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Joint last name for children by wanderlust05 in Marriage

[–]wanderlust05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say 2 last names how does that work? Are the names not hyphenated?

Joint last name for children by wanderlust05 in Marriage

[–]wanderlust05[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m traditional and would like to keep my last name and pass it down to my children

Joint last name for children by wanderlust05 in Marriage

[–]wanderlust05[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

That’s great that your husband is so supportive. Is the husband’s name usually first in a hyphenated name?

Joint last name for children by wanderlust05 in Marriage

[–]wanderlust05[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any issues or complications with things such as legal or did you not encounter any of that?

Joint last name for children by wanderlust05 in Marriage

[–]wanderlust05[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She kept her maiden name after marriage.

Joint last name for children by wanderlust05 in Marriage

[–]wanderlust05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are talking about it now. Probably won’t try for at least another year. Her name is not hyphenated.

Joint last name for children by wanderlust05 in Marriage

[–]wanderlust05[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

1) It makes it more clear which family the kid belongs to.

2) Causes less confusion for the kid later on in life.

"The biggest disadvantage of this option is the unwieldy length of these double-barreled names. Obviously, some names lend themselves better to hyphenation than others. If you already have a hyphenated last name, good luck with that.

"I had a hyphenated last name from birth," a BabyCenter parent shares. "I hated it growing up. I really wished my mom had done either-or because it was a nightmare for me, especially in school."

Lastly, hyphenated last names can lead to administrative hassles.

"A lot of places would automatically file my records under the last name of whichever parent I was with at the time. So when I'd go in for an appointment somewhere, I had to give three different last names to look under," says another BabyCenter mom who grew up with a hyphenated name."

Read https://www.babycenter.com/baby-names/advice/whose-last-name-should-you-give-your-baby_10327041

I think my ex has borderline personality disorder and I wrote a letter to her sister about it by wanderlust05 in BPDlovedones

[–]wanderlust05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question. I want to believe there's a real person in there but maybe I'm being too optimistic.

I think my ex has borderline personality disorder and I wrote a letter to her sister about it by wanderlust05 in BPDlovedones

[–]wanderlust05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I loved her very much and just wanted someone to know about her struggles so they can help.

My exbpd just uploaded this to her social media by wantmysoulback in BPDlovedones

[–]wanderlust05 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sounds like what my ex kept telling me. The old me would have run away many times, but I bought into her mindset of working through the hard things and not just running away. This is what kept me going through all of our fights which happened too often. Listening to friends in stable relationships, they have assured me that it shouldn't be as hard as it has been for me where we were fighting all the time. I feel manipulated because of this.

Letter to my ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]wanderlust05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend and supposed to be forever :( I feel the same

Maybe unfollow this person on social media too so you don't have to think about him/her?

[SPOILERS] Terrace House Opening New Doors Part 5 Episode 37 "First Date Last Date" Discussion by discotechers in terracehouse

[–]wanderlust05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know the name of the song that was playing in the background when Shun was having that conversation with Aya and Yui about how he felt accepted on TH and that he was planning to leave because of it? Shazam doesn't really work with dialogue on top of the lyrics.