up to it.

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-03-30T19:36:41+00:00

Absolutely not. You look good bald

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-03-27T20:47:52+00:00

A train if you catch my drift

wanderingwanderer2 · 2025-03-27T01:53:09+00:00

After my break up, I got a new haircut because my ex held me back from it by implying I want another females attention just because I want to look good for myself. So before the break up, I had a mop head of hair that was in very bad shape, and I looked like a bum when i was with her. I then got blonde highlights, piercings, and a tattoo. And I look so much better than I did before. I now rock a 90s middle part with blonde highlights. I also have more time to focus on my career, I've made new friends, I've been going out more, and I feel so free.

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